Your going to hate me but.......

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I see this forum favors kalpi and sees her as some sort of martyr and believes paakhi to be a spoiled girl that is selfish, but I am going to have to disagree here. Before you bring out the pitch forks, hear me out.
The ultimate villain in this serial is the one and only Kamla. In her so called goodness of the heart she has ruined lives of two impressionable children, paakhi and kalpi.

Kamla was only a maid, and as pertaining to her duty there are some boundaries that you can not cross. Irrespective of status. Kamla made paakhi so dependent on her that now paakhi can not function without her. Kamla could have taken a step back in their childhood, but no! She craved the importance paakhi gave her just as much as paakhi wanted genuine love.

paakhi despite security in life of wealth is very insecure because she fears being neglected. Therefore she is willing to fight for that love, no matter the cost. Here she is giving up wealth and her own flesh and bloood.

Kalpi on the other hand has been a victim of neglect. Her mother only saw her as means to further her reputation. Kalpi was not loved or praised for simply being their "princess", but she was looked upon as an opporutnity. They expected so much from her right from her birth. Where as there were no expectations from Pakya. Now she is consumed by that. She wants success. Not because that is the direction she wants for herself, but because that is the only way she can gain the love of her parents.

Both these girls are victim of Kamla. I have to say she made her own child a fighter while leaving the other weak in sorts. For this reason, I favor paakhi and want her to find a love that is truly her own. Not fake and not borrowed.

However at the end of the day, I believe both girls to be victims of Kamla and would like them both to ditch her and become friends. They can teach each other a lot!

My few points. Agree or disagree is fine.



edit: why I favor paakhi and raghav jodi - this show was promised to be different and that is why I watched. But the poor girl being smarter, simpler, and getting the rich guy over the rich girl is very cliched.

I for once want the rich guy to like the rich girl. And the main lead to be a middle class hardworking guy if he is to be paired with kalpi before she has made a name for herself. Then she can be the mover and shaker in the pair.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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like u said totally hatin'...but well u ain't wrng @ all but thn i dnt totally agree wid u as well Kamala is at no fault its the Kapoor's...well ders restrictions & boundaries set in certain wrk/relationship like u said bt its really hard to abide by it.
Kamala jst dreamed for a bettr future dat's not a sin committed bt the way she took thngs with Pakhi/Kalpi totally unfare.
Pakhi i dnt hate her I adore her cuz she's genuinely in luv with kamala bt the last epi made me judge her Did she take kamala maa intentionaly to miss kalpi's ceremony? Evn she has to learn to make differences she's the daughter of Neetu not Kamala.
Well i truely hope & pray its Ragna but aftr Kalpi gets the dreams done & she's an independnt women Like u indicated dnt wnt Raghav to b her saviour or her force in success 😳 m in luv with Ragna the rsn behind to watch this shw
I also wish Pakhi gets her fare share of Luv let she find sm1 else plz.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No one will hate u...this is ur right..& u can put ur opinion whether one agree or disagree 😊
But every one hv a right here..so don't feel that we will hate u 😊..
First u r a member of this forum..no one isn'f against any member..
So feel free always to put ur opinions dear😊..
First of all warm welcome to the forum🤗

I agree wid ur all points but there r sum exceptionl points too that i can't be agree..
Who is pakhi to claim her rights over kamla...?? Who the hell is she to snatch sum ones own mother..?? Who is she haa..??
Wht does she thinks ..?? That after results when she comes 1st then kamla will live wid her forever...
Why is she nt thinking abt kalpi at once...??
Pakhi kalpi ke jagah hoti aur kalpi pakhi ke jahag tab wo kya karti..dekh pati kya uski khudki mom usse jyada kisi aur ko importance deti hai..??
Leave it yr there r so much things abt pakhi which r wrong but i don't wanna spoil my mood ..but there is one thing which i will definitly say.. That She is selfish girl...agree or disagree.
& i agree kamla is on major fault in all fisco..n u said all so i guess i don't need to mention it..
& here isn't a matter who is rich girl,poor girl,rich guy nothing..matters only who is pure,rich frm a heart..😳 & i.e kalpi-raghav..
We r nt choosing them on the status basis...
We don't want raghav for kalpi only coz that he is rich,handsom etc.. No , we want raghav for kalpi coz we believes she deserves sum one like raghav..who will care for her..will shower his love on her...will give his full attention to kalpi..even if raghav was poor guy then too we will choose raghav for kalpi any time...we r looking for best inner qualities nt outer qualities..
He is best match for kalpi..she deserves raghav..& at the end of a day itz Raghav-Kalpi..believe me or don't believe..but after all drama..
Raghav-Kalpi is the end game...😊
Edited by SoniLuvsRT - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree with you on some points and disagree on others:
  • agree that Kamlaa has neglected her daugher Kalpi. I cannot believe the number of times she has not been there for Kalpi when kalpi needed her most or the number of times Kamala has put Paki's interest before that of her daugher
  • Disagree that she has made Pakhi too dependent on her - seeing how neglected pakhi was by her own mother and how selfish neetu is, Kamal was just showering some love and affection on her (but she does sometimes seem to cross the boundary and neetu has hinted at her on this aspect)

Kamala does overdo the 'goodie-two-shoes' bit but I guess that is what the role is potraying - a domestic who treat's her employers' children like her own. There are many cases of children brought up by maids and where mothers are busy working and they do start treating the maid like their mother and start loving the maid more than the mother.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ArshiR

like u said totally hatin'...but well u ain't wrng @ all but thn i dnt totally agree wid u as well Kamala is at no fault its the Kapoor's...well ders restrictions & boundaries set in certain wrk/relationship like u said bt its really hard to abide by it.
Kamala jst dreamed for a bettr future dat's not a sin committed bt the way she took thngs with Pakhi/Kalpi totally unfare.
Pakhi i dnt hate her I adore her cuz she's genuinely in luv with kamala bt the last epi made me judge her Did she take kamala maa intentionaly to miss kalpi's ceremony? Evn she has to learn to make differences she's the daughter of Neetu not Kamala.
Well i truely hope & pray its Ragna but aftr Kalpi gets the dreams done & she's an independnt women Like u indicated dnt wnt Raghav to b her saviour or her force in success 😳 m in luv with Ragna the rsn behind to watch this shw
I also wish Pakhi gets her fare share of Luv let she find sm1 else plz.


My jaan totally agree wid u..👍🏼
No one here hates pakhi jus coz she is rich or spoilt..
We r against her behaviour..we hate her behaviour of meri kamla maa meri kamla maa..wht the yr i mean she is kalpi's mother..
& i truely feel that she does this all intensionly to irk kalpi..
Yest.too her behaviour was like this..

& we want pakhi to find sum1 else who showers his love on her, truely carez for her..& which will be her rightfully..nt Raghav who lovez kalpi nt to her,who always ignores her..no she doesn't deserve a guy like raghav...
So pakhi find sum1 else for u..sammy will be the right choice for her. 😉..Raghav meant for kalpi😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SoniLuvsRT


My jaan totally agree wid u..👍🏼
No one here hates pakhi jus coz she is rich or spoilt..
We r against her behaviour..we hate her behaviour of meri kamla maa meri kamla maa..wht the yr i mean she is kalpi's mother..
& i truely feel that she does this all intensionly to irk kalpi..
Yest.too her behaviour was like this..

& we want pakhi to find sum1 else who showers his love on her, truely carez for her..& which will be her rightfully..nt Raghav who lovez kalpi nt to her,who always ignores her..no she doesn't deserve a guy like raghav...
So pakhi find sum1 else for u..sammy will be the right choice for her. 😉..Raghav meant for kalpi😳


Soni wat the hell yeaar i'll luv u for this 😃 i was thinkin the same Saamy&Pakhi 😳 they luk adorables toghtr our sammy vhai is also not anythng less he plays videogames 😃 bt seriously he's also too gud evn with his few screen presence he has made himself noticed.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ArshiR


Soni wat the hell yeaar i'll luv u for this 😃 i was thinkin the same Saamy&Pakhi 😳 they luk adorables toghtr our sammy vhai is also not anythng less he plays videogames 😃 bt seriously he's also too gud evn with his few screen presence he has made himself noticed.


Hehe i love u too baby..😳..
Yess yar sammy is very cool guy by nature...he'll perfect for pakhi...
They both looks adorable 😳
Like meant for each other Sakhi😳
Sakhi=Samar+Pakhi 😳
RagNa forever 🤪
Sakhi forever🤪
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SoniLuvsRT


Hehe i love u too baby..😳..
Yess yar sammy is very cool guy by nature...he'll perfect for pakhi...
They both looks adorable 😳
Like meant for each other Sakhi😳
Sakhi=Samar+Pakhi 😳
RagNa forever 🤪
Sakhi forever🤪


Sakhi is more likeable thn Rakhi smbdy plz tweet dis to Ashish 😃 m so happy & sammy is Raizada so Mrs Pakhi Kapor Raizada dat sounds classy
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Posted: 11 years ago
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firstly welcome to this forum glamarous gemini and i am vey happy to inform u that this forum is a big family we all love each other so therz absolutely no question of hating anyone.and we as individuals have different opinions and we all respect ur opinion.and i agree with some of ur points but i really feel that whatever happens on the show is potrayed that way by the writers even the pakhi's character which is shown childish whereas kalpi's character is shown of much matured than her age and the characters act the way the situation is in the show.and i totally appreciate ur honesty.some people like kalpi and can relate to her some people like pakhi but i think thats completely fine and alright so absolutely no issues 😃😛😊 we r all good i guess..😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ArshiR


Sakhi is more likeable thn Rakhi smbdy plz tweet dis to Ashish 😃 m so happy & sammy is Raizada so Mrs Pakhi Kapor Raizada dat sounds classy


Sakhi really sounds adorable..😳
Mrs.Pakhi Samar Raizada
& Mrs.Kalpna Raghav Singhaniya..😳..
Aww..sounds so adorable 😳

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