Now a days i like paakhi more than kalpi - Page 2

Originally posted by: princessonline

Honestly, I think Paakhi is such a sweet girl. She is far from selfish and I am not sure why people in this forum hate her so much. Kalpi is so rude to Paakhi, yet Paakhi still shows concern for her. It just goes to show how much of a clean heart Paakhi has. I think Paakhi is being blamed for Kalpi's sadness, which in no way is true. If anyone is to be blamed for Kalpi's sadness then it is Kamla. She doesn't know how to balance between her children and that is not something Paakhi should be blamed for. If everyone decided to hate others because they did not get attention from Kamla then Paakiya should hate his sister, Kalpi with a passion. He was deprived of so many things while Kalpi was given so much. If we start hating characters for Kamla's biased behavior than we should technically hate Kalpi too! Ultimately, Paakhi is just trying to search for love and affection. She happened to only find that love and affection from Kamla, which is why she comes running to her. You cannot blame her. Kalpi has been through a lot, however, it is important to understand that life hasn't always been fair to Paakhi either. Just because Paakhi belongs to well off family doesn't mean she has been happy in her life. I like Paakhi's character and I don't think she is in any ways bad. She has her faults, but so does Kalpi. I don't think Kalpi is perfect.

Originally posted by: glamarousgemini

I agree with you 100 percent. I don't exactly agree with most POVs regarding kalpi here because I have not liked her character as much starting from the childhood phase. Something about her character irks me. I do sympathize with her, but still don't feel overwhelemd with her character being the heroine.

I feel more for paakhi, don't ask me why. I just do. I do know kalpi is the main and she is paired with raghav ever since raghav showing favoring the baby kalpi. It was an expected movie. Point is. I watch for paakhi rather than ragna.

My grandmother raised me rather than my mother, so She is the most Important person in my life. I understand completely the attatchment paakhi has with kamla and how she can go to any extent for her. But you accept blame me if my grandmother loves me more or cares for me differently that her other grandchildren.

Originally posted by: glamarousgemini

I agree with you 100 percent. I don't exactly agree with most POVs regarding kalpi here because I have not liked her character as much starting from the childhood phase. Something about her character irks me. I do sympathize with her, but still don't feel overwhelemd with her character being the heroine.

I feel more for paakhi, don't ask me why. I just do. I do know kalpi is the main and she is paired with raghav ever since raghav showing favoring the baby kalpi. It was an expected movie. Point is. I watch for paakhi rather than ragna.

My grandmother raised me rather than my mother, so She is the most Important person in my life. I understand completely the attatchment paakhi has with kamla and how she can go to any extent for her. But you accept blame me if my grandmother loves me more or cares for me differently that her other grandchildren.

Originally posted by: SoniLuvsRT

Like u dislike kalpi same goes to us we too dislike pakhi for her major faults since childhood
No1 is perfect in this world..agree kalpi isn't a perfect but she isn't imperfect too.
No offsense pakhi fans, u find pakhi sweet,sensible,loving & careing girl..if she then Why was she forcing kamla to stay wid her for a whole day on her b'day when she was well awared wid kalpi's b'day too..q bhai kamla maa apna sara kam dhanda chhodkar,apni family ko chhodkar pakhi baby ki khidmat me hazir ho.. why isn't she feeling kalpi's pain & why isn't she stood wid kalpi's side in paper issue all over pakhi hs only & only cares for kamla. Isn't this selfishness...???
No offense but I beg to differ. Paakhi is just as old as Kalpi. These girls are still in college and you cannot expect them to understand everything. Paakhi is still not a full out adult. Kalpi does not understand Paakhi's pain, but no one is blaming Kalpi. I want to stop here to mention that I am not a Paakhi fan nor am I a Kalpi fan. I am just a viewer who watches this show. I do not have favorites. With that said, I can honestly say that Paakhi is not selfish. She loves Kamla immensely and is willing to do anything/be there for Kamla every step of the way. She is dedicated and loyal. She went against her own family for the sake of Kamla. She is not nearly as bad as people are making her out to be. She's a young girl who has yet to discover live. You cannot expect her to know everything. She's not mature enough to understand what Kalpi is going through and Kalpi for sure is not mature enough to understand Paakhi and her situation. Kamla does not hate Kalpi! She in fact loves her a lot, yet Kalpi is under the impression that because her mother gives more attention to Paakhi than she must love Paakhi more. Paakhi is not in any way responsible for what Kalpi makes of situations or thinks.

if she is so nyc then she should know hw to behave wid her own family..why is she so rude to her mom-dad & wid her bro..yes they r bad but wid her they r always nyc..
They are nice to her? They are willing to kick her out of the house when she goes against them. Her family was always in the wrong and it takes a lot of guts to actually stand against one's own family. If I were in her position I would have never been able to do what she has done. She full out went against her parents to save something that had nothing to do with her. She could have let the house chawl get demolished because at the end of the day, that was not her home.

like kalpi is all her worth to gain her mom's love like this pakhi too can do her worth change her mom frm bad to good..she can share a good maa-beti relation n all.but no she doesn't think of need this..why?? Coz she has another option i.e her kamla maa aise mai usse baki relations ki kadar nhi hai.
But kalpi hs only one mother & family..wht does this girl to do..??
Why pakhi made a taunt yesterday..that " mai apni kamla maa ka nam kabhi kharab nhi kar sakti " do u know the meaning of this.? Indirectly she is telling kamla that dekhiye kamla maa aapki khud ki beti ko aapki parvaa nhi hai par muze aapki bohot parvaa hai
Who the hell is pakhi to compete wid kalpi to win kalpi's own mother 😡
Aise sweet sweet taunts marna aur dusro ki chizo pe jabardasti ka hak jatana to koi pakhi se sikhe..at least kalpi is a straight forward girl iss kamla ne pakhi ko bohot jyada sar pe chadha rkha hai 😡
To love another person so selflessly is very hard. The love she has for Kamla is amazing. She is not at fault for loving someone. I don't think we can blame her for feeling connected to someone who took care of her since she was a baby. Paakhi only has Kamla. Her parents could care less about her. They only care about the reputation and money. They are willing to use her for their personal profits. Kalpi has a family who loves. She has her brother, her father and her mother on her side. Kalpa is to be blamed for her own misunderstandings. Kalpi can go to her mother and tell her how she feels, but she doesn't want to do that. She just bottles her emotions and cries about them. Kamla and Kalpi are both at fault. Paakhi may be wrong at times, but she is not wrong for loving Kamla!

Originally posted by: princessonline

Thank you! I feel for Paakhi as well. She doesn't have anyone supporting her in her household besides her grandmother so naturally she is going to try to look for love and affection elsewhere. Kalpi on the other hand is not devoid of love and affection. Her father loves her more than anything! She gets love, support and affection from him. She doesn't have to search anywhere past her home to find comfort from someone. She has someone by her side at all sides. Kamla loves Kalpi as well, just because Kalpi doesn't understand that her mother loves her and thinks Kamla only loves Paakhi is Kalpi's own fault for lack of better words. Paakhi is not responsible for Kalpi's actions or thoughts!

Thanks for sharing your own story as well. I think it showcases exactly why you feel for Paakhi! 😊

Originally posted by: SoniLuvsRT

Like u dislike kalpi same goes to us we too dislike pakhi for her major faults since childhood
No1 is perfect in this world..agree kalpi isn't a perfect but she isn't imperfect too.
No offsense pakhi fans, u find pakhi sweet,sensible,loving & careing girl..if she then Why was she forcing kamla to stay wid her for a whole day on her b'day when she was well awared wid kalpi's b'day too..q bhai kamla maa apna sara kam dhanda chhodkar,apni family ko chhodkar pakhi baby ki khidmat me hazir ho.. why isn't she feeling kalpi's pain & why isn't she stood wid kalpi's side in paper issue all over pakhi hs only & only cares for kamla. Isn't this selfishness...??? if she is so nyc then she should know hw to behave wid her own family..why is she so rude to her mom-dad & wid her bro..yes they r bad but wid her they r always nyc..like kalpi is all her worth to gain her mom's love like this pakhi too can do her worth change her mom frm bad to good..she can share a good maa-beti relation n all.but no she doesn't think of need this..why?? Coz she has another option i.e her kamla maa aise mai usse baki relations ki kadar nhi hai.
But kalpi hs only one mother & family..wht does this girl to do..??
Why pakhi made a taunt yesterday..that " mai apni kamla maa ka nam kabhi kharab nhi kar sakti " do u know the meaning of this.? Indirectly she is telling kamla that dekhiye kamla maa aapki khud ki beti ko aapki parvaa nhi hai par muze aapki bohot parvaa hai
Who the hell is pakhi to compete wid kalpi to win kalpi's own mother 😡
Aise sweet sweet taunts marna aur dusro ki chizo pe jabardasti ka hak jatana to koi pakhi se sikhe..at least kalpi is a straight forward girl iss kamla ne pakhi ko bohot jyada sar pe chadha rkha hai 😡