Chasing Dreams- Thd7 CHP42, PG 130, Link to THD8 & CHP43, PG143 - Page 30

OMG Arnav is so annoying. I can't believe he is just throwing things on her face. He is behaving like a complete idiot.

Just shows how much Arnav will stand by Khushi when she is in a fix or needed support... He wants all the people related to him to agree to his idiologies when he is not even ready to make single compromise... Worse thing is that he is blaming Khushi for every thing... So I would understand of she would go for abortion and break her relationship with Arnav...because Arnav had let her down by blaming her...but how can she do the same ...INFACT worse to her parents...

i really hate arnav for his this kind of behavior.

Originally posted by: zainza

Ok the debate already seems to have started in my mind. I haven't read the other comments but I had this one question that I wanted to put before I got carried away with the discussion and forgot.

Does every woman automatically feel the maternal instinct when she gets pregnant and wants to keep the baby?

I hope I don't sound cruel but when I got pregnant the very next month after my marriage I didn't want the baby as I was still studying and I had career ambitions and my husband didn't have a job. Obviously I didn't abort my baby but I was severely depressed for the longest time and could not accept the fact that I had become a mother even after a long time after my daughter was born.

Another question that comes to my mind is that if the father wants to keep the baby and the mother doesn't (as the woman's life undergoes all the changes), I mean the other way round (there can be a possibility) then would the man be right and the woman wrong?

Wow.. So happy u r back.. And finally the story is moving fwd.. Pl start writin boomerang also..

very very nice update indeed 👍🏼

Originally posted by: zainza

Ok the debate already seems to have started in my mind. I haven't read the other comments but I had this one question that I wanted to put before I got carried away with the discussion and forgot.

Does every woman automatically feel the maternal instinct when she gets pregnant and wants to keep the baby?

I hope I don't sound cruel but when I got pregnant the very next month after my marriage I didn't want the baby as I was still studying and I had career ambitions and my husband didn't have a job. Obviously I didn't abort my baby but I was severely depressed for the longest time and could not accept the fact that I had become a mother even after a long time after my daughter was born.

Another question that comes to my mind is that if the father wants to keep the baby and the mother doesn't (as the woman's life undergoes all the changes), I mean the other way round (there can be a possibility) then would the man be right and the woman wrong?

Atlast I see that we are going to see the snippets in the prologue soon.. So now Khushi is pregnant...and she has shared this news to Arnav...I think both of them are right in their own perspectives.. Arnav never forced Khushi to get into this relationship..She got into this knowing the consequences and her love for Arnav , and not willing to lose him made her to get into this relationship and submitting herself to Arnav..So she can't blame him for this, and he has been reminding her to take the BCPs, and it is due to her carelessness she got pregnant; agreed that BCPs are not full-proof, but still she had missed out as well..From day 1, Arnav has been clear and set his expectations on what she is getting into once she is in relationship with him, and also reminding about BCPs. He clearly said that he doesn't believe in marriage and doesn't want kids..So, I wouldn't blame him for this. Khushi shouldn't put the blame on Arnav, she is also very much responsible for this.. Khushi being so much in love with him, had taken up a decision come what may she wanted to go for the live-in relationship with him, she should have anticipated this, and taken a cautious decision before taking a step towards union of their bodies. She is right that the call needs to be taken by both of them, they are equally responsible.. Looks like she is seriously going to take Arnav's decision and going abort the baby, if Arnav is adamant on that after sleeping over this issue..

It might take some time for Arnav to digest this news and accept the baby as his own and bring this life onto earth..It is. so sad that he told Khushi to abort the baby which is growing in her womb. I hope he sleeps over this issue and then take a wise decision, otherwise this is going to impact their relationship as well.. I hope he reaches on time at the hospital and stop Khushi from taking such a step as to abort the baby, just because he wants it.. If needed, I hope Khushi walks out with the baby in her womb, and lead a life without her family and Arnav. When she was willing to forgo her beliefs, values for her love, I think she should show that the love for her baby is more than anything else.

Eagerly and curiously looking forward for the next update, to see the turn of events after Arnav sleeps over the thought of Khushi being pregnant with his child, and the next steps he or she planning to take.

The moment I was waiting for a long time
My view point is that I agree with arnav in a way if his not ready for it then they should do something's about it and also I see what Khushi is trying to say it is hard for a mother to do this...
I have full faith in you, you will do full justices to this :)

Argh!!!! Arnav is being sooo stubborn. He doesn't evn want to consider any other options other than abortion. Poor khushi! Everything is all over the place. Her life is a complete mess. I'm glad that Payal advised her to stand up to Arnav and make her own choice. In addition if manorma tell garima about them both then she's got more trouble coming her way.