Originally posted by: Maria_Shaukat_9
I hated the precap and how Baldev is hurting and threatening Veera for Gunjan. Gunjan's manipulating Baldev and Baldev in turn is trying to manipulate Veera. See how Gunjan was waiting in their room for him and saying the words that she knew would anger him against Veera. She made it all about Veera though it has nothing to do with her. Now Baldev is taking all his anger and frustration out on Veera and it's sad because deep down he knows that she isn't at fault and doesn't deserve it but is still listening to Gunjan.
He said he can't bear to see tears in Gunjan's eyes and won't forgive anyone if there are but what are Veera? He's putting tears on her face and hurting her though he knows full well she hasn't done anything wrong. What is Veera nothing to him now and is garbage? Seriously where did this Baldev sister obsession rise from? It's so annoying and almost as annoying as Veera's veerji jaap. I think it's probably because he feels guilty about how he treated her before and is tfying to make up for it by being the "perfect" brother but it's so annoying because he shouldn't have to hurt Veera or stand against her to do that. He shouldn't have to pick sides.
But one thing is clear in today's episode, I think today Baldev ego took a hit and that's why hes reacting so harshly in the precap. Gunjan basically in other words called hin a joru ka ghulam and said he isn't a good brother like Ranvi and we all know when people taunt Baldev like that he gets angry and stops thinking and I think Gunjan knows that too. She's playing him basically and making him do her dirty work because she doesn't have the guts to go to Ranvi and tell him again to stay away from Geet and Deepu. She wants to play nice with Ranvi and stay on his good side and look good and let Baldev deal with all the dirty stuff and fight with his wife. So selfish isn't she? She honestly doesn't care about her brother at all. And Baldev is falling for it all and threatening and hurting Veera fof her. Honestly threatening Veera anf holding her arm like that wasn't needed. She's his wife not his servant or a punching bag that he can explode on or threaten.
It is Ranvi's fault at least in today's episode but Baldev and Gunjan are at fault too because rather than attacking Veera (who hadn't done anything wrong and isn't involved in this) and threatening her they could just talk to Ranvi who is the one who's behaviour they have a problem with. Why is Veera getting blamed and punished for this? And why is Baldev being so stupid?
Precisely. It's sad that if it was Veera in Gunjan's place, she would never instigate Ranvi against Gunjan. She always sides with Gunjan and stands by her, forgives her no matter what. But the same can't be expected from Gunjan who can only see herself, it's always about her. She never loved Veera whereas Veera would do anything for her.
And another thing is when did Baldev ever listen to Veera as pointed by Gunjan? Baldev is not a joru ka ghulam, Ranvi is..he has always been, except in Deepu's drama. Gunjan should have a better look at her husband. Baldev is anything but joru ka ghulam. If he was, there wouldn't be so many wars between them and Gunjan is aware of it right. Gunjan deserved the kind of treatment that Baldev meted out to Veera post marriage. But she always let scot free and loved unconditionally and worshipped by everyone.
Baldev gets manipulated by everyone except Veera. I don't know what Gunjan be talking about. 😕 Whatever Baldev has said about Ranvi being innocent and it's only Gunjan's imagination over working is because he is thinking logically, not because Veera manipulated him.
And I want to ask Gunjan that if she demands Ranvi's love and everything which is right, but why didn't she demand mother's and brother's love from Bansuri and Baldev respectively before marriage. She used to quietly bear their tortures and still expected love from them. She went to great lengths to attain Bansuri's love, but in vain. But hardly questioned or demanded anything, when a mother's love is the most important one. If she can act so bitchy and pricey with Ranvi and his family for their undivided attention, getting jealous and lashing out at Veera on Ranvi's b 'day, then why was she forgiving of her own family? She has forgiven Bansuri and never been bitchy with her when Bansuri deserved it. I would be happy if she gave the same kind of treatment to Bansuri which she had given to others who actually loved her. Why these double standards. I understand husband's love is precious but so was her mother's love.
Edited by Indiaphorum - 10 years ago