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Posted: 10 years ago
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So Gayatri's mother is on a hunger strike because her daughter isn't marrying that old guy? wow. She really makes all mothers proud, I mean it! She says that she loves her daughter and wants her to settle before she and her husband dies.
Well, guess what? Marrying her off to a guy who can die at any time will not make her happy and let alone give her a stable life that you claim you wish for her. Honestly, I feel like Gayatri's mother just wants to get rid of her.

Okay, marriages like that were common in 1940s, fine I get that. But I am quite sure it would've been the less well off girls who married rich old guys. Not super rich girls marrying other rich old guys. Old.

If Gayatri's mother really gives a damn about her daughter's happiness then she should look for a young widow or something! This guy they want her to marry is her grandad's age!

I really despise her mother's character. I just can't seem to empathise with her. I don't care, she gives mothers in the 40s a bad name.

Don't get me started on Gayatri's brothers. Those spineless morons first call their sister a burden then when she wants to take care of herself they act as those she has just killed someone. So what if she wants to work? She's a rich and educated girl and she does have the privilege to do stuff other ordinary girls can't do.

I can't wait for Rajmata's proposal. Her mother will be the first to fake happiness. Watch, she's gonna cry crocodile tears. Grrr. I really dislike her!

Apologies if this offended anyone, but that wasn't my intention.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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i liked ur thought... but let me tell u same sitation is there in 2015 same as 1940's
so we cant blame them...
in 2015 its little bit loosen but in 1940's u can imagine how much worse it would have been
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yeah I heard such attitude still exists unfortunately
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thts the bitter truth of those days, Evn these days things like that do happen in some villages . A girl considered "abhaghan" was looked upon as if she is a "murderer" or somthing.
just waiting for their marriage to happen. We will have to bear her family 's drama till then



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Posted: 10 years ago
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as per new promo raga marriage will hppn soon..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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In some places still exists! its bitter truth :(
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Kudos to CVs for successfully making us dislike Mother 😆

They have actually used that "abhagan" thing. Perhaps abhagans were treated in a bad way, just like widow girls also had no respect those days. Obviously there must be some exceptions but CVs have portrayed a general picture where a family of girl despite being rich unable to find good match for daughter.

Her fears & tensions are making her behave like this but now it comes more as ego than concern for daughter.

Yup may be they could have found a young widow, not sure though abt exact picture of those days! Also it is a show, so makers generally choose an extreme way.

Anyways i agree with u her Mom is looking like an idiot who may be concerned for her daughter's future but not thinking it through as she is proudly ready to marry her off to that Buddha..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Diyar-e-dil

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2" color="#990000">So Gayatri's mother is on a hunger strike because her daughter isn't marrying that old guy? wow. She really makes all mothers proud, I mean it! She says that she loves her daughter and wants her to settle before she and her husband dies.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2" color="#990000">Well, guess what? Marrying her off to a guy who can die at any time will not make her happy and let alone give her a stable life that you claim you wish for her. Honestly, I feel like Gayatri's mother just wants to get rid of her. </font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2" color="#990000">Okay, marriages like that were common in 1940s, fine I get that. But I am quite sure it would've been the less well off girls who married rich old guys. Not super rich girls marrying other rich old guys. Old.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2" color="#990000">If Gayatri's mother really gives a damn about her daughter's happiness then she should look for a young widow or something! This guy they want her to marry is her grandad's age!</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2" color="#990000">I really despise her mother's character. I just can't seem to empathise with her. I don't care, she gives mothers in the 40s a bad name.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2" color="#990000">Don't get me started on Gayatri's brothers. Those spineless morons first call their sister a burden then when she wants to take care of herself they act as those she has just killed someone. So what if she wants to work? She's a rich and educated girl and she does have the privilege to do stuff other ordinary girls can't do.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2" color="#990000">I can't wait for Rajmata's proposal. Her mother will be the first to fake happiness. Watch, she's gonna cry crocodile tears. Grrr. I really dislike her!</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2" color="#990000">Apologies if this offended anyone, but that wasn't my intention.</font>





The pre-independence era was not regressive, but society rules were different. Girls were married off at 16 and Gayatri is 21yrs with a 'abhagan' tag since her fianc died after the engagement. Even today, widows are considered 'abhagans', so this era is obviously old-fashioned. Financial status has nothing to do with how you think, but education makes all the difference. That is difference between Gayatri and her mother. 😃 So when Gayatri steps in as 'Rani' her intelligence and smartness wl hold the royal family together to meet all crisis in future. This wl compel Ranaji to fall in love all over again. The serial is trying to highlight why its important for a girl to dream big and why its important to educate a girl child. 👏



-Rekha
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Danseuse



The pre-independence era was not regressive, but society rules were different. Girls were married off at 16 and Gayatri is 21yrs with a 'abhagan' tag since her fianc died after the engagement. Even today, widows are considered 'abhagans', so this era is obviously old-fashioned. Financial status has nothing to do with how you think, but education makes all the difference. That is difference between Gayatri and her mother. 😃 So when Gayatri steps in as 'Rani' her intelligence and smartness wl hold the royal family together to meet all crisis in future. This wl compel Ranaji to fall in love all over again. The serial is trying to highlight why its important for a girl to dream big and why its important to educate a girl child. 👏



-Rekha




@Bold
bang on!
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Originally posted by: Danseuse



The pre-independence era was not regressive, but society rules were different. Girls were married off at 16 and Gayatri is 21yrs with a 'abhagan' tag since her fianc died after the engagement. Even today, widows are considered 'abhagans', so this era is obviously old-fashioned. Financial status has nothing to do with how you think, but education makes all the difference. That is difference between Gayatri and her mother. 😃 So when Gayatri steps in as 'Rani' her intelligence and smartness wl hold the royal family together to meet all crisis in future. This wl compel Ranaji to fall in love all over again. The serial is trying to highlight why its important for a girl to dream big and why its important to educate a girl child. 👏



-Rekha



Well said 👏

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