Originally posted by: Water.
Yeh Raat Yeh Chandani phir kahan'never heard the song before'but thanks to you'the song came walking into my life today with its only message that was so simple yet hard to remember all the time and it is to live in the present. Present is never going to come back again. All you have is the Now, the present.
Both are still walking on egg shells, one afraid of the other, one trying to please the other.
Half cup full and half cup empty. I believe that you cannot measure it. Cus even if you look at it as half full and half empty'the perception will always change as per your thoughts n feelings. One moment you will have the blissful feeling and you will way'oh it is half full, the next moment you might get a trigger n now you will think Oh! it is half empty.
Yash/Meer n Maan/Geet'.I am glad both Maan n Geet got to her Yash/Meer's perspective. It shows that how different people act and react differently. For some materialistic items have more significance while for others something small given or made from love is cherished forever.
Maan only sees it as half full like he mentioned'and Geet just agreed and went along with him saying that she will no longer complain cus she does not have the right (because she is comparing herself to Meera/Yash here'.and feels guilty of her behavior towards Maan)
YET
At the same time'she tells Maan that if she sees it cup half full than it is Maan's responsibility to fill the other half of the cup which is empty.
Yaar she is totally contradicting herself here'.I mean she wants to see it as half full cus of Maan, yet she sees it at the same time as half-empty'and to add on to it'she wants Maan to figure out and respond to what she expects of him.
Geet will not receive any of the answers she is looking for if her mindset is set up in such a manner.
Her way of seeing things and her expectations from Maan on what is missing in her life'is not justified.
When Maan said'that he did not want her to cry'she is only half-heartedly convincing him that she will try'yet at the same time'.she wants to cry. I know she said sorry and wants to make up for it'but she is not being honest here'.which will just cause more blunders later on'.because later on she will be more emotional and more guilt ridden and self-critical as well as will feel deprived cus she did not listen to her inner self.
Even Maan'he wants her to be in the present'enjoy the moments'.and he does not want her to change'YET..at the same time'.he is not accepting Geet in his present moment'like what Geet thinks about the watermark n what not.
He did not want regrets for later'he wanted to fix things now'but now can you fix things if they are not in your control. How can you fight or control destiny.
Maan ' there will be too many good looking girls there'and they will not think twice to marry me'unlike you'..(this statement'.tells a lot about his heart'and his hurts'.it came out as a joke'but the emotions behind it'only Maan knows'.Yeh baat Maan ke dil me ghar kar gayi)
It reminds me when Geet told him'.please do not use any of this against me in future' n I feel that this line he said to Geet for whatever his reason was at that point in time'.
Geet wants to wear a mask for two days'..she wants the happiness for two days and is not looking at the bigger picture'the future..how it is going to impact them together'.
I mean pain now is better than repressing the pain and making it chronic for later'.
Fix the problem, communicate, make it work rather than taking the short cut now, being people pleaser now to avoid complications'.this will only complicate things further''
She wants to live in that moment in the past and is not realizing the choice she is making in the NOW.
Cus the NOW is going to affect her FUTURE.
Rachana
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