Pakhi : The Black Stain in name of Woman Pride

I saw today episode Paaki reaction in first place was exactly any wife would behave when she comes to know her husband is having another secret wife .

Any woman would break down .But what surprises me and yet proves my theory that Paaki is obsessed is that though she knows Raghav has wronged her still she is blaming Kalpi and Kamla for everything.

If I were at Paaki place and come to know my husband is having a secret wife whom he loves and dares to say it so blutly on my face. I would never persue him whatsoever love i have for him. Why ? coz I will have my self respect intact and it will matter to me more then some game where i need to win a man !

Right now its no more love from Paaki side its just a matter of win and loose .

Mera pati sirf mera hai dialogue works only when mera pati loves me and is strong enough to stay by my side . If some lady wrongly frames him or fools him then sure its a wife duty to show him right path .

But if he loves some other lady and considers her his wife instead of me then dialogue is Bhaad me jaye aisa pati jo mera nahi hai !

A wife should take solid alimony from such a man and divorce him in name of cheating ,that's it !

The wives and ladies like Paaki r black stain in name of woman pride and self respect.Its such women who give men power enough to rule them and then they say they have been taken advantage off or have been mistreated !

At least Kalpi stands her ground and defies to be Raghav's mistress in name of sindoor . She has the self respect and courage to say 'keep away from even if i am ur wife' . She accepted the sindoor as token of love and is wearing it and waiting for day when her man will accept her proudly in society but till then she has guts enough to keep him away from herself.

But what about Paaki she is throwing herself on a man who cheated her into wrong marriage and claims to be husband of some other woman. Still lady is planning to win him and his love !! Does the woman has any self respect or not.

If she says to me its her love for Raghav then i will say Bhaad me jaye aisa pyar jo mere atm samman ki chita jala de !!

It is a husband who needs to be blamed in any case as he has betrayed his wife and cheated to her but most people tend to curse the other woman. Why not the man? He is so weak that any woman can come in his life. It's true what you said that if any woman is in Pakhi's place, she should leave the husband instead of blaming Kalpi and being nice to Raghav. 😡

Exactly! Why stay with a man who loves another woman?!
She has none! She doesn't know what is self respect! One thing Kamla didn't teach her is self respect!!

well i'mm glad pakhi is gone to the darkside. now raghav has become a trophy. sure he will never love her. and in time she will not care. all she will care about is not letting Kalpi have him either.

Super post Shana.

Back to same point, she should have left him on the wedding night when he told her he loved Kalpi and married Pakhi only for revenge.

Her parents are criminals yet they are her parents. She felt nothing while throwing them out of the house to help Raghav fulfill his revenge ... why was it her decision to begin with when Raghav was throwing them out of what was now his house is another topic. She didnt throw them out for revenge, she did it hoping to win his trust or affection for this gesture.

Trying to nibhao a shaadi that was under pretense an deceit to prove herself sanskaari is all bull crap. The drama she did of threatening to divorce him was just that... drama...its her ego, her childishness, her zidd, her need to win is more important than her self respect.

Did she ever have self respect? Look back at her actions when she was trying to patao Raghav - no she didnt.

What else to expect when an extremely flawed person with even more flawed thinking raises a delusional psycho liked Pakhi. A parvarish Kamla is so proud of ... that she wont correct Pakhi when she calls her biological mom by her name.

She is young, well educated - supposedly topped university along with Kalpi. She can move out start a new life, get a new job or even start her own business. She must have enough contacts in the 'high society' circle in which she grown up.

Originally posted by: merrydock

well i'mm glad pakhi is gone to the darkside. now raghav has become a trophy. sure he will never love her. and in time she will not care. all she will care about is not letting Kalpi have him either.

Raghav dragged pakhi into his revenge against her parents. now pakhi will drag raghav into revenge against Kalpi, as she holds her responsible for steeling her husband.

mind it is said 'Husband" not "Raghav"

I consider ur veiw point but please do read my post carefully .

their has been no husband stealing as such been done by kalpi.

A lady is said to stealing a husband when she induces or seduces him into a relationship .Kalpi has done nothing like this . Raghav and Kalpi had been lovers and its Raghav who ditched Kalpi and wrongly induced Paaki into the marriage.

So culpript is Raghav and only Raghav. Raghav Kalpi connection cannot be erased coz such strong bonds of love can be broken by marriages or some cheap revenge stunts !

So its raghav who needs to be punished and blamed not Kalpi .Kalpi is no husband stealer . Infact its Raghav who is the real Bluff master .

and thats why i said paaki is a black stain in name of woman self respect who is trying to love and give everything to a man who deserves nothing but lot of joote and chappal from her

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

I consider ur veiw point but please do read my post carefully .

their has been no husband stealing as such been done by kalpi.

A lady is said to stealing a husband when she induces or seduces him into a relationship .Kalpi has done nothing like this . Raghav and Kalpi had been lovers and its Raghav who ditched Kalpi and wrongly induced Paaki into the marriage.

So culpript is Raghav and only Raghav. Raghav Kalpi connection cannot be erased coz such strong bonds of love can be broken by marriages or some cheap revenge stunts !

So its raghav who needs to be punished and blamed not Kalpi .Kalpi is no husband stealer . Infact its Raghav who is the real Bluff master .

and thats why i said paaki is a black stain in name of woman self respect who is trying to love and give everything to a man who deserves nothing but lot of joote and chappal from her

True Shana.

Also the silly dumping sindoor on Kalpi's head by Raghav was not Kalpi's choice either. He took her by surprise when he put sindoor on her, she stood there shocked and he didnt ask her or give her any option. She was not able to stop him prior to that act.

I do have to say that the fact Kalpi forgave him so easily and was ready to wait for him is not something I am happy about but we can discuss that another time.

Originally posted by: erikalui

It is a husband who needs to be blamed in any case as he has betrayed his wife and cheated to her but most people tend to curse the other woman. Why not the man? He is so weak that any woman can come in his life. It's true what you said that if any woman is in Pakhi's place, she should leave the husband instead of blaming Kalpi and being nice to Raghav. 😡

exactly my point ...the way she said i will smile for u even when my heart cries..made me say oh shut up what a bull shit ur talking...by what means such a man deserves to be called HUSBAND who so frankly say hello u r my friend and my wife lives in chawl, do me a favour and tell her that i love her !!

raghav clarified it on wedding night he is no husband and never did he force himself as husband on paaki and never did he ask her to be his wife. he even changed his attitude and confertably became her friend to get his work done coz torturing did not look human to him .

and paaki do shake hand with him coz she thought she can win him through this friendship deal.so basically both clasped hand to fulfill their own selfish reasons.

so by no means paaki can blame kalpi for anything . the man paaki is claiming to be her husband never actually was hers ,it was and is and will be of kalpi.

So where comes stealing or cheating from kalpi !!!!

BLAME, BLAME, BLAME the creatives for the ridiculous storyline. Oh my gosh I can't begin to express how upset I am by this story. Creatives have made such a ghastly script, it ain't funny.

Ok, they let Raghav married her and then he told her truth on the wedding night that he only married her for revenge and he loves Kalpi, Oh gosh, a man tell you he loves somebody else, you wouldn't stay with the man and try to win his heart, you'll be heading for the door immediately and getting a divorce and taking him for everything he has.

Creatives missed the mark where this story is concern, they could've done so much with this storyline, they could've build on it. This was the opportunity for them to show Pookie, being a young lady, becoming successful and achieving something in life after picking up the broken pieces of her life, instead of degrading and cheapening this young lady.

What message are they emitting in this storyline for the young woman?

Well written Shan!! Poo has always been a delusional dimwit (if u look at her actions post leap) or u could say a conniving person (if u observe her since childhood)...If Poo is acting like a psycho now, it is Kammu who is to blame to a large extent. Remember Poo considers her words greater than any1 else and Kammu very well knows this
Raghav had made his stand clear on the marriage night itself. Yet Poo chose to stay with him..why? she claims it is bcos she didnt want to support wrong..we say it is bcos she wanted to get in Raghav's good books!! Kammu knew well that khi was delusional abt Rag's love, yet she chose to feed khi's delusions citing the strength of sindoor and mangalsutr..Kammu saw Ragna getting stronger..But she opted to hide the truth to Poo thinking it wud lead to heartbreak..my foot!! as if now Poo is happy..Kammu forgot 1 main thing; she was trying to suppress Kalpi but forgot that their love is not one-sided. To control Raghav, she wanted khi to win him over. She chose to close her eyes to what was really happening in Poo's life!!

Next culprit is Raghav..Poo is upset bcos her "hopes" were fuelled to gr8 heights.. Raghav had ample time to clarify his stance over and over again..He could have mentioned abt the marriage to Poo but mayb opted to keep quiet 4 now fearing a ruckus frm Gauri and Poo herself.He thought I have mentioned to Poo abt Kalpi so she shudnt be dreaming and anyway after a yr, I'll be back with Kalpi

Last but not the least is our gr8 Poo itself.. Even though u can call her a victim of circumstances, she had every chance to get out of this mess. She is not mentally retarded as to not know what is right and wrong!! She has not tried to fulfill any relationship till now. She claims she tried to be a gud wife..by what cooking and waiting for him..Even a servant can do that!! she didnt try to understand Raghav's or even Gauir's sufferings and then she claims she has been wronged!! It was not like she was tortured into doing stuff 4 her patidev..She was conscious enuf to pataofy Raghav rt!!Poo chose conveniently 2 ignore that Raghav loves Kalpi..If she herself cant get over Raghav, then how can she expect Raghav to forget Kalpi? Had she bothered to find Raghav's state of mind as a true friend would do, she wouldnt be shattered like she is now!!

I'm sorry but I am unable to find an ouce of sympathy for her!!