I can't tell u that I LOVE U # 7 - Page 20

Originally posted by: imaastha

Awsome ff...
Read all the updates...
Awsome story. ...
Loving geet nd pari's bonding...
Thnx for the pm...
Cont soon... ^_^

Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl

Deeps please dont think am upset with u or anything... just that wanted to let u know... if i give positive feedback i hv the right to voice my opinion when the feedback isnt very positive right?? since the time Geet has started looking for options for Pari to become mother... somewhere i lost teh chord with the story.,.. it isnt appealing to me ... however close a person might be, a normal healthy person can nvr understand the pain a person who has shortfalls experience... and hence its always adviced to let them deal their pain and not to make them realise it again and again... thats teh truth of life whiche they hv to handle on their own... Geet's intentions though nobel are really interference... and kinda making mocekry of Pari's condition... letting a person know that u adopt coz u cant conceive is like making a mockery out of her condition... adoption or not is something which shud hv come to pari's mind on her own or Yash's mind... Geet giving those ideas isnt right at all... whatever be ur explanation... i wont be convinced that what she is doing is right... also from ur precap i sense that Geet might suggest to being a surrogate mother for the baby for Pari and Yash... Surrogate mothers r generally someone who are unrelated to the couple so that they dont create problem in couple's life later... a surrogate mother who is close to the couple can create probs or hv probs later.. though the egg and sperm hv nuthing to do with the surrogate mother, the fact that she nurtures the child in her womb for 9 months attaches her to the baby...

if its a known person or person close to the couple, she in later years might feel she has a right on the baby and hence generally known people are adviced not become surrogate mothers...

there r things which unmarrid young writers do not understand... u all try to do research ur way but when u r handling such sensitive issues please do indept research...

coz what Geet has been doing till now is total interference in matter making it tougher for Pari...Yash and Maan are absolutely right in thinking that Pari shud be left alone n shud be away from Geet... Geet always allowing Pari to handle Arya and ppl telling Pari that her baby is so cute and Geet or Pari hving to say that Arya isnt her baby... is something no friend who cares about the pother frnd's feelings wud do...

I''m sorry if u felt bad but i needed to tell u that some issues will always be there of which ur understanding isnt very good, such issues will always be a point of conflict between u and ur readers... hope u understand what i just said

Originally posted by: sldeeps

if i give positive feedback i hv the right to voice my opinion when the feedback isnt very positive right?? - agree with u infact waiting for ur feed back...because i know that whatever i write is correct and appreciable

u all try to do research ur way but when u r handling such sensitive issues please do indept research - me doing the same and i have even planned all the things u have mentioned about surrogacy

coz what Geet has been doing till now is total interference in matter making it tougher for Pari...Yash and Maan are absolutely right in thinking that Pari shud be left alone n shud be away from Geet - as u said Geet is interfering too much...agree with u

I''m sorry if u felt bad but i needed to tell u that some issues will always be there of which ur understanding isnt very good, such issues will always be a point of conflict between u and ur readers - the issue which i am dealing itself is a controversy i do know about it...it has different opinions among different people as u said

and yar it's just a request from my side...i agree that i am young and not married but plz don't keep this in ur mind while reading the updates

Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl

and yar it's just a request from my side...i agree that i am young and not married but plz don't keep this in ur mind while reading the updates

I nvr think of ur age when i read the update... age comes to my mind only when am commenting on something which i feel (ofcourse its my opinion) that some issue hasnt been dealt with properly.. Henceforth if something doesnt appeal to me i wont reply at all..so that way u will realise that something hasnt appealled to me or hasnt struck a chord with me...

Donno why but some issues like MC, inability to conceive etc make me very opinionated as i hv seen ppl close to me suffer immensely coz of them... if the writer takes a different route to it, sometimes its doesnt appeal to me and i react... sorry bout that... last time i asked u bout ur marital status coz i personally left that a person who has experienced hubby-wifey relation wud hv addressed the relationship bit differently... else i wud hv nvr asked bout ur age. This time may b i jumped the gun without waiting for next updates coz i hv seen such cases with ppl around me.. sorry

Originally posted by: sldeeps

plz don't be sorry dear ... i am learning a lot from whatever u say... and ur comments are always welcome

and sorry to u... its just a typo that i wrote - because i know that whatever i write is correct and appreciable ...not missed in the sentence