ArShiFF: The Dawn of the Dawn - Thread 2 - COMPLETED - Page 40

AWESOME UPDATE, I LOVED THIS CHAPTER SOOO MUCH MUCH MUCH!!! Omg, something cute passed between them, Khushi why did you have to ruin the moment?! It's not wrong, if it felt right! ❤️ Poor Arnav, he just can't take Khushi's rejection anymore, I wish he would just tell her once about his feelings and clear away all the misunderstandings between them! Awww Garima aunty and Khushi were crying, that made me a bit emotional! Khushi you're only meant to be with Arnav , don't you even dare think about leaving them! 😭 Oh gosh, I'm really worried, I don't want NK to end with Khushi, when only Arnav has the right over, I hope something happens so that Khushi goes with Arnav, and not with NK, hate him sooo much! 😡😡😡 Awww I loved when Khushi blushed when Khushi's mom said, "hurry up, your angry man must be waiting for you." 😳 Hahhaha Akash, leave Arnav alone lol!😆 Awww loved how Arnav was mesmerized by Khushi's ethereal beauty, rabba ve, it was super cute! ❤️ The best part was when Arnav became nervous, he really loves Khushi so much! Khushi you have no idea how lucky you are to have the love of man like Arnav Singh Raizada!😭 Awww NK, go die, I want Khushi to be with Arnav forever! I'm glad Khushi made eyecontact with Arnav when she was plaing the jaimala around his neck and omg her tears and Arnav's trmebling hands while tying the manglasutra around her neck, and their silent questions were just so painful! 😭 Deepthiya, do something, please make Khushi realize Arnav's importance, make her see his love and without her knowing NK's intentions, because thats true love! 😭😭 Awww the bidaai is always so painful, Khushi if you have a heart and some morales left in you, then you will stay with Arnav. I find it ironic that Khushi tells Arnav that he doesn't have heart, when in realoty she doesn't have a heart and the courage to face the truth! 😲Omg, I loved the beginning of their converstaiong in the car, until they Khushi took out the property papers, when Arnav took out the divorce papers, and worst of all when Arnav said "hamra rishta yahi tak kah ta." How can see say something like that, doesn't it hurt him, this is just so painful! 😭 Khushi, I really hate you for this! 😡 Awww Arnav, I'm so sorry you had to go through with this, your teas sting my skin! 😭 Omg, the water level is rising and no one is coming for help, why would NK come for Khushi's rescue, he probably wants her to die, so he can get all her proeprty, he'll probably come when she gets saved. Arnav, I love how you came to Khushi's rescue, even though she did not deserve, because even then she was calling NK for help, HATE THAT!! 😡 Awww Arnav saved Khushi and with so much love and care! And awww thier tight hug, his concern for her, and her concern for him, that was just soo cute!!❤️ NK, when will you stop being a kabab mein hadi, stop interrupting Arnav's and Khushi's most sweetest moments. You couldn't help Khushi before, so why bother now, you jerk! AWESOME UPDATE, IT MADE ME CRY, BUT I LOVED IT!!! EXCITED TO READ CHAPTER 12!!! :D

😭I'VE FINALLY REACHED CHAPTER 12, YAYYY!! 😃I'M LOVING DAWN OF THE DAWN SO SO SO MUCH, AND I JUST CAN'T WAIT TILL KHUSHI FALLS FOR ARNAV, THAT WILL BE AMAZING!!❤️❤️So as usual, NK came to the rescue when Khushi had already been saved by Arnav, NK you're timing is always wrong and maybe you shouldn't have come at all!! 😡 HOW DARE YOU HAVE THE NERVE TO KISS KHUSHI'S CHEEKS IN FRONT OF ARNAV, YOU DON'T DESERVE HER, SO BACK OFF!!! Arnav your biggest mistake was to fall for a girl whose in love with another man, and Khushi your are just too blind to see the love of a man who loves who more than his life, but ironically you can see the love of man who only loves you're money, what a pity! 🥱😕 I'm glad that Khushi was getting curious and her mind was only occupied with Arnav''s thoughts and his cause for saving her and the reason for his anger! I hope Khushi realizes the truth soon and I really hope Arnav confesses all his feelings to her before its too late! 😲😲😲 OH NK, JUST GET THE HELLA OUTTA HERE AND STOP TELLING KHUSHI WHAT TO DO!!😡😡 Awww Arnav truly loves Khushi and he's willing to give up his life, just for her ❤️ I hope Khushi will do the same someday! The conversation between Arnav and Khushi was just so painful and Arnav what is holding you back from telling Khushi how you really feel?! PLEASE TELL HER ALREADY!! So that all the misunderstandings between you two get cleared up once and for all! 😭😭😭 Ooh GO ARNAV!! LOVED THE WAY ARNAV COURAGEOUSLY AND BOLDLY TOLD NK OFF, HE DESERVED EVERY BIT OF IT!!! Cuz NK is a lying, cheating, greedy, JERK!! NK, YOU BELONG IN HELL!! 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡 NK, noe one gives a damn about your opinion, you're a scumbag, and you don't deserve Khushi, so GET THE HELL OUTTA HERE!!!😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡I'm glad Khushi is rethinking everything over and thats she finally realized who her heart, soul, and mind actually belongs too, thank god reality kicked in before it was too late!! WOOHOO, GO KHUSHI!! LOVED THE WAY SHE TOLD NK OFF!! 😃😃😃 NK, did I mention that I hate liars, because hate liars, and especially greedy liars like you, GO TOOO HELL!! 😡 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡Khushi, you're decision showed that you have matured and grown up and that you have a heart and most importantly you have high morales, proud of you!!😃 😊 Now, NK, this is the right time for you to leave Khushi's life once and for all, yay yay yay!! :D Oh noo, the phone lines are not working and omg the heavy rainfall is just awful just like NK's timing! Oh noo, Khushi called her dad and her parents rushed to get her, I have a good feeling this chapter won't end happily! Omg, Khushi told them part of the truth😲and Khushi's dad doesn't wanna hear the whole truth until they find Arnav, this is getting way too intense!! Khushi's family finally reached the Raizada mansion, omg lets see what happens, things don't look too good!😲 Oh poor Arnav, don't worry Arnav everything will be ok, Khushi came back just for you!! 😭 Omg that was bad, really really bad! Arnav lied, khushi couldn't stop crying and didn't speak up, Khushi's dad insulted Arnav, and Arnav kicked them out! This was not howw it was supposed to end and worst of Arnav didn't try to stop Khushi, NOOO THIS IS NOT HOW IT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 OMG, THIS CANNOT BE HAPPENING!! I hope its a nightmare that everyone will wake up from! i wish they both told the truth, now they both are stuck in a web full of nothing but misunderstandings!! 😭😭 Omg, this is just too painful, Khushi made every effort to be with Arnav, but fate was not on her side! And Khushi I wish you heard the truth, cuz that was arnav lying! Arnav, I hate you, you were supposed to say you love her, why did you choose this time to lie?!!! 😭😭😡😡😭😭 Awww Arnav, I feel for you and don't worry Khushi loves you too and she needs you just as much as you need her! never take a decision when you're angry and tell Khushi the truth right away!! YOUR UPDATE LEFT ME SPEECHLESS!! LOVED ITT! :D DESPERATE TO READ THE NEXT CHAPTER, SO UPDATE ASAP!!! :D

Originally posted by: daljeet

Hi Di,

First of all thank you for taking the pain to explain your POV to my confusion or rather opinion.😊

I must say I agree with some points in your explanation.

1. I can understand the first 3 paragraphs of your explanation. And trust me, I have no opposing opinion to it, though I have not experienced any of it. Shashi promising Kushi's hand for marriage and his reasons for it, I didn't have a problem before too.

Yes one thing I did say, that is what if in your story the positions were reversed, that is, if Arnav was in NK's position, her true lover and NK in Arnav's position to whom Shashi has promised her hand. I mean, at times you will find yourself at such positions. For Kushi now NK is what Arnav is for Kushi for us! Hope I made sense.

According to me, if Arnav was in NK position, Arnav would have stood by Khushi on the night of her birthday when they come to know that she is engaged to someone else. He wouldnt have left Khushi to sort it out by herself. And I am sure he would have also given ultimatum to Shashi because thats just his character.

But then I am not Angry on Shashi for that. Absolutely NO.

And on a side note, you have a wonderful hubby!😳

Thank You dear. I am blessed :)

2. Your para 4, about the dosha thing. You shared your personal experience too. I can imagine what you and your family went through because my sister is going through the same thing now. We have gone through innumerable proposals for her, but because of horoscope nothing would work. So I know that situation. BUT, me and my father are staunchly against it. I mean if a guy comes saying he doesn't believe in horoscope, my father would go ahead with the proposal after checking other things. I mean only hindus have this mechanism. Aren't christians and muslims too marrying? Why won't people among them have chowa doshas etc? But are anybody bothering about it in their religion? Death or whatever is not something that can be avoided or prevented. Horoscope is a shastra, based on the positionings of the planets and stars. I respect that shasthra but I don't believe in astrologers of today's time and I believe horoscope, society everything is made for people to live more comfortably and cautiously. They are for us and we are not for them! But in today's society all such shastras are being misused.

I have been through the stage what your sis is going through so I can totally relate but again good times will come. That day you will thank god that it all happened for good. Because it happened to me and I believe that everything happens for good.

I don't stand up for blind superstitions. So if Garima and Shashi suffered in their child's absense then I would say THEY DESERVED IT.

That is little harsh for my characters the way I imagined. But again I can understand, its the situation you are in doing the talking so I dont think I will be able to convince in any way. But one thing I say, no parents deserve to stay away from their kids and vice versa. I am not sure in which country you are living in but Just to give you some reality of today's world, I live in USA. People come here to make money. They give birth to kids so that they become US Citizens. At least 50% of them send their kids to India to their grandparents for 3-5 years to save money on day care and stress. I am totally against those parents and I believe they shouldnt have given birth at all. My story is very much modern day based and according to me Neither Shashi, Garima, nor Khushi deserve the separation and each suffered to the same level. They atleast made sure she is safe and comfortable whereever she was and definitely had frequent trips. Its not like she is left to be orphan. She just missed the parent bonding which became very fashion in today's world. So I really dont know how to convince that Shashi is not mean or stupid. His love for his friend made him take certain decisions.

Because it was their foolishness and blind belief that made them that loss. Whereas Kushi, as you explained is not superstitious and she doesn't count herself responsible for Arnav's misfortune. Good for her. I respct her for that. But even beyond having sense, she had to have that loss becuase of her STUPID PARENTS! Oh! I'm getting so angry on Shahsi and Garima for it, you know!😡

3. Yea I told you that. Kushi is an all forgiving angel in almost all stories. But you know what, I don't believe in such characters because normal human beings have all the positive and negative emotions in them. One can't be fully good nor fully bad. Nobody can be all forgiving like Kushi is portrayed in the serial and in most of the stories here. I don't believe such girls exist. If they do, then take it for granted that they will be doormats all their lives.

Again I have to disagree with you here sweetheart. Such girls do exist and they are definitely not doormats. And the classic example is myself. Let me share part of my personal life here. My marriage was fixed verbally with a guy but no engagement happened yet that time. I then met my husband through common friend. We fell in love the very first day. I told my parents and asked them to cancel that proposal and fix with my husband. They were not too happy about it. My husband faced lot of insults and criticism. Finally when we went for our marriage to India, some incidents happened that I will never forget in my life, like throwing things on your face in public. throwing water on your face, asking my husband to take AIDS test..etc, I was definitely angry with my parents then. But I never said a word or cried because I understood what they were going through as parents and most importantly I understood how much they missed their life for us. If I had taken one wrong step because of my falter ego, I would have been lonely all these years inspite of having my lovely husband. Today I can proudly say that I set an example for my kid. Atleast I thank them every single day that they didnt leave us in any garbage bin when we were born. So I dont believe in punishing or forgiving parents unless they are extreme like molesting, abusing, leaving them in orphanage or killing. Sorry to disagree but such women definetely are not doormats. Women who suffer mental anguish inside and pretend that everything is alright from outside, are called as doormats. There is thin line between becoming door mat and being sensible.

In this case too, I never said Khushi is fully positive. She is sensible and reacts to things considering whole picture than just that incident.

Didn't Arnav himself say that to her, that she lost her 8 years of life for absolutely nothing!

Yes He did say but he doesnt know how much she contributed to his success, which we will touch base in the upcoming chappies.

'm a feminist, and that doesn't mean I am a man hater. But I hate such weak and Goddess like portrayed women in fiction and films and men who are orthodox!

So I actually didn't have any expectations from Kushi as such here. Because when I read the character sketch, I knew she will forgive everyone for everything. So as I said in my comment, I don't expect her to give them the pain they deserve by her ignorance, and that makes me even more angry and disgusted about Garima and Sashi!!!

If it was in my power I wouldn't have let them have even that 8 years with their kid. I would have made Kushi ignorant and aloof from her parents as they don't DESERVE her love.

Sorry I have to disagree with you here again, but I respect your opinion.

A person, need not be a parent itself, but a person who has taken away all your dreams, the love and care you should get, does such a person deserve your love? Does orphaned kids always love their parents who threw them away like garbage? No. They fight with more vigor in this world, where their parents have abandoned them!

Will a girl ever be able to love a man who raped her? I am not saying Shashi and Garima did crimes equivalent to this, but ultimately it falls in the same category because the result of their actions leads Kushi to the same pain and isolation!

Nope, they do not fall into same category. Again Khushi had all luxuries and everything she wanted. Its not like Garima and Shashi never met her in person in all these years. They did hang out alot and vacationed alot. Its just that she was never allowed to be in India. I didnt really thought that I needed to explain their bonding in detail. I am sorry if that led you to have some misconceptions about the characters.

4 I understand they way you see things. I hope I have made clear my views too. It is just that we think a tad -bit differently. 😆

Absolutely! Poles apart...LOL

I'm sad to say this, but I don't think anything can change the hate and repulsive feeling I feel for Shashi and Garima for their heinous act to Kushi for SOME STUPID BELIEFS, and my gratitude to God for not making me born to such parents. In fact I did pray after reading those parts that NO GIRL should be born to such parents. Such superstitious parents better don't have children because as seen here, they are not going to be able to take care of their child! I had actually read an article somewhere, where it said that parents killed or raped their infant or kids just for some doshas in horoscope and such strange beliefs. Have you heard of girls being married to animlas or trees to overcome some doshas in their horoscope? What does that make you feel Di? Can you ever forgive such parents? Is horoscope really worth a kid's life? her childhood? Her dreams?

I cant really generalize and answer your questions. I am a very positive person and I like to hear both ends of the story. Every child is different, every parent is different and each their lives are different. Aishwarya Rai is married to tree first but she doesnt hate her parents. Some parents take certain measures for their kids safety. We cant wrong them. Again it all comes down to the situation. Everything has to be within means and best interest of the family.

Kushi lost her childhood, her dream to study in the institution she dreamt of, her career.

I will not agree with the second part of the statement because, she didnt join NY University as her career choice. She moved to NY University for NK. And I clearly mentioned it in the chapters :)

And no 1000s of Arnav can replace all that. That can happen only in stories, not in real life. So in my eyes, Kushi's parents are disgusting and Kushi's loss can never be requited.

Though I would like to add this, that I had thought if at least Arnav understood her loss and let her continue her studies in their college where she was cruelly brought back from, help her set up her career, give her the care of a father and mother, I know that is a bit overboard. Yet, I think these three things can somehow calm me if not for Kushi🤣

Sorry dear nothing of that sort is going to happen in this story. Khushi is already graduated from local college. Again I mentioned it in the chapters. She is very smart and independent lady and she will not need anybody's help to support herself. You will have gist of her true character in upcoming chapters. Also, Shashi plays a very important role. Its too soon to judge a character. We just completed 12 chappies. Lets see if your opinion changes by end of FF. I will be sooo happy if it does. If it doesnt, no issues, I will respect each of your word :) and I will still love you :)

Good Luck to your sister.

But really thank you so much for taking my comment so seriously and explaining your thoughts about it. It means a lot. I'm sorry that I couldn't get convinced😛. Trust me, I tried. I read your reply with open mind, keeping aside my thoughts for Sashi. I can understand why Sashi did it, his love and respect for Raizadas but I can't understand his reasons as in my eyes it is not worth it, it is not worth spoiling Kushi's 27 years of life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!🥺

Originally posted by: starsarun

Everybody have their own POVs. In my family, as it joint one so when proposals came for My big brother and sister. The duty of matching horoscopes thru Panditji was the responsibility of Mama and Badi mama. For having enquiry about families is to My Papa. Papa and Bade papa too don't believe in this. But if u r in a hindu family then it had become 1st thing now a days.
Acc. To me, Since Khushi's alliance was already fixed with Arnav so her parents will offcourse think about both families hapiness. Parents always wanted right for their children, so she should have trusted them.
About NK, he was a coward too. He never tried to meet her parents for their relationship.
Any father will be furious to see her newly wedded daughter in bridal dress itself standing alone on the road. So Shashi was and lashed out on Arnav. Things happened in RM were in the heat of moment. Shashi was furious, so Arnav lied to save Khushi. Thats for Shashi bad mouthed Arnav and Raizadas. Coz only for this alliance, he stayed away from Khushi, trusted Arnav like hell for Khushi and Cred for Arnav as his own son.