OS: How I Knew (For Every Girl) - Page 2

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Posted: 12 years ago
#11
definitely among the most honest pieces I've ever come across.

its all in front of us, yes our expectations are our biggest mistakes but a heart feels what it wants to feel a heart sees what it wants to see a heart hopes for what it wants, a heart dreams. and yes we girls, we expect to have our own personal bad ass damons and adorable Dr armaans. but that's all they are, mere expectations. the world isn't going to provide us with a custom made man and love story but whatever it does provide us with, we will make adjustments because dreaming and expectations can only be so much.

love stories are found everywhere, for me love is my parents, had an arranged marriage, saw each other for the first time at their engagement, but even today, after 25 years of their marriage, three children and uncountable fights my father still comes running if mum falls ill, cooks when she's not well, mum still wakes up at night if pops isn't well or needs something or to just open the gate when he's coming from an out of town office trip in the middle of the night.

I am a hopeless romantic, yes, but am I in a relationship, no, do I want to be in one as of now, no, for I do have a very practical head to go with my romantic misguided heart and as of now or in the next few years I don't wish for romantic involvement, my control, my ideologies, my perspective is too important for me. but someday I would want to be loved by someone too, be in love with someone but I will define it, decide it when the time comes.

wonderful OS

cheers
sonia
Edited by sonia_92 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#12

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This has touched me. And i am not joking. I am seriously humbled reading this <3
Just because you wrote what each and every girl feels.
I'll be stupid enough to admit that i have always hoped and wanted a love like Arnav and Khushi's or any other classic romantic couple who had the cliched 'can't live without each other' thing. And i assume it's not just me. Every girl who hasn't reached womanhood yet has wanted true love and nothing else.
But sadly, that's where true love's image breaks. That's because not all are lucky to find it.
I'm also a 18 year old girl who wishes for a person with whom i can spend my whole life with a cliched 'happily ever after'. But as i am getting older, i see so much around me that now it feels as if love isn't there.
Hell, i don't even know how you fall in love. Does it happen suddenly? What if you don't feel the same for a person after some time?
On the other hand, i don't know why people of our generation use the term 'boyfriend-girlfriend' or 'going out'. I just don't like it. Its just like defaming one of the most important relationship of your life.
In conclusion, i will say that i hope every girl does find a soulmate with whom she can spend life happily. Because if your not happy with your life, you can't spread happiness.
Sorry for the rant. Just got a teeny weeny bit emotionall :')
Edited by ShiningStar18 - 12 years ago
Stapleton thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
#13
beautifully written...


thanks 4 d pm
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Posted: 12 years ago
#14
What I'm trying to get at is that love doesn't have a definition, it's a blank piece of paper. But you have the pencil in your hands to define what love means to you.

That is so true Shweta! I love the way u worded this!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#15
Awww that was so cute! <3 Loved it <3
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Posted: 12 years ago
#16
This was actually amazing Shweta, I loved it. Super relatable.
I honestly am always at a loss of words when I read your work. Beautifully written.
Unfortunately, I have given up on love and don't believe in it anymore due to personal events I've experienced.
This actually made me tear up a bit at this part: "I began to question him, I began to question "us"".
It just reminded me of a couple years ago, when I did the same thing, and then ended up regretting it til' this day.
Not much writing makes me emotional, only good writing. You made me emotional with this and so kudos to you.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#17
Why are you so sweet Shweta?

This was so beautifully written and now I think I know how to tell.
I have no words :)

You're so sweet and kind and the way you wrote this, it wasn't cheesy, it wasn't romanticy.
It was exactly what each girl has,will and is going through her life.
We all question if we know love or not. We all come in that stage of life where we start questioning ourselves whether this feeling even exists or not.

I love the analogy you wrote about the eraser shavings is how mature we have become.
I am so happy for you that you have such an amazing boy/man in your life who makes you happy, treats you like his and only his princess.
Not every relationship has to end up in eternal love and marriage and all that.
The main thing is that you don't regret being with him :)

Thanks a lot for this Shweta, it really opened my eyes.

Love you lots!

-Disha
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Posted: 12 years ago
#18
Hun, in real life, the sky does not sizzle, rain does not come pouring, violins don't play in the background. Just one thing happens. Your heart sighs and starts beating for someone else. That's how you know. That's how everyone of us knows.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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beautifully written.
loved it.
thanks for the pm.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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