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oH GUYS come on ,, why think on others matters alot,, let people say ,, what they are saying,, be strong wiht ur thoughts only,, its ur opinion and no one can impose any kind of opinion on u🥱

Originally posted by: dhanuli

oH GUYS come on ,, why think on others matters alot,, let people say ,, what they are saying,, be strong wiht ur thoughts only,, its ur opinion and no one can impose any kind of opinion on u🥱

Hi,
Aditi and Avni,

Chalo, let me clear and direct, None of the Development team member was meant to hurt you by closing the table and none of us would actually want you to leave, trust me on it.
But yes, that post of Negative therapy was really pinning, how and why?

Yes, as a member you have right to express your views, put ur thoughts forwards, have right to stay positive .. agreed. And the title of the post did suggest that Stay Positive... But as long as your post do not hurt other people, you cannot pinpoint or refer to the person/ people making the post..!!
the words chosen in the post

sum ppl did the crash course of negative therapy kitna negative sochte ho yaar 1st u guyz doubt dat kalpi confession

Chalo.. I was the one who made a post on my fears and doubts, because that scene really scared me... those talks really scared me..

According to you, have I done any crash course?? I mean as per the words, *U guys* aren't u referring it to my and my thinking in the post?
Trust me, it sounded like it, that you were talking to me directly..!

Yes, I understand, some fears of person can disappoint you, or spoil your mood, but that does you attack back asking ...
I feel little weird but tum log na kamla ki tarah sound krne lge ho 😆I mean b happy yaar we finally got our special day I mean it's confession day😳

Hurts me, because.. I did make a post or thought of the words after listening to Kamla, and sequence of the whole scene was portrayed in weirdest manner.!! I did give my justification later in post, if u might have seen it...

Sorry guyz if I hurt sum1 but u guyz didn't knw ur hurting others 2 I mean ppl who always wants 2 enjoy the present track n happy moment u always give them reason 2 b sad😕 So plzzz it's a request b little positive coz u al r RAGNA fans i guess😊

I dunno, who was personally *Hurt* by the post, there is difference between being disappointed by post, or feeling sad, and feeling hurt..
Personally I was hurt by the post, so, said it.. and had decided to call it a quit..!!

When it comes to likes, I had a friend who PMed me.. saying..
She did not even read the post seriously, it was for some seriously negative people..!! When I say, negative, I am talking about post, which put up something, without any proper source and are constantly putting it up, with nothing new way of saying..
Yes, I am the person, who likes to stay positive too, there I made a post when people were upset about some rumors being spread..!!

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ek-mutthi-aasmaan/3980685/relax-now-no-more-negative-thoughts-psychologist-is-here

Look at the difference.. When you want to stop people from having a negative thought, try to provide them with a reason to be happy, rather then laughing at them by calling them kamla, or the ones who have taken negative course.. No.. No.. That just adds disappointment among the members..!! Just be careful with words you use, that's it..

Chose the words carefully while making a post, you have freedom of speech and right to opine your views, but not right to hurt others for them putting their views.!!😊

What Mods mean by moral policing is telling other members what to do and what not to do, by saying rights or wrongs.. Telling members to make a post which has some negative feelings, To make some posts which has only RagNa and their thoughts.. Naa.. let that thing be left to development team... We are here, for ourselves and our freedom, accordingly, everyone has freedom, as long as it doesn't hurt other members..!!

Yes, today I am at post of Coolbie, but yes, I was
All I can say is there was a time, I too was new, and had never realized that till my wonderful friends from Kumkum forum, brought me up with constant guidance and help, to keep myself in check..!!

I have no hard feelings for anyone, and neither do mods,..

Disliking Paakhi, fine, finding her irritating ok, but then, we cannot use extreme words like Kill, Go to sets and shoot, or such an extreme sense of words, which are actually hurting pinch of humanity, particularly, when character isn't even negative yet..!! Anyways, that's a different topic guys..!!
But.. as of now..
It's all about chosing the words you use..!! How you present it..

Aditi, I may reply to my post to your query over there..!! in my post,.. on Kalpi leave after party..!! But just later in day..!!

Dear all DT does not want anyone to leave and yes all have the right to express . DT decisions are taken after lot of thought and you have any issue or you don't understand why the decision was taken you can always PM DT instead if opening a post on the matter

Gosh.. I could see research effects in my post..!! Lol..
closing the table and none

I meant.. closing the thread btw..!!


And thanks Nandini, for clearing it out.. PMing is anytime easier then, trying to get replies from us.. ! DT can better explain things.. :)

Originally posted by: Nandiniraizaada

Dear all DT does not want anyone to leave and yes all have the right to express . DT decisions are taken after lot of thought and you have any issue or you don't understand why the decision was taken you can always PM DT instead if opening a post on the matter

We had a friendly forum till now and I hope that continues

exactly dis is the frdly forum n I don't think she used any harsh words n thankz but u don't have 2 tel me bout PM if I was being warned I definitely done dat so y tellin me y don't her who was n ya datz different view may b she didn't got the idea 2 talk 2 DT's directly she may have think dat like her previous post her current will also get noticed so y PM 😆

Originally posted by: shahsb_26

Hi,
Aditi and Avni,

Chalo, let me clear and direct, None of the Development team member was meant to hurt you by closing the table and none of us would actually want you to leave, trust me on it.
But yes, that post of Negative therapy was really pinning, how and why?

Yes, as a member you have right to express your views, put ur thoughts forwards, have right to stay positive .. agreed. And the title of the post did suggest that Stay Positive... But as long as your post do not hurt other people, you cannot pinpoint or refer to the person/ people making the post..!!
the words chosen in the post

sum ppl did the crash course of negative therapy kitna negative sochte ho yaar 1st u guyz doubt dat kalpi confession

Chalo.. I was the one who made a post on my fears and doubts, because that scene really scared me... those talks really scared me..

According to you, have I done any crash course?? I mean as per the words, *U guys* aren't u referring it to my and my thinking in the post?
Trust me, it sounded like it, that you were talking to me directly..!

Yes, I understand, some fears of person can disappoint you, or spoil your mood, but that does you attack back asking ...
I feel little weird but tum log na kamla ki tarah sound krne lge ho 😆I mean b happy yaar we finally got our special day I mean it's confession day😳

Hurts me, because.. I did make a post or thought of the words after listening to Kamla, and sequence of the whole scene was portrayed in weirdest manner.!! I did give my justification later in post, if u might have seen it...

Sorry guyz if I hurt sum1 but u guyz didn't knw ur hurting others 2 I mean ppl who always wants 2 enjoy the present track n happy moment u always give them reason 2 b sad😕 So plzzz it's a request b little positive coz u al r RAGNA fans i guess😊

I dunno, who was personally *Hurt* by the post, there is difference between being disappointed by post, or feeling sad, and feeling hurt..
Personally I was hurt by the post, so, said it.. and had decided to call it a quit..!!

When it comes to likes, I had a friend who PMed me.. saying..
She did not even read the post seriously, it was for some seriously negative people..!! When I say, negative, I am talking about post, which put up something, without any proper source and are constantly putting it up, with nothing new way of saying..
Yes, I am the person, who likes to stay positive too, there I made a post when people were upset about some rumors being spread..!!

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ek-mutthi-aasmaan/3980685/relax-now-no-more-negative-thoughts-psychologist-is-here

Look at the difference.. When you want to stop people from having a negative thought, try to provide them with a reason to be happy, rather then laughing at them by calling them kamla, or the ones who have taken negative course.. No.. No.. That just adds disappointment among the members..!! Just be careful with words you use, that's it..

Chose the words carefully while making a post, you have freedom of speech and right to opine your views, but not right to hurt others for them putting their views.!!😊

What Mods mean by moral policing is telling other members what to do and what not to do, by saying rights or wrongs.. Telling members to make a post which has some negative feelings, To make some posts which has only RagNa and their thoughts.. Naa.. let that thing be left to development team... We are here, for ourselves and our freedom, accordingly, everyone has freedom, as long as it doesn't hurt other members..!!

Yes, today I am at post of Coolbie, but yes, I was
All I can say is there was a time, I too was new, and had never realized that till my wonderful friends from Kumkum forum, brought me up with constant guidance and help, to keep myself in check..!!

I have no hard feelings for anyone, and neither do mods,..

Disliking Paakhi, fine, finding her irritating ok, but then, we cannot use extreme words like Kill, Go to sets and shoot, or such an extreme sense of words, which are actually hurting pinch of humanity, particularly, when character isn't even negative yet..!! Anyways, that's a different topic guys..!!
But.. as of now..
It's all about chosing the words you use..!! How you present it..

Aditi, I may reply to my post to your query over there..!! in my post,.. on Kalpi leave after party..!! But just later in day..!!

If you really wanted to know the reason why her topic was closed , you could hv PMed the same dev team .. isn't it ...

Anyways the topic was closed because we got complaints against the very topic by same members of this forum only ... we dont close topics without any reason but only when we get reports against it


everyone is free to express their opinion as long as one does not force their POV on others or ask members not to post any negative .. its freedom of expression whether one wants to post positive or negative as long as its not on the lines of bashing ...

Hope your query is answered now dear ... if u hv any more issues , feel free to PM me

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