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I always knew it was going to be RagNa from the beginning. Yea sure the rumors and spoilers got me once here and there (but hey without them it would have not been this much fun, right?) But we all knew from the progression of the characterization it was always going to be RagNa. That was never my worry. It was what happened today. What Kamla did today. Out of all Kalpi's previous disappointments this was the one that would hurt her the most and it did.
In real life it is very common too see that parents at times do favor or put more attention to one child to another because they know one child needs it and have their tantrums and problems to deal with. And the other child is much more stable at dealing with things. I have seen it personally single handily. It does happen between real siblings that live together and are related by actual relations. And of course this has been said by Kamla time and time again. Kalpi can deal with things that Paakhi can't. We have seen it in their childhood and we are going to see it through this track. So I understand she sees Paakhi as the more the sensitive one and for Kalpi to better handle herself cause she is stronger than Paakhi.
A lot of people say Kamla loves her Paakhi more than Kalpi or doesn't love Kalpi at all...But that is not the case. Kamla does love Kalpi...its her daughter...she does love her and this is not the problem.
We have seen from the first episode itself that she decided to put her mem-saabs daughter before her own blood. All her time, love, care, energy, feelings, friendship everything went to her mem-saabs daughter first. Then whatever little was left of that went to Kalpi. The matter is not about if she loves her own blood or not but the question is why even at this stage in life is her mem-saabs daughter put first. She took care of Paakhi so she could give a future to Kalpi. But now that she is all grown up so why did Kamla choose Paakhi over Kalpi?
Why was Kamla the mother shown at a new low today?
I want an answer to this And no I do not want to hear because of OTT drama, Trps, creative are psychos in love with Poo and Dumbla. I want a genuine answer to this. What is the reason? What made her to only have a daydream about her mem-saabs daughter? What made her to only have flashbacks to Paakhi's love confessions? Why did she keep repeating over and over again that Paakhi loves Raghav yet played deaf ear to Kalpi's love? Why? Why did her heart break in a million pieces knowing Paakhis dreams would be broken but not Kalpi's? Why was she so defense for Paakhi's love?
Why couldn't she see anything past Paakhi?
In the upcoming episodes we will see that Kamla will only be convinced of RagNa's relationship because an outsider will make her understand. Not the supposed man of the house - her husband, not the man who she took in as a son - Raghav baba, not the flesh and blood daughter who she forgot existed to rescue while drowning -Kalpi, No a Outsider. Why?
Today it was not supposed to be about whose fault the misunderstanding was and play the blame game.Today was the day that Kamla was supposed to redeem herself as Kalpi's mother and yet she failed further.
Why was her motherhood shown at a new low today?
Why?
I don't usually make posts but today I couldn't help myself. Don't even know if anyone will read this or not but I needed to get this out. I would understand all this illogical logic if we had a reason behind it. But we don't and I think we deserve one. I was going to make another post about this but I miss EMA as a whole show. Most of us (including me) have stuck around only for RagNa but I use to watch this show for the story. But its been a total drab for a long time. And obviously RagNa will get together but its so hard for the audience to digest how they got their acceptance because of what Kamla did. Can we all really enjoy the rest of the show like before from now on? Any scene with Kamla and RagNa will be hard to take in anymore. And that is just sad.
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