Originally posted by: zainabawoon
are we watching the same show?!?!?! Baldev ousted veera out of his house the night of the wedding cuz of all that she said, any human being under baldev's situation will throw her out after hearing all that! Then he verbally taunted her, made her carry shopping bags and asked her to remove his shoes but none of this is phyical abuse and yes once threatened to push her out of the window under a full psychotic episode during which he had no idea what he was doing and also had a russian roulette with her that too completely drunk and unconscious of what he was really doing but during both these times veera wasnt physically hurt, u still see her in one piece dont you? Baldev singh NEVER hit her or physically abused her!!!! If he had pushed her out of the window then it would have been physical abuse but nothing like that happened!!!! You clearly dont understand PTSD! But yes i agree with one thing baldev does owe her an apology for the mental stress he put veera in atleast for the Russian Roulette, regardless of PTSD. But we should not forget that veera herself with her words and her actions was the one who triggered baldev's PTSD and made him behave this way!! Monsters are not born they are created, veera created a monster out of baldev and what do they say 'you reep what you sow'
your missed the part where he tried to strangler her, when she tried to wake him up to sleep on the bed, hello madam every thing you mentioned happened between baldev and veera. was in is emotional, physical, and psychological abuse. home is the one place in the world that a woman feels safe, in her in laws place, a woman is secure and safe only due to her husband, because he has vowed to care and protect and provide for her. and she becomes safe and sure because of him. what baldev did even if under PTSD was wrong morally and by law. he could have killed her twice.
i done psychology and you right monsters are not born but are created. but not by others. the weakness of a persons mind, and emotion, his/ her anger, and inability to want to forgive creates that monster. in baldev, case veera didnt create the monster. he created it himself. and as you are saying the is suffering from PTSD then he is ill, and needs medical treatment.
please don't condone such behaviour in men. even if its tv character. it is not OK for a husband to abuse, terrorise his wife physically, emotionally or psychologically. sitting together and talking it out is the best way to clear misunderstandings.
even monsters change to prince charming give love and care.
but a person who rejects love and care will remain a monster.forever
