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Hi Friends,
I am very new to this forum. I've been silently following all your posts,comments and conversation abt EMA,Raghav & Kalpi.Today after seeing the episode I felt like penning down my feelings.
I relate to most of the scenes shown in EMA coz they actually happened with me.I am from a middle class easy go happy family until Ram had entered into my life when I was 12 years of old.We did our schooling together and were very close pals.Ram was a very rich guy and I was not even close to him and fundamentally never had any feelings for him.But he did!!
This he revealed after my 10th grade.I was in splits and started ignoring him but he never gave up.It took about 3 years for me to accept his proposal.When I reached my graduation even though both of us were not from the same college he used to come n meet me and be beside me n my family during our thick n thin times.He did all the best possible things a guy could ever do for a girl in all possible ways and means.Made me strong,bold and taught me to face the society with courage etc .Sometime very silently helped me n sometimes upfront shielded me n my family.
I started to feel for him and wanted to accept his proposal but because of his rich background never dared to.At last I did confess my feelings towards him after my graduation.He mingled with my family coz he was know since childhood but I could never fit his world.He never made me feel that I am from another world instead he came down to my level of living and did what all pleases me.But when the time came for us to get hooked to each other his family denied our relationship and threatened us that thy wuld end themselves if we get married to each other.
Ram left me for his parents to safeguard their family reputation by not marrying me.This man who was so stubborn about our relationship,who had strong view point and killer attitude n what not failed to convince his family just because of my class n his class.
I've been watching this serial and saw my self in place of Kalpi.But,I am fortunate enough that I donot have Maa like Kamala Bai who keeps on sacrificing.My parents never knew abt my relation with Ram till date n consider him to still be my best buddy.
Ram and Raghav are no different for me.I personally want Raghav & Kalpi to be together against all the odds of life.I failed in my life but want the reel life couple to win.This may sound weird n stupid but I alone know the pain of loosing a partner just because of "CLASS"!!
I've not been sleeping properly out of the fear that Kalpi and Raghav would be separated because of few stupid ppls point of view thereby ruining the couples life.
We all have tensions n problems in life but this serial has been so refreshing by far n I want it to maintain its dignity by not becoming like any other stupid serials.
CID
