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Posted: 12 years ago
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I personally loved this track.. my niece is disable since birth her mmother had illnrss which she had lots of medication by the time she got pregnant they told her theres a chance your baby will be disable she didnt care much and in Arab countries they dont tell you to abort as its sin in Islam. She is 24yrs very beautiful everyone in the family is helping in looking after her we see her as a blessing. I loved Virats dialogue its really true life has no guarantee and medical can be wrong sometimes never the less its your own baby you will love them no matter what.

We Arab and live in Arab world alot of ignorance and arrogancy when my cousin's baby was born dwarf (short ppl) some ppl started questioning her and she answered them its like you plan to go spain but some circumsttances beyind your control made you go to Holland instead thats when you get to see the beauty of Holland and enjoy it coz whatever is your in Holland not spain so Im loving Holland.

Im so happy the CV introduced this track if the show wasnt ending I would have love for them to introduce a disable child of any kind

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Posted: 12 years ago
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i am really liking the way u guys r sharing these things ,it really makes me proud of cv for bringing arealistic concept 👏👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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rite nani here in UAE its illegal to abort a kid coz of our religion ...and i have seen many such kids recently i read about a guy who is disabled but coz of his mom's love and support and his intelligence which is a blessing to him he was awarded her...
virman playing perfect parents ❤️
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Posted: 12 years ago
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As much as I appreciate the cvs for being so "realistic" , I don't think its right to keep a few weeks feutus that u know will eventually grow up into a disabled baby.
I know it is difficult for virman to let go of their baby, but think about its future! In practical world, its so difficult for disabled people to survive. No amout of love and care can fill the void in the person's life . For life, he/she is the 'special' one who cant live life as others do.
I might be sounding harsh but why make life difficult for your baby ? Its hurt to be different from others ,so why r they purposely getting their child into this? Why r they spoiling his/her life ?
Anyways , its just my point of view and I know many wont agree with it. Just wanted to share it.
And as the TM mentioned, her relative came to know about her child's disability after many months, however manvi is just a few weeks pregnant.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Beautiful post
virman r settin an example across many
if u have lovin n carin parents like manvi
they do survive in real world
proper care treatment n love iz all dey need
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Posted: 12 years ago
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A. child is a child no matter how they are. Everyone has their opinion but unless you go through it first hand then ypu will understand. If you abort the baby you will always ask yourself what if. Like Virat said their not God to know what it is inside. When I was pregnant with my first born the dr were worried my baby might have problem with her groqth coz her head was bigger than normal I just told them she is mine no matter what so Im gonna raise my prefnancy and see what Allah gives me. when she was born. they checked her and been monitoring her for weeks but she was just normal only she was tiny but grew normal.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: kulsum_virman

rite nani here in UAE its illegal to abort a kid coz of our religion ...and i have seen many such kids recently i read about a guy who is disabled but coz of his mom's love and support and his intelligence which is a blessing to him he was awarded her...
virman playing perfect parents❤️



UAE is advanced compare to other Arab countries Im from Oman ppl are still ignorance they throw their childrens in the hosp bins if they are disable. Since my niece cant walk she gets problem with blotted tummy so these ppl even some nurses once asked us why do you guys waste your time for her let her die. My bro punched one of the guy coz for them its a shame but for us its a blessing. When God bring someone in this earth they have purpose .

I wish Arab countries would have been like here in UK they help you and the child from day one and the children do get lloved life and they dont depend everything on other ppl.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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awesome post totally agree with u

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