Ways of Defining Happiness.. She has to have what she wishes to have.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Mihika

there is a thing that i want to point out about the birthday nite. i seriously think that he was there staring at the building where kapoors live and not for kalpi. she was there by co incidence. remember the day he took pakhi out for the date he had the same look on his face. yes he does keeps tabs on kamla's family but i am so sure that he did not go there for kalpi on her birthday.😕

no i guess he was looking at her coz i think he turned to look at her😕😕😕

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Seju! Yaar tum bhi na!

I don't agree on the fact that Raghav needs to see beyond showing off his money. Did he say what he said to the seller in front of Kalpi? See if he would have said that, then it would have been the time for him to realize that Kalpi isn't out after his money only. Moreover it's a date so it is obvious that he will be spending money on things like restaurant bills, shopping, even if its about eating ice-cream near the roadside. Everything requires money and I don't see any unusual things in that sense. He was happy that his wish was finally granted when he finally took Kalpi out on a date. And he is doing whatever he could to make their date special. I am sure even he understands that money isn't an issue in their relationship.

I am sure he isn't the kind of a person which will show off his wealth in an appropriate manner. And I am sure Even Kalpi will be able to open herself more towards Raghav as they both needs to understand each other in more personal levels.

And I would pick a second option for Kalpi. Enough of sacrificing she has made for Kamla. Now it's time for her to put her focus on to Raghav and make efforts to increase mutual understandings. 😳

I have been missing this *CONTRADICTORY* Debating posts for a while.. since love story started..!!

Well on normal date.. it's girls job to make their man spend.. and here.. man is taking and making her spend..! though he didn't say it in front of Kalpana.. he knew.. kalpi wouldn't be happy about it..!!

In fact.. I could clearly recollect, Raghav telling Kalpi... this is normal store for Kalpi.. and Kalpi had that uneasy look on her face.. Raghav in a go added who is telling u to buy, just try it..!!
See.. I am not denying it's his way to show her happiness... and that how happy he is.. at the same time.. adding to it was.. giving credit card to shop keeper saying.. make her feel comfortable.. and get her everything she sets her hands on... !! Wow!! Waise I would love it.. but Kalpi wouldn't..!! and agar jaana tha.. toh baad mein jaata.. but he is taking shopping break sabse pehle..!!
I found it extremely weird..!! and I am not saying in an inappropritate manner..

But still I found it.. like he indirectly, told, her.. Go and have ur own time to have fun and buy things.. u r Raghav Singhaniya's GF..!!
Didn't even paakhi take Kalpi for shopping.. what did Kalpi do then, went ahead and looked for something of lowest cost..!! that's Kalpana..!! and Don't see Price Tag.. is Paakhi..!!

It felt as if Raghav Singhaniya's GF .. has to be in that category.. to not look at price tags and buy whatever comes into ur sight..!!

Phewww.. Second is my fav. option too.. It's time to solve Mommy's case..!!

Originally posted by: foram.

no i guess he was looking at her coz i think he turned to look at her😕😕😕

I dunno.. seeing at the scene.. it felt.. as if Raghav had followed her out from chawl..!! and seen her upset...!!

Dunno..! It was too vague.. but all of us were happy that Raghav had that insense look in his eyes..!!

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

I have been missing this *CONTRADICTORY* Debating posts for a while.. since love story started..!!

Well on normal date.. it's girls job to make their man spend.. and here.. man is taking and making her spend..! though he didn't say it in front of Kalpana.. he knew.. kalpi wouldn't be happy about it..!!

In fact.. I could clearly recollect, Raghav telling Kalpi... this is normal store for Kalpi.. and Kalpi had that uneasy look on her face.. Raghav in a go added who is telling u to buy, just try it..!!
See.. I am not denying it's his way to show her happiness... and that how happy he is.. at the same time.. adding to it was.. giving credit card to shop keeper saying.. make her feel comfortable.. and get her everything she sets her hands on... !! Wow!! Waise I would love it.. but Kalpi wouldn't..!! and agar jaana tha.. toh baad mein jaata.. but he is taking shopping break sabse pehle..!!
I found it extremely weird..!! and I am not saying in an inappropritate manner..

But still I found it.. like he indirectly, told, her.. Go and have ur own time to have fun and buy things.. u r Raghav Singhaniya's GF..!!
Didn't even paakhi take Kalpi for shopping.. what did Kalpi do then, went ahead and looked for something of lowest cost..!! that's Kalpana..!! and Don't see Price Tag.. is Paakhi..!!

It felt as if Raghav Singhaniya's GF .. has to be in that category.. to not look at price tags and buy whatever comes into ur sight..!!

Phewww.. Second is my fav. option too.. It's time to solve Mommy's case..!!

Lol! I am glad we finally came up with this contradictory debate
😛

But see its his own gesture of showing happiness. I am sure he isn't doing this out of curiosity as to what might Kalpi thinks. That's how Raghav showers his happiness, where as Kalpi finds ease in something else. You don't have to change yourself completely but rather adjust in each others style. Raghav has done that before and he will continue doing that when the time permits or demands him. And even in the future Kalpi will be spending his money as his wife. There is just a thin line between the name tags GF & a wife. Their responsibilities and actions are almost the same. So why to wait then if she is comfortable accepting the fact that she is Raghav's only. And to be honest I didn't see her being uncomfortable in the sense that Raghav is showing off the money rather she was feeling why are they even there in the first place. She said herself that it wasnt right for them to be out like that during office hours. 😛 I am sure she will not mind an expensive date either, it's just that it has to be at the right time.

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

I dunno.. seeing at the scene.. it felt.. as if Raghav had followed her out from chawl..!! and seen her upset...!!

Dunno..! It was too vague.. but all of us were happy that Raghav had that insense look in his eyes..!!

no no even i was happy with that scene but this thought came to me ever since he went to pick pakhi for the fake date. he was looking at the building and that is when i thought what if raghav came to see the building and kalpi happened to be there by chance. then i went and saw that episode and in that scene raghav's car was there even before kalpi came infront of the building.as far as i remember thats y i told this nothing else.

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Lol! I am glad we finally came up with this contradictory debate
😛

But see its his own gesture of showing happiness. I am sure he isn't doing this out of curiosity as to what might Kalpi thinks. That's how Raghav showers his happiness, where as Kalpi finds ease in something else. You don't have to change yourself completely but rather adjust in each others style. Raghav has done that before and he will continue doing that when the time permits or demands him. And even in the future Kalpi will be spending his money as his wife. There is just a thin line between the name tags GF & a wife. Their responsibilities and actions are almost the same. So why to wait then if she is comfortable accepting the fact that she is Raghav's only. And to be honest I didn't see her being uncomfortable in the sense that Raghav is showing off the money rather she was feeling why are they even there in the first place. She said herself that it wasnt right for them to be out like that during office hours. 😛 I am sure she will not mind an expensive date either, it's just that it has to be at the right time.

Anum.. time is right for date..!! But.. not to level that Raghav is going.. He needs to slow down a bit..!! Don't u think so too..!! I agree.. he has waited hell lot for this moment..!!
Kalpi is still in *getting used to* stage of love.. whereas am sure, Raghav might have experienced of OBSERVING some sort of love stories.. in USA. .. or wherever he was..!! And .. it's different from country to country..!! But Kalpi.. is somewhere still too shy person, though she is enjoying the time,,
Look at precap...
First she is shocked.. then she looks here, then she looks there, then she looks at raghav... and then looks elsewhere.. before she gets into Raghav completely...


She is still too conscious about people..!!
and .. regarding shopping.. I agree both of them have different ways of showing happiness..!! Kalpi also gifted something Raghav.. but her gift was more based on emotions.. and don't u think.. Raghav's way of gifting is like... Get everything what u want.. it is similar to those of .. I am sorry to say but Paakhi's..!!
I agree Kalpi needs to get used to Raghav's ways.. but why not take smaller steps.. like.. I said.. first go to garden, have some ice cream, and could have kept.. shopping ka sequence sabse last..!!
Honestly, I disliked the idea of him giving credit card to shop keeper saying, get her everything she lays her hands on..!!

Originally posted by: Mihika

no no even i was happy with that scene but this thought came to me ever since he went to pick pakhi for the fake date. he was looking at the building and that is when i thought what if raghav came to see the building and kalpi happened to be there by chance. then i went and saw that episode and in that scene raghav's car was there even before kalpi came infront of the building.as far as i remember thats y i told this nothing else.

Lol.. arrey don't be so conscious..! either of us can be right..!! at then end... both Ragna.. have ultimate goal of getting kapoors on street.!!😆😆😆

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Anum.. time is right for date..!! But.. not to level that Raghav is going.. He needs to slow down a bit..!! Don't u think so too..!! I agree.. he has waited hell lot for this moment..!!
Kalpi is still in *getting used to* stage of love.. whereas am sure, Raghav might have experienced of OBSERVING some sort of love stories.. in USA. .. or wherever he was..!! And .. it's different from country to country..!! But Kalpi.. is somewhere still too shy person, though she is enjoying the time,,
Look at precap...
First she is shocked.. then she looks here, then she looks there, then she looks at raghav... and then looks elsewhere.. before she gets into Raghav completely...


She is still too conscious about people..!!
and .. regarding shopping.. I agree both of them have different ways of showing happiness..!! Kalpi also gifted something Raghav.. but her gift was more based on emotions.. and don't u think.. Raghav's way of gifting is like... Get everything what u want.. it is similar to those of .. I am sorry to say but Paakhi's..!!
I agree Kalpi needs to get used to Raghav's ways.. but why not take smaller steps.. like.. I said.. first go to garden, have some ice cream, and could have kept.. shopping ka sequence sabse last..!!
Honestly, I disliked the idea of him giving credit card to shop keeper saying, get her everything she lays her hands on..!!

Sejal ab Kiya Raghav credit card Nahe dega tu Kiya free main he will ask to let her buy things ? 😛 😆

That's what I said, their ways of expressing happiness is so different apart. But they still end up meeting a mutual level of acceptance in the end. Trust me, these types of incidents will occur even in the future where each one of them would have to come across with their initial ways of showing their attributes towards certain circumstances.

But hey! I loved the precap scene

Love the way how Kalpi fearfully sees each of her sides and then finally getting lost in the love of Raghav. She may not have expected that Raghav would do such things as to her he is "Raghav Singhania" Haaye! Can't wait for tomorrow.

Great topic and a very thoughtful post...

Nice post..I am going with your second option..Kamla loves Kalpi but can't show her..Where Pakhi come with Kamla because she think her parent can't give which Kamla & Vithal give Kalpi & Pakya..

I think Ragav make her to see different way..When Kalpi more comfortable with Ragav that she change her priority..


PS: Do you which epi. for Kalpi;s birthday?