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Posted: 13 years ago
Nice girl talk. Indira laid it very well when khushi asked how long is she gonna hang on to it. Well said. It is very easy to talk or advice others but very hard to implement on self. glad that khushi got the essence though she meant well.
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Kishmish

Indira seems like a very strong and forgiving person ... no woman will give up a marriage easily ... especially if there is a child involved ... whereas it is very different from a Man's prospective ... for a man the physical aspect of a relationship is more important than children and wife ...


love the conversation between Khushi and Indira ... Khushi was told some home truths ...

"Khushi, we all told you to let go of your anger and accept Arnavji; make your marriage work, did you listen to us? No" she asked gaze fixed on her.


Khushi should realise that she is blessed to have a loving husband like Arnav ...

Love this chapter Kalyani ... am so glad have started reading both your FF's ... 😆


She is strong, to be able to come terms with the happenings in her life...
Thanks for reading and sharing your views, its greatly valued 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
i totally feel for Indira!she deserves better n i hope
Arjun realizes dat soon! gr8 update!😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
i guess we r so used to a besotted khushi that its ahrd to accept that this khushi is not in love despite everything- great lovemaking included :P yet it makes sense too, she is sumone adjusting to the situation and maonly resentful of the way she was made to eneter this marriage! indira...so many unfortunate women out there like her
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Posted: 13 years ago
You put even complex emotions across with such ease. There is a smooth flowing ease to how they feel, react and interact. Subtlety and grace. Enjoying how the story is progressing.
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Posted: 13 years ago
nice updt
luv it
thanks for pm
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Posted: 13 years ago
This has become such a richly layered story---enjoying it to the point where I find myself scanning my PMs wondering "is it there? has she posted?"
And, if this sounds a bit self-congratulatory, I make no apologies for it: From Chapter 1, I knew your story would be a serious work (in the best sense of the word!) with important themes.

The best conversations I have had have been in the kitchen with the kettle on. I love seeing the solidarity of women...or as I refer to it, 'The Sisterhood'!...and this conversation between the two is so emblematic of how it OUGHT to be between women. How much we can learn from our Sisters who have walked the path. The answer really lies somewhere between Khushi and Indira, doesn't it?

Indira---I respect her, am sympathetic to her plight, and I see the wisdom in her choices--she is a realist and a pragmatist and I respect that--but I am afraid of her resignation. Of course, I say that knowing that you have plans for her and you have my thoughts exactly where they need to be--in a position where I can rejoice when she triumphs--whatever that triumph looks like. I look forward to meeting Arjun. You have set the scene for a strong entry.

I don't like to ask a writer to explain her work, but I really didn't understand this sentence. Others have referred to it in their comments so I feel I'm missing something germane. What does she mean? The bed is referring to intimate life between a couple--and she says that the bed has not changed--is she saying that they remain intimate--so if they are both satisfied on all the levels--she is not going to transform him or what he does outside their bed. Help! You know that I can't bear being left out of conversations that relate to the bed! I must know. 😉

The bed is a very important part of any marriage. When the bed does not change, why should I attempt changing the man?
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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Inked

This has become such a richly layered story---enjoying it to the point where I find myself scanning my PMs wondering "is it there? has she posted?"

And, if this sounds a bit self-congratulatory, I make no apologies for it: From Chapter 1, I knew your story would be a serious work (in the best sense of the word!) with important themes.

The best conversations I have had have been in the kitchen with the kettle on. I love seeing the solidarity of women...or as I refer to it, 'The Sisterhood'!...and this conversation between the two is so emblematic of how it OUGHT to be between women. How much we can learn from our Sisters who have walked the path. The answer really lies somewhere between Khushi and Indira, doesn't it?

Indira---I respect her, am sympathetic to her plight, and I see the wisdom in her choices--she is a realist and a pragmatist and I respect that--but I am afraid of her resignation. Of course, I say that knowing that you have plans for her and you have my thoughts exactly where they need to be--in a position where I can rejoice when she triumphs--whatever that triumph looks like. I look forward to meeting Arjun. You have set the scene for a strong entry.

I don't like to ask a writer to explain her work, but I really didn't understand this sentence. Others have referred to it in their comments so I feel I'm missing something germane. What does she mean? The bed is referring to intimate life between a couple--and she says that the bed has not changed--is she saying that they remain intimate--so if they are both satisfied on all the levels--she is not going to transform him or what he does outside their bed. Help! You know that I can't bear being left out of conversations that relate to the bed! I must know. 😉

The bed is a very important part of any marriage. When the bed does not change, why should I attempt changing the man?

I am sorry if I was vague with the line; the bed is where a marriage starts, a girl becomes a woman and a woman becomes a mother; hence the bed has great significance. So whether she is with her husband or another man the bed's importance or demands don't change. She does mention that her husband comes back to her even if he sleeps with others; he had found his home in his marital bed with her. She also states that he is a good enough husband if she stays out of his affairs, so the intimacy is still there. She wants to continue with the marriage not resigning to her fate but hoping things will work out for her. It is how one perceives it, some can see her as a loser or as a fighter; however she is viewed; she is a glorious woman.

I hope I have cleared your doubt?

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Posted: 13 years ago
I love Indira for a variety of reasons. First her maturity, realising that bed may change but the needs of the bed do not. Sure she could find another guy but there are no guarantees in life. This kind of maturity only comes from living life.
Secondly her handling of the self appointed "Ms Fix everyone's problems for them" Khushi. People who live in glass houses should not throw stones indeed


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Posted: 13 years ago
beautifully written kalyani...
smetimes we need to see d positive more than d negeive...in sme cases positive par is a gem than d negative lyk in indiras case...not many ppl will get lovin in laws n who reat them lyk their own daughter...
i appreciate d way indira looks at tings in her life...
amazin update...
tanx 4 d pm...
update soon

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