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Posted: 11 years ago
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I know that some ppl would be saying and thinking the ragz is selfish!! He married Paaki for revenge for his mom and now he comes and marrys Kalpi!! What is he doing? Right?! Some may ask!! Well my answer to you all is the you all have to look at this from his and Kalpi's POV!! Raghav is in a dilemma!! His mom is telling him what she wants or else she will kill herself!! And what does he want? It's the same instance with Kalpi!! His dream is to get the love he longed for all his life! He found it in Kalpi!! She showed him how to love how to care how to feel!! And with that nothing will ever matter to him more than this!! This is his dream!! Kalpi!! Some may say he's selfish to ask Kalpi to wait for him after a year and now he puts sindoor on her forehead!! What kind of person will put his love through this?! This is what you call real love and trust towards eachother!! This is their test in life!! I know in would not be easy for them but this is to show how much love and trust both have for eachother!! So that they can conquer the world with their love!! Hope this helps!! Just my way of thinking!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with you. I actually wanted kalpi to support raghav fully in this revenge. Everyone else feels that kapoor a are saints. I am actually proud of both of them trusting each other and their love. Kalpi has not once questioned his revenge, only this so called marriage with pakhi
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i agree with u...
Fist i was mad at raghav and cv's for character assasination...
bt nw i can see possesive raghav,who can go to any extent for kalpi...and kalpi's love for him even after knowing his marriage with pakhi,she trusts him and his love blindly...
and i love raghav's spirit,he keep on insisting kamla ma to nt come between kalpi and him &i can see some madness in his eyes...
And he is nt at all selfish...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I too agree wit u Dianne.. Their love is inseperable.. The fact i like abt Raghav is he doesnt beat around the bush.. He conveys wat ever he wants to clearly n frankly( b it tellin Paaki he luves Kalpi or askin Kalpi to wait for a yr).. Selfishness comes whn the person thinks abt jus his/her happiness.. Here Rags was majboor, hence he had to marry Paakhi thou he knew he was wrong.. He didnt force Kalpi to wait for a yr, he requested her.. Their luv wil succeed despite of kamlas disapproval ..Kamla is selfish( my POV) not Rags..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rosyanjalii

I too agree wit u Dianne.. Their love is inseperable.. The fact i like abt Raghav is he doesnt beat around the bush.. He conveys wat ever he wants to clearly n frankly( b it tellin Paaki he luves Kalpi or askin Kalpi to wait for a yr).. Selfishness comes whn the person thinks abt jus his/her happiness.. Here Rags was majboor, hence he had to marry Paakhi thou he knew he was wrong.. He didnt force Kalpi to wait for a yr, he requested her.. Their luv wil succeed despite of kamlas disapproval ..Kamla is selfish( my POV) not Rags..



Rag is not perfect but selfish never. It's Kamala, Paakhi, Gauri, and Kapoors selfish. Paakhi selfish for own happiness, kamala for her dream, Gauri for her revenge and Kapoors for money...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kya pharak pasta hai .. As long as they show Ragna connected , I am ok. If I can deal with that Pakhi marriage , this is ok.
Also wants wrong here.. If they are selfish they will fight for their love right ? That what's we want na .. Wy complain
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Radhe101, im wit u.. Rags isnt selfish( tat is wat i tried to convey) .. All the women in EMA r selfish in their own way xcept for Kalpi..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well said. True love IS to break or ignore al, the norms of the society and let it lead you!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree Diane . I too feel raghav is possessive not selfish , possessive for the love he craved for long time in life it could be gauri or kalpi . Gauri he doesn't want to loose whom he found after long and kalpi he knows will understand him and some where deep down he knows she will be the only one who will know his delimma and even his emotional side.
Raghav is very straightforward speaking the truth to everyone it could be gauri ,kalpi, Pakhi or Kamala no hiding business .
Many felt rags selfish as he left kalpi to handle Kamala but the point is he cleared his point of sindoor act and accepting kalpi as wife . He even knows Kamala will not be convinced and again hamla which he didn't give chance for . All it means is I will stand by my wife whom I married in the presence of god and I don't care what you think and what you do . This is clear cut indication which doesn't need harsh words . He saw kalpi stood by him and that's all it matters to him now.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Yellowdiamond

I know that some ppl would be saying and thinking the ragz is selfish!! He married Paaki for revenge for his mom and now he comes and marrys Kalpi!! What is he doing? Right?! Some may ask!! Well my answer to you all is the you all have to look at this from his and Kalpi's POV!! Raghav is in a dilemma!! His mom is telling him what she wants or else she will kill herself!! And what does he want? It's the same instance with Kalpi!! His dream is to get the love he longed for all his life! He found it in Kalpi!! She showed him how to love how to care how to feel!! And with that nothing will ever matter to him more than this!! This is his dream!! Kalpi!! Some may say he's selfish to ask Kalpi to wait for him after a year and now he puts sindoor on her forehead!! What kind of person will put his love through this?! This is what you call real love and trust towards eachother!! This is their test in life!! I know in would not be easy for them but this is to show how much love and trust both have for eachother!! So that they can conquer the world with their love!! Hope this helps!! Just my way of thinking!!


yes..he is selfish..he sacrificed his love and married someone else for his mom..and got bashing and thappads from all..still never attacked back..so he is selfish..

he is selfish coz he wants to save kalpi and give her all the love she deserves and wanna give her first preference unlike her mother..so he is selfish..

ok..i m not a full feminist..but sometimes i think like that..but in raghav case we amy get angry on him for a day..not more than that..he can convince any in a days😊

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