Scrutiny nd judgement anyone on the planet faces at some or other point of life but it's impact certainly depends on the time it's faced, and maturity of the persons facing it.
The huge financial difference between Mehras nd Singhanias as well as difference in life style to education nd looks r enough reasons to make Kalpana insecure.
More over the virtues of simplicity, honesty nd inner beauty are not written on face nd one needs inner sensitivity to see and experience them exuding in the aura of the person.
Kalpana is really hurt nd feeling in secured with the type of comments she has received, nd I think senior Singhania-Raghav's Dadaji hv thrown a party for this very purpose. He has observed her volunteering in orphanage nd seen her inner beauty so he is confident tht she will handle these insecurities well.
Going with the character of Kalpana tht u hv portrayed so far though she's hurt, she will definitely think about the events and confront with Raghav, as she shared her feelings of rejections nd disappointments at the time of their first meet.
Right now she's disturbed in party but once back home let her retrospectively introspect nd then discuss it with Raghav nd Dadaji. M sure she too should understand tht strength nd character of person is determined not by favorable circumstances but by how they respond to nd handle most unfavorable moments, the most Important feature for Singhania bahu.
Sorry for very late reply but was caught up nd m still caught up in some unfavorable circumstances.