Maslow's hierarchy of needs #3 pt 40 page 56 - Page 34

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Posted: 16 years ago
Heyy!
howz it goin ??
sooo glad u updated-- i've been cheking this page every couple of days and then suddenly i'm like wait something's wrong and it turned out that u had updated bt i hadnt realised--
the update is fabbb !!!!-- everythin goin perfect and then like in a tv show at the last minute everythin that was goin fine suddenly goes CRAZYYYY ! Loveddd it !
pls pls update soon-- i knw u hav a lot of work so wen u get the time-- as long as it gets updated eventually thats fine-- i'll prolly go crazy if i dont find out how it ends.... :P
take care
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Posted: 16 years ago
Hey Sam.
Glad you back.
Hmm ….. Finally Armaan Riddhima talked…I do get Armaan's point here..Though he did over reacted ..But he was right on his side. Oh! by the way before I forget..Loved Riddhima's parallel line of thoughts while her discussion with Armaan. The way she reflected it..That was a beauty. That is certain most of the times with pupils, when you are in the middle of something, and there is an adjacent though process going on in your mind in comparision to it, and in it's such a bizzare thing that it definitely does make you break out of it atleast for a while…And when we talk about Ridz it's even more appropriate and natural to come from her .
Armaan-Anjali conversation much a need …but not how I had imagined it ,still it was all good for me. It was the most natural reaction I could have asked for. Atul-Ankit was though short ..but definitely to the Point. Loved the way Atul tried to make his point. But the thing that caught my attension the most in this one was Armaan's Simple'short sentence..'Try Me!'....That line hit me like an asteroid.. There was not something intended in it ..but it was in a way very comforting and at the same time supporting and soothing to offer Anjali to make her realise that she was still as dear to him, and his friend as before(I would say it was his way to Break-the-ice)..Shows his skills to be witty even in the most inappropriate times in his life.
Ok …now the thing, which left me Troubbled to least say-'unsettled' is the enclosure.
Never expected to see the same plot getting repeated again. I mean this part made Riddhima a totally Negative and ' Always' Cynical personality for me..what I mean to say is After her *still-a-fresh*conversation with Armaan..her promise to him..'Never-ever again' and Armaan's every action to make her believe in him..AND her conversation with Rahul just a while before"I can understand...as I am beginning to discover, being in love brings with it, its own set of insecurities but don't let misplaced and unnecessary fears take their toll on your relationship... just let go and savour what you have got" which she recalls while heading towards the liabrary, where do they disappear in just a second??? I must admit that ,this makes me think if Ridz actually deserves Armaan…Poor guy has tried all he could…I really pity him !
I m really sorry, if I said something wrong..no offence..but that's how I felt about this issue. I mean … it was a complete twist and shock for me to see Riddhima still standing in the same place..Again!!! She who is such a thinker and intellactual sometimes, can she be such a Kid to reach the conclusions while being a bystander to an incomplete conversation or scene. Even if Anji pecking Armaan was a shock to her…hadn't she noticed them to be close friends..or did she never hugged or pecked her friends(Rahul,Muskaan) ever. It was not a kiss..but a friendly peck on his cheeks I suppose..How did it never occurred to her.
I hope, I m wrong here and this was just her immediate reaction on an impulse, and she would come around soon ,and might this time Armaan, will not have to go through all of it again. Apart from this one I loved the part very much. Please Pardon me if I over-reacted.
Plz continue soon.
Thanx.
Edited by ammy-ridz - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
heyyyyyy sam...
finally an update after a loong loong time...and the update was amazingly penned..evry emotion...the doubt..the love..the anger..the frustration...the uncertainity was put forth beautifully in words...i love the way u are taking this forward...and the story is getting more tangled as it goes...if one area is solved another one pops up and its getting interesting...
armaan and riddhima's convo was soo sooo good...like i mentioned before, i'm gonna get really good with handling relationships:D i'll never forget this convo of theirs...riddhima ranting away abt her guilt and armaan reacting in that way..it was really well penned :) and the way he pacifies her and reassures her abt his love for her was like sooo beautiful...loved that bit a lot...
ankit lost in this thoughts abt whether he should confess or not....and the way he presented her dilemma to atul and the way atul came up with a solution or atleast tried to make ankit take a decision was penned well..i really like the single-child conundrum...it atleast helps u get clearer abt wht u should do...
and armaan and anjali....the way she confessed and then tried justifying herself was nice...armaan being sorry abt what happened and his possessivemess for riddhima triggering anji's frustration and the way she let out her anger abt why he chose riddhima was really beautifully penned...she looked soo vulnerable at that moment...
rahul and riddhima were awesome as ever...rahul indirectly helping riddhima feel confident was nice...sometimes u need such friends in life who just tell u wht u always wanted to hear without meaning to and it may just make life easier for u...
and no...please no...i dont want riddhima to just let whatever she saw take over her love and trust she had in armaan...she cant just be blinded by this...she has to talk to him...i dont want another misunderstanding in their relationship....how can she even think he would have gotten over his love for her when he repeatedly keeps reassuring her and reminding her how much she means to him...how much he loves her...i really dont want them to go apart or fight coz of this half-heard convo and riddhima not knowing the enitre truth behind what happened...
on the whole...it was a beautiful update sam...i loved it loads...and now its made me more anxious for the next part coz i'm really nervous abt the path that AR's relationship is gonna take...i hate to be pessimistic abt it but cant help it :)
thanks for the pm...
awaiting the next part eagerly..
continue soooooooooooooooooooon :)
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Posted: 16 years ago
hiya sam...!!long time...glad 2 b bck...!
HD PROBLEMS WID LOGIN...!!chuck tat...!!
did read ur update thou...as usaual it ws stupendous...!!
the way u depicted anjali's feeling...it js got me thinking bck 2 ma skul yz...!!an incident wich ws way 2 similar 2 dis one...!!
n wtf is wrong wid ridz....!on her wy bck again..??dun temme...!!
armaaan is the real charmr ,his character hs been portrayed so well...!!
do cont soon...!
thx a ton 4 de pm gal
luvya
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Posted: 16 years ago
great part, but the end kiind of annoyed me, i mean ridhima should have stayed back and ask for an explanation from armaan, i mean we all know that he dearly loves ridhima, then what was up with that, and anjali needs to figure out how to stay away, even after knowing armaan loves ridhima she kissed him, a true sign of an evil lady... hope they dont break, i am getting really curious so please continue the part soon, and thanks for the pm...
isha
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Posted: 16 years ago
woah di its really an awesome one mind blowingso cuteplz continue it soon & thanks for the pm


"It hangs around my feet for everyone to listen sound,
A symbol of your love, you gave to me.
It is a golden Payal from you, a token,
A promise of love, can never be broken.
Its music makes me believe that you're with me,
It creates a sound of music & arose so many emotions,
My body and my soul can feel it & move with music,
A gift extremely special, given from my lover,
It remember just how much you love me."

http://www.fromourheart.com/Store/images/Gund/First_Teddy_Blue_Medium_16.jpg



Nidha
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Posted: 16 years ago
Hi Sam,
I had been waiting eagerly for the update but I am late in commenting.
but WHAT AN UPDATE.
I just loved the beginning -------The convo between Rid-Arm was nice.
But it was tense in the middle ---- The Ankit -Atul convo left me wondering if Ankit was now going to sought after Riddhima for himself.
The end ,............ well what to say. A cliffhanger to say the least.
In my last comment I had said your ff can never be like an Ekta Kapoor serial but trust me , I cant believe I am saying this but the end seemed like a scene out of one. Just when it seemed everything will be sorted out, this happened. The misunderstandings keep mounting on.
It seemed so unlikely of the few characters. specially Ridhhima and Anjali.
Ridhhima has always seemed to be an intelligent girl. But first she tries to be the epitome of sacrifice and greatness by giving Anjali more importance than her own relationship with Armaan and then after Armaan convinced here beyond doubt of his love for her, how can she react in such a manner to what she saw in a few seconds without knowing what preceded the kiss?
Anjali was such a level headed girl. She already has an idea about Armaan's relationship with Riddhima then why such a desparate reaction?
And Armaan, after admitting that his friendship with cannot take precedence over his love for Riddhima how can he let Anjali kiss him even for the sake of his friend's feelings?
Had Anjali seen Riddhima standing there and did that deliberately?Dont know what will be coming next.
Only you can tell.
And knowing whatever I know of you, you keep us readers waiting for quite a while.
Can you add me to your PM list? Please. I would love to know more about you. And please update soon.
Shveta
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Posted: 16 years ago
WELCOME SAM!! good 2 hav u here althou m exceptionally later than late so welcome 2 me too :p loved this part alot sam! ar convo wz a super duper HIT!! both wrong & ryt in their own respective ways! & their loooong talk wz really outstandingly done! its how usually the talks get...both sides try 2 emote while not seeing the others perspective!! weldone!! ur climax is wat disturbed me sooo badly dat i cud not get dat out of my mind! even i felt numb after dat last scene wich ridz witnessed...u see i for one DO NOT think it appropiate for armaan 2 hav let his gaurd down watever the cause....but i guess in dat stuation it wz i dunno...perhaps a thoughtless action or smthing dat occured on the spur of the moment wen realization had not struck??? help sam!! i found dat last bit so distressing, i hope everything gets all well b/w both cz it dznt seem lykly 2 happen after wat happnd in the end....plz do smthing sam...m really upset+confused...
love,
Alia.
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Posted: 16 years ago
Hey Sam, Sorry for the delay... But well, its kinda you, so I guess you won't mind... With all the work load and all, am sure you must be as busy, perhaps more so, than I find myself in with these damned exams of one whole month!!... Hope you are dong fine btw buddy, miss seeing you quite so very often round here, and look who's talking!! Lol...


I kinda loved the Armaan-Anjali convo, although I found some bits of it a bit overdone from Anjie to tell you the truth, but then, am guessing that's just human nature very so often, the things that get to you and hurt you deep down there do tend to get you hyper, and in the wrong way... I won't say Anji is wrong, she's one character that has never been wrong in her thoughts,only perhaps in some of her acts, though that too is debatable... After all, who decides what's right and what's not? Especially in relationships, something that cannot be explained like laws of physics or economics can,to an extent at least...

The "try me" from Armaan was classical, the most apt "humourly" bit that lead to a subtle end to the convo, how I wish he tried to understand her a bit more though... Because it is strange that he never had to go through it all, after all, he got his love very nearly at the first attempt to it! Understanding Anji would be a hard task, being there for her then on would be an interesting plot I would look forward to in the story as well... Rid and Anj are both confident girls, but both somehow sway very so often between conflicting emotions... When a guy's got not one, but two to handle... God save him!! ;)

I don't like the way Rid behaves, so typical of an over-possesive, and over-protective girlfriend, especially with a guy the personality of Armaan... I would perhaps act on the same lines too, perhaps, only if so, the guy hadn't promised me uncountable times that he loved me, and solely me... Armaan is Anji's great friend, but I don't get the heck of why she can't understand, and accept fully that he loves her and only her... No doubt he was hurt, he had all the rights to be!... Moreover what happened in the last bit, ok fine about the initial reaction of seeing them together, but why panic and get all sorts of thoughts in that complicated mind of hers... I mean, calm down, talk to ur bf about it, let him know you saw him, give him time to explain... Then if you find something fishy, get those nasty thoughts... Why before? Why even think wrongly of him before that? He loves you, doesn't that eternity ring prove it enough?? He chose you girl... Waiting for the day Armaan can get THAT in her head... Pheewww....

Atul-Ankit... I love the fact that you get so much of life itself in those one-to-one convos of yours between the characters... I've always ever believed that the best conversation, especially if it's on life itself, is one where there are only 2 participants... Three makes a crowd certainly holds for me in those circumstances... Because while listening and talking to one person solely, a lot of things are said, more perhaps by the unsaid... Conundrum, I actually admit not being familiar with the word, oh I may have heard of it, but I didn't quite actually knew about it until you used it... I went and looked out for it and just saw how much it said in that one phrase... I always believed Atul was the wisest of the lot, perhaps having gone through rejection and being uncool before being a part of this "cool" gang led to it all... I love his spontaneity, and the fact that he is always there for friends in need... Sometimes, you only need a friend to listen to you when you are not feeling up to it... No promises, no advices, no replies, only eyes and ears to listen to whatever you've got to spurt out of that heart... If everyone had an Atul around them, perhaps we would have a tad bit less hate in this world... ;)


I liked the update, for the amount of emotions that it held, but then, that's something you've always excelled in for me... Looking forward, you better be back with some excellent update one of these days... Take care hun, especially with the work load...


Hugs,
Sneha
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Posted: 16 years ago

Apologies! I know this seems to be my favourite word on IF nowadays but believe me its genuine and heartfelt!

I am struggling under a workload that threatens to spill over into my nights as well, primarily on account of a deal that has me running between lawyers, insurers and an offshore banking unit. And reading 20 page legal documents takes me longer than it would take to do one read of Shantaram. Have never understood why lawyers can't use plain English, ugh!

Plus I am discovering that I am expected to not only be a boss but an agony aunt of sorts as well which I find a tad difficult to cater to since I am younger & relatively inexperienced than the entire lot, lol!

Ah, but am loosing the plot - the point of the entire rant was to apologise and explain why I have been absconding. Will try and respond and update in course of this week, time permitting.
Meanwhile miss you all....

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