Arshi: Making Khushi Mine II ~ (THREAD 19) - Page 63

Originally posted by: tanu3579

hey bade papa :) :) ... i m soo happy u r doing well... i really really want to see u picking up hints... as u did when u came bak frm tht trip of urs n found the change in khushi-arnav dynamics by those wake-up knocks... n offering help...

n thts soo sweet... video games :) :) .. gd way to keep urself busy :) :) ... bt whn u talk abt khushi's frnds... knwing ur son, give him a luk too... u wud knw u r nt to talk abt rishabh :) :) ...

bt come to think if it... it was gd u did ask abt him..

coz even if arnav still dwells on wht rishabh thinks or believes... n wht not... he still cudnt hv missed tht khushi refused to call him. n mayb momentary... bt it wud hv pleased him... i wish he can see tht she is doing it coz she really really cares abt wht he wants.. his happiness, his comfort... more than anythg abt her life.. nt her frnds, nt her own happiness of keeping her frndship, nt her own choice of places she wud like to go.. or a movie she wud like to see... nthg...

her priority list has soo soo changed :) :) .. she might nt hv done is intentionally... as u did put beautifully... bt it sure has arnav n his smile, his peace .. rt at the top... n mayb, its there on a few places other than the number 1 too 😉

ok.. i hv been holding on long enuf... yay!! .. i m soo soo happy... tht camera is out again :) :) ... bt where r those sneaky pics... tht arnav is to tk without khushi finding out... ok.. no issues.. i will wait fr them 😉

loved the way.. both of them hv started feeling a change in themselves.. the need fr each other... not only emotionally, bt physically as well...

n here i hv to say... hats off to arnav... knwing fully well tht khushi wudnt refuse him anythg... he still respects the limits coz he knws .. fr her physical display of love, with not a gd enuf belief in love n marriage, wud nt b wht she expects/wants/needs/deserves...

i hv alwyas been arnav fan... bt this really mks me love him more... tht he is being honest.. in his own way... somethg khushi might nt knw ever.. though i wish they share this piece.. definitely this little detail... coz it sure wud mk her realise tht even whn he doesnt name it... she still cares for n respects her a lot.. n wud never knwingly hurt her... not till it is in his power...

this one spo.. specially fr u :) :)

u said u cant relate to arnav... let me add a little bit of my exp here.. my car was hit by a army truck once.. the big gigantic ones :) .. broke the car, the glass all over me.. i was saved, frm a head-on-hit, n sure death.. just in time, due to my collegues presence of mind... just a few scratches... it was abt 10 yrs bak... n yet.. till date.. if i ever see one of those trucks next to my car, i mk sure we slow down n let it pass...

some experiences... in life.. hit u soo soo hard.. tht u can never get over them. ever... u can learn to live with them.. which means.. u mk adjustments... bt u can never b whole again.. so well... i feel tht i can understand him hanging onto past hurt, more than luking fwd to pleasent loving future...

my exp was sthg tht is very common... accidents happen... plus i was nt hurt atall.. bt tht 1 sec trauma stays...

now think abt arnav... he lived years of being used... years trusting his mom over his father... years being neglected by the mother he chose over his father... years thinking y did his father agree to not seeing him, years wondering if his father cares fr him then y doesnt he still try n get arnav to his side...

n one fine say... he comes to knw.. all his love n standing by him mom... was him being fooled... n for wht... just some money... his signatures being forged... rendering him not needed even fr tht..

just imagine how deep tht scar wud b... he found his life nt worth, n decided to waste it.. drugs n drinking.. nt caring if he dies..

even now.. whn we talk abt khushi healing arnav... we need to realise.. tht he can never b whole again... he can learn.. he can adjust... he wud definitely b able to b whole fr khushi... bt arnav wud b complete only fr khushi.. never fr the outside world... arnav, himself wud never b the same ... in totallity... n expecting tht... wud b not real..

yes he compares khushi with sujata... bt he compares his own self with sujata as well... a person who doesnt trust his own self... how do we expect him to trust someone else.

i believe.. one has to realise/accept the existence of 'i' before they can move on to 'u', 'us'... n everythg else.

n i must say.. tht i m happy he compares... coz unless he sees the difference between khushi n sujata.. he wud never b able to realise tht not everyone is to b 'not trusted'... some ppl r honest to the core...

thx anon... u gave us tht small little n yet big scene whr arnav shows khushi tht her inability.. has nthg to do with a normal life :) ... tht he doesnt care fr a minute if she has issue walking.. he is rt there to walk her thru every stair-without-railings :) .. bt.. he is not going to leave her side :) her own personal railing :) ... fr every staircase in the world :)

haye.. tht was too too cute :) :)

tht i think.. is his little way of showing his dedication n effort in this marriage.. towards khushi :)

n he does notice khushi's concern fr his food :) .. the sandwiches .. i m sure were yummm :)

i m sure arnav has issues with rishabh... which i doubt wud ever b resolved... bt i m hoping he is nt doubting khushi.. actually i knw he is not.. bt he sure is nt going to trust rishabh anytime soon... if he ever does tht.. :) :)

mking sure rishabh thinks khushi went on her honeymoon.. thts the ASR planning in action :) :)

i love the way arnav n ASR mk their appearence whn needed :) .. n his anger sure knws how to get khushi to agree :) .. simple by not replying... he got her to try :) ..

i m sure lavanya wud hv no issues with extended leave :) .. afterall she knws khushi has a sexy husband 😉 .. so dubai trip is almost set :)

btw arnav .. khushi... u guys need to talk abt hte sleeping postures 😉.. i think elephant seal, n not-lady-like r long gone... its a pillow-hug now :) :) go on... wake up at the same time one day :)

i love the effort arnav is putting in.. trying to accept marriage... n trying to hold bak till he does tht.. .. i can see he is trying... bt unlike khushi.. he needs more time to adjust to the changes... every person tks his own time afterall :) :) ..

bt the very fact tht he is thinking n wanting to push himself to accept it... over his past prejudices... tht in itself is worth a mention n deserves appreciation :) :) not long arnav... u wud b there soon :) :)

PS: loved the way khushi is growing as a wife.. trying to figure out if her husband does see her as a wife, n if nt.. then y :) :) ... n loved arnav... i mean his encounter with sarees :) ... if only their self-thots were attached to some mic 😉 .. n they cud hv heard each other's minds :) :) .. they wud hv soo loved it :) :)

loved the ease n comfort they both had whn he tuk her up those stairs.. n down too eventually :)

PPS: arnav.. pls atleast start with kising before she falls into her insecurities of u nt wanting her as ur wife...

Originally posted by: sphobic

thanks, di for taking so much pain... :)

after all so detailed explanation i don't have much to say...i can only say that i am a hopeless case..

i don't know what to do...i truly enjoy a jealous Arnav but here he is something very different, i am not able to associate the jealous word with him...the word seems so small to describe him...

hmmm...as i see that every one is enjoying this Arnav and believe me i too want to enjoy but i dont know what is the problem with me...😔

i hope i come out of this...whatever it is, soon...

and once again thanks for trying to put some sense in me 😆...you know after this update i have read few comments,...as i know everyone will be happy by Arnav's behavior, so that i can see the update from different angle, and i think it helped a lot😊.. ...and aap toh ho hi Mr. Raizada's lawyer 😉😆

Originally posted by: shruti46

OH after looong tym,comment came from rishabh diwani...

exams khatm nai ho tere ,just like arnav ka controling power,huh both r endless..

n no dear friend u r not hopeless,its just that you find rishabh more realistic i guess..

dont worry,,u will to start accepting arnav...after sometime...

even i cant Associate"jealous"with arnav...😛

Originally posted by: sphobic

Oh God!!! please quit this yaar...i am not a fan of anyone here..please(haath jod ke)

my not liking this Arnav is nothing to do with Rishabh...ye kaha se aaya??

and i think Arnav's jealousy is not that i am having a problem with...i dont know...i think Khushi always trying and Arnav still muddling up with his past and all his conceptions is the problem here...

Originally posted by: shruti46

are hath mat jod,teasing u is fun😉aur itne dino baad mauka mil raha h...

hmm not liking arnav,,pooja definately diff sochti h..league s hatkar...😊

are give some time yar...1 year and 2 months are quite less time to heal wounds of 30 years...

i also thing khushi is investing more in this relationship...but it is also fact when arnav will start investing there will be no stopping...

Originally posted by: sphobic

i think this is the problem...Khushi making so efforts and Arnav just happy with the thought that he has secured Khushi for him...

and loved the red lines...i think when this will start, i will start liking him again... :D