Sweety and Dabbu
NOTE: Hey Peeps! I hardly post much here, more of a commenter but this post is dedicated to Aashima aka Dhoxi! xD Btw, it's 3,000 words! ๐คฃ
Sweety Chaudhary and Dabinder Singh Chaudhary, our third Jodi in the beautiful story of Ek Hazaaron Mein Meri Behna Hai. They are not talked about much, but I guess they are equally important in the story. After all, all the small characters lead up to the main ones. As they say it's the pieces that complete a puzzle.
Our Dabbu however is a gem. He helped her in every situation, and in turn getting himself in trouble. He was there for her like superman, batman, ironman' you name it. ๐ He never even realised when he fell in love with her! As they say, pyaar andha hota hai!
Sweety, pyaari Sweety had an invisible veil of greed on her. I mean it's not her fault, her mummy taught her all that' ๐คฃ But she got through it, thanks to Dabbu's love, Chaudhary family's love and the awesome foursome! They all played a part in bringing the two love birds together. Awe, Bless! xD
"Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable." 'Bruce Lee
Totally think that this quote suits them! They started off being friends and they slowly started developing feeling towards each other. Although Sweety might have faked it, she still valued and respected Dabbu. She used her cunning ways to get into the family, breaking Dabbu's engagement, but this way we saw Dabbu's love for Sweety! I think they are a really cute pair to be honest!
Everyone has their share of ups and downs in a relationship, but in the end, they all find their gold pot at the end of the rainbow! :P Dabbu and Sweety are just the same. Dabbu might not forgive Sweety right now, but he will soon!
Their love is blinding, eternal. They are together forever, never breaking bond. They care for each other a lot and you can tell. They did sweet little things for each other before marriage which brought a smile to their partners face. That's what makes them special.
This song is very special to Dabbu and Sweety and it describes them perfectly. The way Dabbu made Virat sing just to do something special for Sweety shows how much he cares for her. I know they didn't show the whole sung being sung, but yeah.. ๐
Dabbu and Sweety are just out of this world. He is a dabba, but with Sweety coming into his life he has started becoming more independent. She brought a good change to him. Dabbu is a sweet, innocent, childlike person. He lives life to the fullest and has no fear of anything. Once he loves someone, he loves them with his whole heart. He lives by the quote "Thankful to God for another day. Live and love today like there's no tomorrow." His cute personality and attitude to life just makes everyone want to love him. This however also causes a problem; people taking advantage of him. This is where Sweety comes in. Sweety cares for the people she loves, goes to any extent to get what she wants and lives life to the fullest. She is sweet and caring but at times can be cunning. This is how she changed him. I guess you could say she lives by the quote "Live as if you were going to die tomorrow." Together, they are unbeatable, undeniable. She made him learn that not everyone in life is just as humble as he is and he made her learn that in life there are people who will do anything for the ones they love. Their compatibility with each other is just amazing, they would do anything for each other. They would die for each other too, that's how strong their love is! They are just an amazing edition to the family.
Then we have the Sweety Tantrum moments! ๐ค Beechara Dabbu. Sweety would treat him like a naukar but he would still take it as her love. He would do everything she would ask and take her side through thick and thin. Dabinder Singh would pamper his ladli patni to bits but *sigh* she would through tantrums. That did not stop him though. No Way. That kept him going. He kept proving his love to Sweety over and over again. Alas, Sweety kept making our innocent sa Dabbu dance to her tunes. But, Dabinder Singh Chaudhary would go to any extent to keep his pyaari wife happy. Even if it meant at times ignoring her mistakes I'm afraid. He would do anything, be anything to keep his eternal love and life, Sweety happy.
Here is a song that describes how Dabbu feels about Sweety. In fact I believe he should sing it to her one day. ๐
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lJb1ssF7040
This song "I Just Called To Say I Love You" By Stevie Wonder truly makes me think of Dabbu. The way his life revolved around Sweety, and the way he would at times even go against his own family to keep Sweety happy. There would be 'no New Year's day to celebrate' 'no warm July' Everything would be connected with Sweety in some sort of way. Without Sweety, life would mean nothing for Dabbu.
And then *BOOM* We see Sweety's side of love. She finally realised her feelings for Dabbu, through the well-known trait; jealousy. We saw her fuming with anger whenever Dabbu was with Sumi and that proved her love for Dabbu. Also the fact that she really repented her previous 'plans' proves that she loves Dabbu Singh and that she does not want to lose him.
Here is a song that describes Sweety's feeling for Dabbu and her jealousy! xD
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGJ8ixlfKUs
This song 'Girlfriend' By Avril Lavigne, I believe perfectly describes Sweety's attitude towards Dabbu and Sumi's 'relationship' Instead of girlfriend it would wife but yeah' ๐ The way she wants to be in Dabbu's arms instead of it being Sumi says it all. Also the way she complains to Jeevika and Maanvi about the situation, proves that she loves Dabbu and that she is jealous of Sumi.
Hayee, what else to say now? Sweety and Dabinder Singh Chaudhary's relationship is just out of this world. Their growth in their relationship and their characters is clearly visible in the show. The way they started out as being nothing and then friends and then lovers and now husband and wife for seven lives. This clearly shows how matured they have become and they have clearly understood the meaning and importance of their relationship. Their love is just different and unique. As well as understanding their own relationship, I believe their ties with their family members has improved a lot too. They have gotten more stronger and more sturdier as a family.
So, as you see I have in a lot of detail talked about Sweety and Dabbu! But I am not finished yet! Got a bit more to go! ๐คฃ
I would like to also include as to how cute they look together! I mean, they are just too adorable! I think Sweety should leave her hair out again. I don't like it tied like this. OhMyGosh. There should be a romantic scene where Dabbu open her hair and says those romantic lines to her with all the you look so pretty in with your hair out and stuff! ๐ I mean, how sweet. Just like Sweety! But to be honest, I love this new edition of jodis we have. They are all really special and unique in their own way. I guess Sweety and Dabbu are more special due to them not being the main characters'you know what I mean!?
I would seriously like to thank Sid Sir as he gave importance to Dabbu which gave importance to Sweety. I know not everyone likes them but hey, it's important to keep a balance in the show right?
So, what else about Dabbu and Sweety? Their anokha rishta, their nok-jokhs..they are just too cute! I really appreciate the way the actors have carried out their roles as Dabbu and Sweety! I think they are adorablee!
I would like to add one final and last song, something that represents Dabbu and Sweety together.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxvBJ5zlnw0
What more? What more? I think I have praised them enough don't you think? Haha, this jodi will be remembered and they have made a place in the EHM family. Their cute sa, innocent sa chemistry is just too good! ๐
Well, they have gone through a lot throughout their own journey and I present you the different to other jodis, jodi- Dabbu and Sweety.
Well, that was long. .--. Please forgive me if I end up making no sense! Tends to happen when I go on for quite a while, making no sense of what I am saying! Ooo yeah, and if you think the songs don't match'sorry! ๐ Right, that's enough of me! Enjoy' Toodles!
-Krupaa xD