For me Pakhi is the other woman

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi Guys!!

Have been reading about how Kalpi became the other woman after the last episode. Sorry to say this but my POV is a bit different. Raghav and Kalpi love each other and there is no bigger commitment than love for me. Nothing and I repeat nothing matters if you share the kind of love these guys share. It's one in a lifetime thing and not everyone is lucky enough to find there soul mate. Anyone trying to separate two loving souls is a villain according to me and I don't care what society says. Sorry but that's my opinion you guys can differ of course.

For me Pakhi is other woman coz if we actually see the way the story has progressed since Raghav confessed his feelings to Kalpi than there is a pattern where Pakhi is given immense hints that something is going on between Kalpi and Raghav. Also, Raghav had shown zero interest in her since the masquerade party. Let me start with the D day:

1. In the party after Raghav accidently confessed his love to Kalpi, he runs into Pakhi whom he tries to push off but Pakhi being Pakhi out rightly tells Raghav that how she feels. RS does not respond. He just stops and does not know what to say to her. Now if I propose a guy and get this kind of a response I would a) be highly embarrassed to face him or b) realize my mistake and move on or let it go. But dear Pakhi loves to live in her fantasy land and assumes that Raghav was shy. Wow!! Shy and Raghav?? That would be the day...hahaha

2. Raghav does try to tell her the next day but she stops him assuming he is commitment phobic. Then why does she ask Kamla to speak to Raghav about her. God only knows. Another blooper I believe.

3. Raghav and Kalpi come across as a couple and she sees them together many times but refuses to believe what she is seeing. For instance, she sees them together during the party at Raghav's place, where he openly dances with her and also during the result celebrations. Raghav is not rude towards Kalpi anymore. Did Pakhi apply her brain and try to find out why?? God she is so dumb or self-centric.

4. Raghav can't keep his eyes off Kalpi during the engagement day. Even an outsider like Gunjan guesses it. But Pakhi keeps thinking that he is only interested in her.

5. Now, coming to Raghav's behavior: A guy madly in love with a girl, as Pakhi assumes RS is, tries to spend as much time as possible with her. But Raghav does not even call her once or tries to see her outside office. Doesn't she find it odd? If, I am in love with a guy and he doesn't pay attention to me then it's a clear signal from his side that he is not interested.

Even today when she knows Raghav does not love her, she is trying to behave like a wife. For heaven's sake which girl does that? Doesn't she have a spine? Where is her self-respect? If my husband on my wedding night drops this kind of a bomb at me and tells me that he is in love with another girl, I wouldn't even look back at him let alone living in the same place or trying to be nice. I would not want that marriage to work as I'd know I had been duped. I'd pack and leave immediatey. It will be a difficult decision but then at least I will have some self-respect left.

If Pakhi had done that, we all would have clapped and said bravo girl, go show him you are not a doormat and you cannot be used for his revenge. But she is doing the opposite and hence has been knowingly or unknowingly coming between them.

Phew!! Had to get this off my chest.

Edited by artisaggi - 11 years ago

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Posted: 11 years ago
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bang on!! thats what I have been saying too...but alas the so called society has a different thinking!! by the way, Pakhi has spine and self respect [sarcasm] but it is just that she wants to prove to her delusional Kamlama that her parvarish is not wrong and that Kamla is always right!!😔
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Posted: 11 years ago
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u are right and i agree paaki is the other woman! i swear she's blind she couldnt understand and see and she is trying to win his heart is she stupid!!!šŸ˜†
Edited by ariarai - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Excellent post buddy... Agree wid u totally šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘
Pakhi was,is & will be always 3rd person in betwn RagNa
Better if she had thought to reunite RagNa or just walk out frm his life...
But frm very 1st day pakhi has no self respect.. She is the self-centered girl... Who always see wht she want to see & always do wht she want to do so no matter othrs r hurt or not coz of her antics..

If she had thought to reunite RagNa then we have appreciated.. If she had gave answer of his betreyal firmly instead of trying to nibhao the forced relationship we have proud of her...but alas wht can we expect frm the girl pakhi kapoor other than this šŸ˜†.. She is still in her dream world..can't belive how can be sum1 so stupid
Edited by SoniLuvsRT - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yeah right!!! If my husband would tell me he has married for revenge, I would have had so much anger and hatred for him and would leave instantly.
Kalpi did the same thing by resigning and returning his gifts as she has self respect to not get into an office of a person who has cheated her.

This only shows Pakhi in bad light and not Kalpi and so Pakhi's own misconceptions have landed her in a lifeless marriage.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Dear the points u pointed out in ur post are the reason y we r not able to connect wid pakhi. C was, is and will (hope this will not b true) always b 3rd perdon in ragnas life. But I realy wnt entire rags only 4 kalpu. For this he must divorce pakhi and wed kalpi legally. 4 d 1st time in indian soap i saw a lead who is not in sacrificing mode in fridays epi. Hope cvs keep up ths way only.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post šŸ‘šŸ¼
Pakhi and Kamala are both delusional and need to snap out of it pronto.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Bang on !
But I guess we are focused too much on this wedding for now hence the debate
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Posted: 11 years ago
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clap clap couldn't have said it better well done😃 all is so true
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thx ppl...had been a silent reader of India Forums since I became a Ragna fan. Thought of posting many times but was a bit apprehensive of the response, my posts will get or not get. Then yesterday just cudn't stop myself. Looks like Ragna effect😳😳

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