First things first, about the reason of this note and what boiled my blood so much to especially make a post about it.
For people who prefer to block PMs from me if they do not want to receive them for my stories updates or otherwise then I have two very simple solutions for them.
1) Go to your buddy list; click on the cross sign and kindly delete me from your buddy list. I swear I will be happier than you probably for saving my time clicking on an unwanted name while I send PMs.
2) Second: You can also inform me about the same and I will either delete you from my buddy list myself; or stop sending you PMs to you in future..
As far as I remember I had asked the opinion of readers and those who are in my buddy list if they want my PM or not.
[Link for the last note I'd posted is as follows: -
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ek-mutthi-aasmaan/4466503/for-my-readers ]
There is another point. Feelings change, favourite shows and couples also change sometimes. When you send a buddy request to someone here, you may not have thought in future you may not be caring anymore for the stories or threads related to that show anymore. Therefore, it is a request not just for me but for the benefit for other writers also. Please send a buddy request to someone only if you are sure that you can handle even unwanted PMs from them in future.
PMs benefit not just the readers but writers also; bring more readers closer to their stories. But, you can send love to only those who want to receive it right? For others it is a waste of time, for any disinterested receiver will only add in your wastage of precious time and attention. It is highly irritating when I send bulk PM, just because of one person the message isn't sent to others also. Not a good feeling to spy on who the culprit was of all those persons after failed two-three attempts.
Consider it a request or anything you perceive it to be.
1) Those already in my buddy list: Before you decide to block my PMs please tell me to stop sending PMs to you; or remove me from buddy list.
2) Those who may send buddy request to me in future: You're most welcome in my buddy list and my love to you. But if sending this request was an impulsive decision or what you weren't serious about; Please Stay Away From Me. I'd be grateful and appreciate it!
P.S.: I'd understand if now, after this note you have a reason to block me! But I still hope you'll take the graceful way out instead of making my task of sending PMs again difficult! And sorry if I hurt anyone by this long speech.
Sweeties, sorry for not clarifying this note is not meant for those who do not mind my PMs. I do not mind even if they don't comment; it is only for those who one fine day may decide to block the PM instead of acting rationally first.I know most of you who would not ever do that.Sorry of this post hurt anyone. ❤️