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Posted: 9 years ago
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Usually I don't write much of such serious topics.. But seen some posts here regarding Swarna being being weak in front of her husband.. I mean.. Swarna is not Gayatri..
We don't know in waht kind of environment she was brought up.. it's 40's era we are talking.. at that time women were not allowed to speak much in front of elders.. May be Swarna would have been brought up in such environment.. what if in her parents house.. if she put her opinion.. n elders would have said.. 'Shut up Swarna' U are not allowed to speak.. šŸ˜• but may be if she will get some support from Gayu n RNJ.. she will stand for herself too.. she is not that weak woman.. remeber even she talked to RNJ abt gaytri being new in rajmahal that small plant n paudhwala scene.. So we can say in this dept abt standing for ur own pride Swarna is small plant.. but she will learn soon this with may be gayu's support how to stand for ur own pride despite all relations n sanskars..
Gaytri we know.. her parents kind of loved her n she was allowed to express her opinion w/o any rok tok.. so she is really strong woman.. till now she has proved herself right n RNJ wrong.. that's why we are seeing some change in RNJ too isn't it..? BTW.. RNJ is not much low like lakshraj too.. abt lakshraj we can say.. Ped hi ganda ho toh uska fal bhi waisehi hota hain.. look at his parents.. so no surprise.. laksh is same.. like his parents.. 😔

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Posted: 9 years ago
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You're right lets think about the era and the expectations of and from a woman in that time. Gayatri is different her father bought her up like a son where as swarna was probably always taught to be a princess, and a perfect 1930s lady. Someone in a post sometime back said rightly that women were not expected to object to their husband in anyway post marriage. A woman wouldn't even look her husband in the eyes that's the era we are talking about. Not Every woman is gayatri and not Everyman is Rana. They are both visionary characters based on the era they live in. Forward thinkers where They believe in tradition but also standing up for human right and change for the betterment ..
Not Eveyone is as mature and pure in there intentions i.e the Kuwars.
Swarna is not to blame it is the culture that she is living in.. She needs Rana and gayatri more then ever right now!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ok i like how youve point your point through and your absoluetly correct šŸ‘

'Every women (and man for that matter) is different' so it goes without saying,
she should take a stand but not everyone is strong. People learn and so would she with the help of Gayathri (i hope). But Swarna (i think) has no fault in thisšŸ˜• so people saying she should have stopped him doesn't even come in the picture.

Although i believe in an alternative universe she should have killed him before he lay his fingers on her 😔😔😔
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Posted: 9 years ago
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You said it right, i hope Swarna stands for herself now and want Gayatri and Rana supporting her.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Blaming Swarna would be idiotic if one was following the show. Swarna is a sweet girl type and one of the first characters that welcomed Gayatri lovingly. And its a really good thing she has both Gayatri and Ranaji for support.
I have no words for her in laws. Other then a disgrace.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: jagrutid

You're right lets think about the era and the expectations of and from a woman in that time. Gayatri is different her father bought her up like a son where as swarna was probably always taught to be a princess, and a perfect 1930s lady. Someone in a post sometime back said rightly that women were not expected to object to their husband in anyway post marriage. A woman wouldn't even look her husband in the eyes that's the era we are talking about. Not Every woman is gayatri and not Everyman is Rana. They are both visionary characters based on the era they live in. Forward thinkers where They believe in tradition but also standing up for human right and change for the betterment ..
Not Eveyone is as mature and pure in there intentions i.e the Kuwars.
Swarna is not to blame it is the culture that she is living in.. She needs Rana and gayatri more then ever right now!

Indeed yaar... Swarna is not weak girl just becoz she is taking trash from her hubby.. but she needs someone's support to stand up .. becoz everyone has fear to be left alone.. may be swarna will think RNJ Gayu n RM won't too support her.. but when will she see they are standing with her truth she will come with a bang.. hope so CV will show her as strong character later..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sophiexx

Ok i like how youve point your point through and your absoluetly correct šŸ‘

'Every women (and man for that matter) is different' so it goes without saying,
she should take a stand but not everyone is strong. People learn and so would she with the help of Gayathri (i hope). But Swarna (i think) has no fault in thisšŸ˜• so people saying she should have stopped him doesn't even come in the picture.

Although i believe in an alternative universe she should have killed him before he lay his fingers on her 😔😔😔

Haan ... she is not that strong.. hell he will kill her at any moment if she would alone stand strong against him.. n more than that her in laws are too disgusting.. 😔 so deffo she will need RM, RNJ, or Gayu's support..
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Thank U Sam.. 😊
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Originally posted by: ananya2010

You said it right, i hope Swarna stands for herself now and want Gayatri and Rana supporting her.

Yup.. 😊 we can't expect one night courage..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: CutieTeju

Indeed yaar... Swarna is not weak girl just becoz she is taking trash from her hubby.. but she needs someone's support to stand up .. becoz everyone has fear to be left alone.. may be swarna will think RNJ Gayu n RM won't too support her.. but when will she see they are standing with her truth she will come with a bang.. hope so CV will show her as strong character later..



I think the biggest thing here is that you should be able to confide in your loved ones.. there has to be at least someone she could tell and the saddest thing is I don't think Swarna thinks she has that person. Even in the Rana and Swarna scene she was unable to tell Indravden the truth about her scar and with gayatri also with the poem thing. Her feelings are caged and the worst thing in my opinion is the failure it shows of the King and the Queen. Rana and Gayatri are both going to have to show that they care enough for her..to get her to confide in them.
A king is supposed to be someone who you feel you can approach.. who will give you justice as is a queen both Gayatri and Rana have a lot of work do on that front.
If member of the family is unable to approach them then what chance does the common man have. i guess relationships complicate things. Swarna is the the daughter in law and her loneliness in that sense can be understood.
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