Is it possible....?

Hey guys, I had a question. Do you think it's possible for a guy to love a girl only as a friend? And a guy who feels as strongly about a girl like Nikhil does? Why or why not?

I will post my opinion later. 😃

~Sunita~

I asked this question long time ago to my male colleagues if it is possible for a pure friendship between a man and a woman when they almost love each other. All of them said, "NO". Love and friendship in a man and woman's relationship don't go together. If it is love, the relationship becomes different. If it is likeness and friendship, it is something different! You can be friends with some kind of likeness.😕 I am now confused.

i think nikhil is really confuse in this show but i think in reality close friends gradually fall in love becoz of strong emotional bond & understanding between them they develop feelings

I think you can love some1 as a friend. I think nick doesnt really know what he feels. Hes not in love with his wife thats why he loves anu

hi sunita,
in my opinion loving a girl as a friend is not possible at all. Because liking is different from loving.... we love our mom, dad, siblings and here we do not have any restriction or limit in the society. Even in friendship love within same sex is also acceptable. Loving or being loved itself shows the closeness between the two people so love bet'n opposite sex can't be just friendship but something more than that.... may be it is pure and sincere. Here if a male and female r in love and if they r not married then they will dream for a life together but if anyone is married then there will be restriction and limits in the society...... and hence the concept changes.....to what this nikil in ELAS told love as a friend....
In ELAS Nikhil is married and he is a very good gentlemen so he don't want to accept that he is deeply in love with anu. Moreover if he reveals that he too luvs anu then people will not respect him and even Anu.
Many men in this situation use friendship as name for there relationship just to escape...and being careful by avoiding trouble into their life...
I don't know how far my opinion is correct.... i just posted it....

Originally posted by: simi1295

I think you can love some1 as a friend. I think nick doesnt really know what he feels. Hes not in love with his wife thats why he loves anu

I agree with you. But it would be late when he will discover that he's in love with her. You know, girls and women realise these kind of things earlier than men do.😆

It is a very tacky topic!!!...I feel that a girl and boy can be friends and love and like each other too..but it is possible for such a relationship to turn into stronger emotional bonds,which may make u want more from the relationship......jusy my opinion guys...
it is a very thin line between just friendship and something more deep!!!! 😃

I agree with simi1295 2