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Virmanishal

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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: *Reemz*
Remember when Jeevika stood in front of Beeji when she got really angry with Manvi? Jeevika firmly said 'Now you will not say anything to Manvi'. After Beeji left, Jeevika broke down and cried, not because she thought she was wrong in defending Manvi but this was the first time she spoke harshly to Beeji. That's where her guilt was. Similarly, Jeevika does not feel guilty about saving Manvi, she feels guilty about hurting her family. That has been a characteristic trait since the beginning!

Those who want to find a problem in her will find thousand ways anyway. Before appreciating what she's actually done, people jump to 'So what's the big deal? I would have done the same'. Khud pe aati hai tab pata chalta hai...

okay, the guilt is for doing wrong to the family and that's a characteristic trait..agreed.. But what she's planning on doing, how's that gonna set it right ? Isn't she adding to the hurt (for everyone) by leaving the house ? What I understood and liked in the topic is that this particular act of leaving the Vadhera house, just to get rid of her guilt of doing wrong to the family, is selfish,cause she isn't thinking what her departure will do to Manvi,Viren and whole of Vadhera family who LOVES her..

Edited by Virmanishal - 12 years ago

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madhu0702

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Posted: 12 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: atthi
@Madhu: Lolz.. Loved ur reply! Even i was kinda Ok with the tyaag at first. But the way they handled it.. Ma god!!! The Tyaag shud've hogged the limelight, had it been shown in the right quantity & quality! Virat shavin off the hair was also a tyaag of lesser degree, but it was dealt with so beautifully.. U saw the effect in TRP's then!!!

The Tyaag track had so many effects,

1. Wastage of Glycerine
2.Memory Loss for Manvi
3. Virat became handicapped (Deaf, mute & dumb)
4. Greatest of them all, Loss in TRP's!

PS: Virat & Manvi are getting better, They've started with Kindergarten!😆

Lol I was never okay with the tyaag track because I dint want to see chutki/chutku die😭 But then still, I will give them for having shown something different. But then again as you said it was too much dramaticized and ppl cannot handle this much rona dhona😲

Oh you talking about Virat's tyaag of hair😲😆 It worked because it was nt dragged like this one and it left a good taste in viewers, I mean, the outcome was all positive. But here, chutku/chutki is no more. People love positive outcomes, not the negative ones !

And again, not to misunderrstand, I am not doing a Virat TRPs vs Jeevika TRPs here🤔

And heard, Kinder garten guys are getting married?😲 Is nt it against the law for minors to get married, that too KG ppl? Next ballika vadhu?😉😆

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madhu0702

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Posted: 12 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: shrav_virman

hahahahaha...and now show is at 5th position...no wonder...

Dont laugh Shravs, now people will sew you for laughing at the downfall of the show's IF ranking And now I warn you not to say anything abt this here, deal with PMs🥱

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*Reemz*

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Posted: 12 years ago

#44

When did I say her decision to leave is right? I've been saying everywhere that I do not understand how it's going to help the cause. I also agree that both sisters have a significant amount of selfishness in them but I don't know if this act of Jeevika is selfish or just FOOLISH! What she intends to get out of it, I do not know but I'm waiting to see if it is shown in a justifiable manner.

My first reply was for those who think Jeevika is feeling guilty for saving Manvi. She would do it again if she had to but that guilty conscious she has towards the elders would also remain. That's Jeevika!

I think the word 'Tyaag' has been obsessed over in this forum than the actual show. It's not been mentioned for a while in the show but people here still haven't got over it yet LOL.

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..Gowri..

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Posted: 12 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: *Reemz*
When did I say her decision to leave is right? I've been saying everywhere that I do not understand how it's going to help the cause. I also agree that both sisters have a significant amount of selfishness in them but I don't know if this act of Jeevika is selfish or just FOOLISH! What she intends to get out of it, I do not know but I'm waiting to see if it is shown in a justifiable manner.

My first reply was for those who think Jeevika is feeling guilty for saving Manvi. She would do it again if she had to but that guilty conscious she has towards the elders would also remain. That's Jeevika!

I think the word 'Tyaag' has been obsessed over in this forum than the actual show. It's not been mentioned for a while in the show but people here still haven't got over it yet LOL.

Yes Reemz, The Tyaag brought in a lot of negativity in the Show as well as in the forum! I run away frm the word nw!!! & the difference is that it wud've been much much better if the CV's did not overemphasise on that word & left a bad taste in everyone's mouth!

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-SweetGirl-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#46

Gowri !😆 - You rock Girl !😳😃

@ TM : Shona see DI never gets in to my mind.She stopped getting in my mind when she could not bother to listen her Di,Dadkan & Aatma Maanvi & asked to leave V mentioned.So would take least about her as character. But what she done sacrificing her child is BIG.do not deny it even to give up child even unborn is something big for any woman.But she has so valid reasons to do that on other hand.She longs for life & love of Maanvi as she says.so there was no point she could choose her baby over her sis.Same will go with other sister next time .

For doing Prayashcit or convince SB that She would pay for same up till that I can get She dont want to give her Shikayat ka mauka being Adarsh Bahu too.

But is this the way doing Prayashchit ? First what about her Hubby who stood by her ? Than about sisters whos getting to see this happiness after struggling with life anything.I m getting your point totally when you say the Guilt takes over her.Well said.In that She cant see what other way it might end up creating other disaster.

Since this way of Prayachit is not making sense either.It would be much better if she could just promise to give back a family what she had to loss.What is this.Leaving family like this that too on your soul sister's wedding day / when shes stepping in new life & Probebaby needing for you in each moment thanks to her Di's obsession ! going for this .LOL ! as I said I m clueless with this character anyways :(

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*Reemz*

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Posted: 12 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: atthi

Yes Reemz, The Tyaag brought in a lot of negativity in the Show as well as in the forum! I run away frm the word nw!!! & the difference is that it wud've been much much better if the CV's did not overemphasise on that word & left a bad taste in everyone's mouth!

What's the big deal though? The word 'misaal' was used a lot in the promotion of Virat's shaving act. I didn't see people going round laughing at the word misaal. Even the word 'tyaag' was used more in the promotion than the actual show.

But like always if people want to belittle something to make themselves feel better then they'll pick up on the dumbest thing.

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Shravani

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Posted: 12 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: madhu0702
Dont laugh Shravs, now people will sew you for laughing at the downfall of the show's IF ranking And now I warn you not to say anything abt this here, deal with PMs🥱

chill madhu...

hasne ki bhi right nai hain kya mujhe??😡😛

public forum hain...i can do whatever i want...nai??dont you think soo??😉

main thodi na kisi ko bash kar rahi hoon...i am just smiling ...

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ZibahRajkumar

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Posted: 12 years ago

#49

Guyz ive been a silent reader here but nuv im totaly fed up of the bashing against jeevika/viren/virika .just take the situation the other way round if jeevs had leukemia and manvi had aborted her child to give jeevs her BM would u tell that it was manvi's duty and that in no way she is equal to god for jeevs, im sorry if ive hurt anyone's feelings but sory ive been dying to tel this coz dis is the truth

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..Gowri..

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Posted: 12 years ago

#50

@Sweetgirl : Hetu, donnow wats happening to ma brain nowadayss!!😕 Wen i first enterd the forum, I was all like Jeevika, Matured, Calm, Composed..,😊 Thn a little later I became like Manvi, cheerful, bubbly!!😆! & look wat the show did to me, Now, I feel like Dabbu, Crying & laughing at the silliest of matters & Scratching ma head on all stupid things on earth!🤪 EHM, but still, i love you, cos u made me realise that am a multifaceted persona !😆