For once, can she really be her mother?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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A mother comes in to a picture when a child feels distress and restless. A mother would know even before a child can say how he/she is feeling and fighting with the uncertainties. She offers a lap in which a child can lay down and rest it's head for the peace of mind. But it doesn't always happens the same way as a child expects it to be.

They say , a true best friend for a girl would be her sister but who shall be her best friend if she doesn't have a sister ? And then we say, it has to be a mother.

It broke my heart when I saw Kalpi's state of mind when her constant calls were ignored by Raghav. She was furious, she was irritated, she was mad and yet her Aai Kamla didn't see what she was going through. Instead, she scold her for not doing what she suppose to do?

I am not really aware of the incidents that have taken place between the two of them. The only thing I concluded from the days I came across with the story is that Kamla has always differentiate between Kalpi and Pakki in many aspects.

Looking at the current situation. I feel Kalpi is yet to face her biggest problems and that isn't Raghav but her own mother. She will be her biggest enemy who would come in between her happiness and life. Kamla is still unaware of the facts that Kalpi has feelings for someone. She has dreams that she sees could possibly become her own. But what we will expect from her is another reluctant decision in support to Kalpi's dreams. Because to Kamla, it's Pakki's happiness that matters the most. She will have a good excuse of Pakki confessing her feelings first. She would not mind if her own daughter gets hurt and graved all of her dreams in her heart for the rest of her life.

Kamla's state of mind at this point is really confusing. She doesn't know how to look into her daughter's eyes and say that "Kalpi whatever you do in life, I will be ready to support you" isn't that's what Kalpi has craved all her life?

Even in today's episode there was no need for her to tell anything about Kalpi's change in behavior to Pakki. I would have suggested her to take a glance by herself into Kalpi's heart, and see if you can find a girl who still looks for her mother to rest her head and lay out her worries.

Kalpi has faced so many obstacles in her life and yet her mother never showed any genuine care towards her. So I say, mother Kamla, I wish for once you would stand for your daughter out of compromise and care for her happiness from the heart. I wish you would support her when she will happily tell you that she is in love with the person you wouldn't probably want to hear about.


And then for once, I would say. Can you really be her mother?

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ameilia thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Bang on Anum👏👏
U can tell when a mother is so so far away from her daughter and her life that she needs to ask someone to SPY on her despite living under the same roof.It really irks me that she couldnt even ask her own daughter what is going on in her her life??A mother's bond with her daughter is something so special and unbreakable but guess what i dnt see that with Kalpi and Kamla.
Kalpi is like the robot(as i mentioned in another post) that can only take commands from Kamla.She doesnt and just cant be expected to be anyhting else than that.
Kamla is so delusional and far gone in her quest to make her daughter fulfill HER dreams thats she neglects the responsibilities of being a REAL mother to her.Kalpi is the one that everyone can live through because they couldnt fulfil their own dreams.Kamla lives vicariously through Kalpi.
No worries for Kamla,she has another beti whom she can shower her love to.That love was meant for Kalpi.Sure she should have share her love but constantly we get these moments when Kalpi is ignored in the room as if she too cant give her mother a hug.
I agree with your point of Kamla being Kalpi's biggest problem.A daughter shouldnt have to demand attention and love from her won mother especially when Paakhi is there.
Kamla has always differentiated between the two.The fact that she cant even see or sense it just proves what a delusional person she really is.The world is not black and while Kamla!!!The biggest incident was Kamla saving Paakhi first from drowning when her daughter could have lost his life.Even animals would have protected their own but social service is more important than the duties of a mother.
It has come to past and we will surely bet it will happen in the future.Kalpi will be forced to walk away from her love because of Kamla's interference and lack of concern of her feelings.
The role of a mother will be squandered because a job, a mere human gave her will be much more important than the blessing of a child from God.
Kamla can really be a mother??I dnt see it happening now.
Edited by ameilia - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Brilliant Post Anum !👏

@For once, can she really be her mother?This is indeed too much to ask and expect from Kamala Bai, I wonder why CV's choose such a flawed character to shove down our throats painting her as mahaan🤢


I am sure even in the end CV's will portray her as mahaan aatma and Kalpi as ignorant child, who could not see or feel her mothers genuine love😡

Edited by nandinidavid96 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Anum heavy wala topic hai kal reply karungi ok? abhi feeling sleepy 😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I totally agree with you👏...Kamla maa really needs to know her priorities which is Kalpi not Pookie😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ameilia

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Bang on Anum👏👏</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">U can tell when a mother is so so far away from her daughter and her life that she needs to ask someone to SPY on her despite living under the same roof.It really irks me that she couldnt even ask her own daughter what is going on in her her life??A mother's bond with her daughter is something so special and unbreakable but guess what i dnt see that with Kalpi and Kamla.</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Kalpi is like the robot(as i mentioned in another post) that can only take commands from Kamla.She doesnt and just cant be expected to be anyhting else than that.</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Kamla is so delusional and far gone in her quest to make her daughter fulfill HER dreams thats she neglects the responsibilities of being a REAL mother to her.Kalpi is the one that everyone can live through because they couldnt fulfil their own dreams.Kamla lives vicariously through Kalpi.</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">No worries for Kamla,she has another beti whom she can shower her love to.That love was meant for Kalpi.Sure she should have share her love but constantly we get these moments when Kalpi is ignored in the room as if she too cant give her mother a hug.</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I agree with your point of Kamla being Kalpi's biggest problem.A daughter shouldnt have to demand attention and love from her won mother especially when Paakhi is there.</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Kamla has always differentiated between the two.The fact that she cant even see or sense it justproveswhat a delusional person she really is.The world is not black and while Kamla!!!The biggest incident was Kamla saving Paakhi first from drowning when her daughter could have lost his life.Even animals would have protected their own but social service is more important than the duties of a mother.</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">It has come to past and we will surely bet it will happen in the future.Kalpi will be forced to walk away from her love because of Kamla's interference and lack of concern of her feelings.</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">The role of a mother will be squandered because a job, a mere human gave her will be much more important than the blessing of a child from God.</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Kamla can really be a mother??I dnt see it happening now.</font>

Thanks Amy! 😃 Since I also don't have a sister, I can some what relate myself to her. But fortunately I have a mother who isn't close to what Kamla is right now. She never once has made me realize that I don't have a sister whom I can't share my happiness and sorrows all together. I can happily say that my mother is my strength.


You have some awesome points here. Kamla isn't confidence enough to ask her daughter about that sudden change in her behavior rather she asked Pakkhi to spy and get all the info's. One can clearly see the flaw in her. I don't know what stops her for being concerned about her own daughter's health and well being? We have seen how she has tried couple of times to be part of Kalpi's life but she has failed terribly. Why? Because whenever she tries to give her that comfort that she needs, Pakhi always jumps in and snatches away those rights. And surprisingly she gives away those rights to her without thinking what might Kalpi would think and feel.

And yes, as we all expect, she won't feel a thing when Kalpi will tell her about Rags. That is why I don't want her to confess to her mother but I want her to confess to her father. Vithal is much more reliable and more protective towards her.
Edited by Manoshono - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nandinidavid96


<h1><font size="2">Brilliant Post Anum !👏</font></h1><h1><font size="2"><font color="#ff0000">@For once, can she really be her mother?</font>This is indeed too much to ask and expect from Kamala Bai, I wonder why CV's choose such a flawed character to shove down our throats painting her as mahaan🤢</font></h1><h1>
</h1><h1><font size="2">I am sure even in the end CV's will portray her as mahaan aatma and Kalpi as ignorant child, who could not see or feel her mothers genuine love😡</font></h1>

😆 😆 Nandani true that! I was expecting Kamla's character to be strong enough to support Kalpi in all her decisions. I thought it was about a woman who couldnt do anything in life because of her own reasons but she will definitely going to support her daughter and raise her strong so she fights for herself and for her family. Kalpi did fight. She has the capability to outcome her problems but Kamla tends to ignore those qualities hence, pushes her away 😕
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Posted: 11 years ago
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kamla wants to be Mahan to everyone ,except her daughter, this woman voice really irritates me😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@kya re: Oh my! Is that really you ShanaG? I just noticed 😛 will wait for some insights from you.

@Soni-zee: I agree she needs to change her priorities just for little bit for the sake of her innocent daughter. She needs to realize how lonely Kalpi is despite of having a mother.

@Eastmeetswest: lol! Mahaanta is in her blood. And I hate the fact that those mahaantas causes big troubles. I don't want any troubles in between RagNa.
Edited by Manoshono - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Kamla maa always tell others how to treat their children! Why don't she look at the way she treats her daughter! She treats Paaki more like a daughter than she treats Kalpi!

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