Who is a better mom Neetu or Kamla???

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Hi everyone its silly me again going crazy over today's episode!!! By the way all the EMA episodes make me crazy...
Well Well...hmm ahem okay here i go!!

We have all made character analysis between the daughters PooPi, the boys SaRa and even probably the dads SaaVi

I am here to discuss about NeeLa!!

The two amazing characters portrayed by two amazing actors!!

Lets talk about Kamla:

She is righteous, is ready to fight for justice and is ready to help everyone. She is a simple woman who finds her happiness in other's happiness. Not very demanding in her personal life she still aims for a skylevel dream for her daughter!

She is such a great soul who was ready to shower her motherly love more on someone else's child than her own! Yes she does love Kalpi but its just a teeny weeny bit more for Poo!

Usually they say that a mother always loves the weaker child! Poo here is the weaklink! She is innocent and cries for everything and anything and gets happy also for anything and everything.

She knows her employers are not a very good and honest lot, however she still has a heart big enough to forgive them. Not aware of the fact that they are taking advantage of her or her family she continues to serve them with full faith and honesty!!

Thats it!!! Phew I was almost nauseated to write at least this much gud for her!!

Now for the real part!! Is Kamla a true hero or a Vamp for her family!

She has been the financial strength for her family but that did make her a bit dominating! She was the one who decided everything for the family and by showing a puppy dog face she kept convincing Vitthal to support her in all her decisions.

Vitthal keeps calling her bholi but Vitthal you are the one who is bhola!!!

She has always told him she loves him but always takes him for granted!!
Yeh kya pyaar hai kamla! She is ready to fight with him for someone else!

She is ready to scold her child publicly even though she is not wrong (kalpi working at neetu's house case) and slaps her!!!!

Whereas she lovingly teaches Paakhi how it is wrong to snatch others things that too after Vitthal drives sense into her!!

She does not trust her own daughter but believes whatever Paakhi or anyone else says anything!

She claims Vitthal n Kalpi to be always wrong whereas she is the only one who is right!!!

When her daughter falls in love, instead of getting excited or having mixed feelings of losing her to someone else she is more concerned that her daughter did not open up to her!!! How will she you fool when all your time is devoted to others!!

Where has she given time to her own kids and then she lectures about being a Mother to them???!! Even in Pakya's case she could have easily encouraged him to work and study which many poor boys do! They work in the mornings and study in the night! This way she could have made him independant too!!!! But she is hardly bothered about him too!!!

Now comes Neetu's turn:

She is a total vamp! Doesn't bother about anybody but her happiness! She gets whateva she wants by hook or crook?!!

But what does she want? Eventually she wants her family to be happy! And she was ready to share her child with Kamla just for her convenience and for Poo's happiness!!

She was constantly compared to Kamla and hence her hatred towards her is justified!! She is a woman who can even not step back from killing someone for her husband!!! Now thats some love!!!! She was ready to kill Gauri as she knew Gau was a threat to Saahil!!!

She could not bear Kalpi getting better grades than Poo and hence tried everytime to bring her down the ladder!

But she eventually spied and found out correctly what her daughter wants!!!! She has always pampered daughter with all material things, though I agree she has hurt her more number of times but that again it was for her husband and her chocopie!!!

Though she knew that Poo liked Raghav she was insecured about Kalpi n Raghav's closeness!!! She was the one who doubted them!!

In fact I used to think she will think Kalpi is poor and not good looking (acc to her) and Raghav will not notice her!! But deep in her mind that Kalpi has everything that can charm any man!! Even when Kalpi as a kid had entered her party and her friends mistook her for Neetu's daughter she knew that Kalpi is a great daughter and an amazing child and she was jealous of Kamla!

She knew Kalpi could make her Aai's dreams come true! She trusted Kalpi more than Kamla that she will surely top the exams and hence bribed the examiners to fail her!

Yesterday she workd so hard so that she can keep Gauri away from Raghav and bring PooRa closer!!!

I think she might not be the Perfect Mother but she is surely a hell of a mother!!! Kudos to her for sticking to her family and ready to be bad for them to protect them from all!!!

I have merely put in my POV! If anyone feels otherwise, I hv no issues! Its just a REMIX thought tht came to my mind!!!! You may comment, like or criticise!!!!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Neetu might be evil, but when it comes to her children they came first, point blank! She does differentiate b/w her own children as she always put Prem ahead of Pakhi, so in that sense she has inherited Kamla's characteristics.

But when it comes to outsiders, she will always pick her own blood, so she takes the crown from Devi Maiya the great.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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For me Neetu there id no way im picking kamla
neetu and ragna are my favorite characters
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Neetu is a better mom. She knows what her kids need, tries to fulfill her dream by hook or crook.
Kamala actually doesn't know anything about her daughter.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Neetu might be evil and scheming but she is way much better than Kamala !! She keeps the interest of her kids ahead of everything unlike dumbla...for me she is a better mom and the best mother is Gowri !!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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neetu... the reason is well known to all...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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kamla ignored pakya and kalpi... ask her even if she knows what his son feels and likes... well about kalpi... we saw what she feels...nor is she a better mom for pakhi...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nitu is a better mom...but kamla is mahaaan...mother india...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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neetu ofcourse no doubt, u have already given all d reason
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wow it feels good that there are many who think like me and who like bad women as a mother!!!!! Thanks for making me feel I am normal!!

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