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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bhanusri

I often thought that no one else other than me can very well connect with Kalpi and her feelings because I've gone through the similar break up that Kalpi had gone through. The only difference was that I was not left at the altar but was kept waiting for a month along with my family with a hope that he would come and meet them and the other one is he is still single and did not marry anyone unlike Raghav but sacrificed me for his mother, class and society as I was from low class family!!

Each and every point that you made touched my heart and questioned myself do I really know and understand Kalpi as much as you do? I am an emotional girl not by choice but because of the bitter experiences I had in the past. I must say you made me cry my heart out today. The in depth analysis that you made of the character and the situation is awesome. I may not be a good writer but a good reader and enjoyed reading every word of your post thoroughly. I read it more than 5 times now and might end up reading even more...who knows!

I am confident that no matter how many newbies or anti Ragna fans come and bash Kalpi you would always be there to make them feel that they have made a wrong choice by rubbing the wrong side. Your posts on IF or tweets in twitter never sound rude (to PD n MJ) but always were to the point. I pity those who could not or failed to read between the lines. I love you for that and I strongly believe that you are one among those who have truly portrayed Kalpi as real Hero of EMA, loved her character ,understood her plight and stood for her while others just claimed including me. No offense to anyone but this is exactly what I had in my heart. Beg your pardon if I've hurt anyone of you'll but I did not want to be just goody goody and spoke my heart out.

Oh wow! Bhanu, thank you so much for sharing this wonderful insight with me: I have always said this, our experiences determine how we perceive things in life and your experience has enabled you to feel more connected with Kalpana albeit they were different.

And I truly appreciate all your kind words, I always try to see things from a different perspective. I do put blame on characters where it is required, but yesterday she did not deserve any blame for hiding him behind that tank as she had her own welfare to protect: ie not to be physically abused by her parents. But she also had no intention of hiding the truth, as she chose to allow her mother to know the truth without shutting Manda up which she could have easily done.

And yaar, you can never hurt anyone's sentiments: healthy disagreements are part of life, without it life is boring!😆 And hehe, I lost some of my cools on Twitter today and was rude, but oh well, it was well placed I would like to think😆😆 I will always be here as Kalpana's lawyer albeit I would not shy away from criticising her when she is wrong.😆😆

Once again, thank you so much for adding a personal touch to this thread, it was a rather insightful comment to read.👍🏼


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Posted: 11 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: ragnabw



Thanks julzz for changing the title. I hope i have not hurted u.

Mein pagal tohri hoon to get hurt?😆 I got the attention I wanted, so a change was a must.😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: _innocent_

Mein pagal tohri hoon to get hurt?😆 I got the attention I wanted, so a change was a must.😆



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Posted: 11 years ago
#84
Wonderfull analize...
After long time a post worth reading...
Thanks Julez...
Very good inside off Kalpi...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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once again lovely post...I don't know how can even Kalpi play this character in reel life...it's so hard for me to even imagine her pain, her emptiness, her fear, her insecurities...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post Julie. I really want to see kalpi stand for her needs and desires I life . She should become selfish and demand her mom why she should always be on the sacrificing edge . She should stand for her own self respect and dignity if people around don't understand that doesn't mean she will wait for it for life .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well said👏

people around her use her to fulfill their dreams(aai), to make themselves happy(ragz), to show themselves great(khi) nd wen they don't need her they ignore her, her aai n khi nvr really came out of their own momdaughter relatn ignoring hr, nd wen ragz married khi even he ignored her😭
Nd she is the one who forgives, nd hug back to the people who did nothing except hurting her in the end.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Radhe101

once again lovely post...I don't know how can even Kalpi play this character in reel life...it's so hard for me to even imagine her pain, her emptiness, her fear, her insecurities...

Thank you so much!Actually you're absolutely right, it must be so depressing to enact such a character, if we audiences feel so bad, imagine how the actress is feeling.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: shali

Wonderfull analize...
After long time a post worth reading...
Thanks Julez...
Very good inside off Kalpi...

Thank you Shali! - Feels great to have such an awesome compliment!😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: DayAndNight

Very well said👏

people around her use her to fulfill their dreams(aai), to make themselves happy(ragz), to show themselves great(khi) nd wen they don't need her they ignore her, her aai n khi nvr really came out of their own momdaughter relatn ignoring hr, nd wen ragz married khi even he ignored her😭
Nd she is the one who forgives, nd hug back to the people who did nothing except hurting her in the end.

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I totally agree, no-one truly cares for her happiness, its always to satisfy their own desires and egos!Whilst she on the other hand is hell bent on pleasing all those selfish egoistic brats in her life. Raghav is just a moron who does not truly love Kalpana to make Kalpana happy, but he loves himself so much that he wants to acquire Kalpana to make himself happy. Mainly because he knows how well she compliments him😆

I would rather have her run away or die, so all those morons in her life can actually understand her significance. Oh wait they wont, they will be dancing on her grave instead!

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