I read your post and the replies... Got me wondering this show is so dear to us that some of us fellow fans are reading to go out, argue and fight for this show... That is the magic of EHMMBH... Anyway, that aside...
I dont know what are type of shows you mean when you say that you want to watch with your family. Almost all shows have some marital problems between husband and wife. Are those the kind of shows that you want to watch with family? Or do you mean the type of shows where the husband tries to kill his wife? Or maybe those shows in which the children dont look after their parents? Or those ones with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law fights?
I am a hard-core virman fan, that doesnt mean that I dont like the other jodi's... As for you ashamed to watch virman scenes: They are the most natural romantic couple on tv today.. I. for one, am glad that these two undergo unnecessary palpitations or asthma attacks during their scences.. Besides which it is the depth of their relationship that makes their on-screen kiss seem so pure... Thats my opinion...
The abortion track is another issue that you have. My friend, this is not a show for kids. If the adults who watch it are not mature enough to understand what is being shown, then it is better they quit watching it...
Those are my opinions. My advice to you (if you want) is to keep watching and understand the show..