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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShanUlas

kamla is behaving like a typical mother

kalpi like a typical daughter

well if u scare a girl right from childhood about things like love and boys then how will she tell u that she is in love !!!


i so much wish kalpi at least tells something to vithal if not kamla...coz vithal has always been the best father a girl can ever have ...though kamla failed to strike chords with her daughter just the way neetu failed with paaki



Something that typically shouts out here Shana.. is the trust factor.!!
No matter what... U cannot and never use word Lafda.. to indicate any sort of problem when discussing about this issue of ur own daughter.. typical mother could go like.. I think.. My duaghter is hiding something, I think she is in love.. or some good way or presenting..!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32
I hate too this word ..cheap
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Posted: 11 years ago
#33
OK... What does that mean exactly? Lafda?!
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Posted: 11 years ago
#34
I honestly find Kamla being more critical towards Kalpi rather than Pakhi - What is this discrimination when they are both your daughter? Why encourage one and discourage the other? And why is she more open with one and more reserved with the other? This character just baffles me!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I know right.
Is it wrong for Kalpana to fall in love? Especially when Kamla does not mind if Paakhi is in love. If I ever met Kamla Ma I would ask her, what is the difference between the two girls you consider to be equal? Why does she think one is allowed to go fall in love while the other just has to spend every moment of her life fulfilling the dream to become memsaab?
As a mother, her worry is expected. But my only question is that if as a mother she is worried for Kalpi then why didn't she show the same worry where Paakhi's love was concerned?
Kamla should know that her daughter is a great person. Using the word lafda to describe your own daughter's relationship is a bit too much. Especially when you know she would never do anything wrong.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#36
An awesome post, the first time I heard this word from kamla, I had the same reaction, a very inappropriate word to use for even a third person and using it for your own daughter is just demeaning her not the guy 😕.
At one point I considered the fact that as kamla is a bai and she comes from chowl her language is like this, but then seeing how righteous they have showed her character, who will not even bad mouth neetu , using this word is like killing her own character . With every passing day I'm more and more rooting for our gowri mayya to put some sense into kamla 😉
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Her saying that downgraded, totally disrespected and insulted her own daughter. What a shameful mother.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shona_Mayur

I honestly find Kamla being more critical towards Kalpi rather than Pakhi - What is this discrimination when they are both your daughter? Why encourage one and discourage the other? And why is she more open with one and more reserved with the other? This character just baffles me!



You know her character has been pretty consistent since the beginning of the show but I noticed the CVs have made quite a few 180 degree turns on her since the RagNa relationship took off. It seems instead of Paakhi they are making Kamla the thorn in their relationship.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#39
Kamla is weird...
Pakhi's infatuation is pyaar
Kalpi's love is lafda

She dreama of kalpi becoming a memsaab but she isnt ok with kalpi attending rich ppl's parties...n forget rich ppl ke parties...she doesnt even like kalpi attending her office parties..
She doesnt want kalpi to fall in love with a rich guy

What is kamla expecting? When kalpi becomes a memsaab is she going to marry a guy frm chawl who isnt apt for kalpi's status?

Weird mother kamla just dreams big...nut doesnt wanna let kalpi do anything which middleclass or better class ppl do... at every point she makes kalpi aware that they r from chawl
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Posted: 11 years ago
#40
Glad you made this post, I was wondering why no one was reacting to this.
I too was so mad to hear Kamala use this cheap word while talking about her daughter.
She understands Pakhi's love and talked so well to her about it, so why can't she extend the same courtesy to Kalpi.

She never asks Kalpi anything directly, she first checks with Pakhi and gets half baked info and then cross checks with Kalpi that too in a round-a-bout way.

How will her daughter trust her to confide in her when she was never really there for Kalpi.

And lafda is a word that's part of street language not something a mother uses for her child😡

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