Friends,
Please don't pounce on me for my title and please do read and share your views. Of-late the character of Ranvijay has started to irritate and frustrate me so much that I couldn't help but make this post. He is really turning out to be an insensitive idiot. Ever since he got married or re-married to Gunjan he has been running away from her, god knows why. She is the girl whom you know from your childhood, whom you claim to have loved since your child hood and now when she is actually your wife, you are not at all caring about her. Friends I'm not hinting at any kind of romance here, I'm trying to point to a true and successful husband-wife relation. Looking at the pre cap of Mondays episode, I really got irritated at him. Veera was trying to shake -off the nerves which ranveer might feel while addressing the public as an would be Sarpanch. Everyone can guess he will deliver his first public lecture successfully and then he will say he was thinking about Veera. Just put yourself in the shoes of Gunjan for a moment and think, how will an wife feel. Being a married man for years I can tell you she will be shocked, if not shattered. There are 4 qualities every wife wants in her husband. Love, Faith or Loyalty, Friendship and Respect. Sorry to say Ranveer is far from these qualities. Surprisingly all these qualities are inter related, if your truly love your wife, automatically you will be loyal to her and unknowingly become her best friend and respect her and her feelings. Ranveer has no respect for Gunjan's feelings. He takes her for granted. Gunjan has already hinted to him she wants to spend some quality time with him but still he is not woken up. Remember the nomination filing scene, remember the scene when he was going for his campaign and then this scene, every where he has ignored her feeling. Once Veera came to the rescue, but not always. Husband wife relation is the most unique relation in this world, that's why your husband/wife is only called your "Jeevansathi", despite your parents and siblings being there. Ranjeer has to understand he is no longer "beeji ka puttar" or "veera ka veer" only, he is a husband now. The sooner he understands the better it is, else it is only a question of time that Gunjan will stand up and ask for her rights. Sorry to say Ranjeer claims to love Gunjan a lot, but it is only his infatuation, true love automatically teaches you to respect your partner. The tragedy with Ranveer is he has never seen a successful husband-wife relation. His PAPAJI left when he was very young and he was brought up only by his BEEJI.
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