My view on Jeevika-Manvi argument

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Mo710

@Mo710

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

Simple matter of the fact is Manvi was warned by Jeevika not to interfere in the Vadhera house matters as she is not to their taste cuz of her antics beforehand. Even being warned by her sister no to do anything as she might have good intentions with her ideas but it ends up causing her more problems in her newly wedded home.

When she knows the trouble she has caused beforehand unintentionally with her interferance she shudnt get involved in others business period. Its not her place to say and her actions always have repercussions in Jeevika's married life which makes things difficult for her.

Hu doesnt change after marriage? U saying everyone stays the same of how they were before marriage as they were after marriage? She has a husband and his family to look after now too so she has look after them too and she cant always go and fix manvi's unintentional mistakes. Jeevika now has others responsibilites to look after just not manvi's so a change in Jeevika after marriage is natural so dont why people have got the hump about that. Yeah this show is called ek hazaaron mein meri behna hai, and it is about the sisters unbreakable relationship but everytime not everything can be rosy between them as then where wud the drama come from. Manvi needs to realise this time that her interferance is having repercussion and she shud stay out of situations where her involvement isnt needed.

Yes Manvi does things as its in her nature to help people but she shud understand her intentions of doing good are not going to be understood by Swamini or Dadaji so she shud stay out as her previous actions have not put her in their good books at all. So my suggestion is for Manvi to go quietly and use her good nature to help people away from the vadhera house as she isnt going to understood there.

My main point is Jeevika is right in being furious with Manvi as she had told her not to interfere anymore in the Vadhera household matters yet she did and unintentionally caused another ruckus in the house. She is angry as Manvi didnt listen to her and caused another problem in the house even if it wasnt her intention.

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Saraa :)

@SmileySara

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

whoa. it's not manvi's fault she was trying to help. & i dont Agree with your post. i know it's your opinion i respect parts of it too :)
but she cant contol herself.

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Mo710

@Mo710

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: SmileySara
whoa. it's not manvi's fault she was trying to help. & i dont Agree with your post. i know it's your opinion i respect parts of it too :)
but she cant contol herself.

But I know she cant help herself yet she was specifically told by Jeevika not to do anything that causes more drama in the house. And she disobeyed that as her nature is such that she wants to help people.

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Saraa :)

@SmileySara

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Mo710

But I know she cant help herself yet she was specifically told by Jeevika not to do anything that causes more drama in the house. And she disobeyed that as her nature is such that she wants to help people.

Yeah pretty much.

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Harpreet.M

@Harpreet.M

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

I agree with your points. I love my sister to death, but I do not want her to interfere within my families problems! That's just how it works out.

Most kids do not understand that here.

When you get married, its a whole new life!

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ChocoSoul

@ChocoSoul

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

Koi mujhe pehle ye batao ki iss baar Mannvi ne kiya kya????????😲 kab se puchh rahi hoon

Or Sid Sir has released new unedited video which has some different scenes where Maanvi is actually shown doing something, oh I missed it again

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517072

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Posted: 13 years ago

This time maanvi didn't do anything.It was Indar's decision to take that case,Virman helped him to do that.Dadaji and Swamini assumed Maanvi at fault because they don't like her.Jeevika could have asked Indar or Vanshika to confirm the information.She should have at least listened to her sister once.She is supposed to the mature one,isn't it?

If marriage changes a girl so much that she stops thinking logically and forgets her blood-relations,then that's totally disappointing.

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_innocent_

@_innocent_

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: Mo710

But I know she cant help herself yet she was specifically told by Jeevika not to do anything that causes more drama in the house. And she disobeyed that as her nature is such that she wants to help people.

Its ironic how people are twisting the situation around and shifting all the blame on M!!. Honestly right now the blame lies on Swamini and Dadaji for manipulating the situation and presenting a bias view in front of Jeevika! but J ought to realise the exaggeration that is present in her pariwaar!!.. I do not understand how Viren and Virat came out to be pretty kool people.. when they had swamz & DJ constantly influencing them!!...

It was Inder's sole decision to take up this case for himself, his son and his wife. He wanted to prove he was not a loser; he wanted to gain back his lost self esteem! which of course his father and sister wasted no time in suppressing. DJ refused to his blessing maybe thats why Inder lost the case. Anyhow.. I divert!.

The point is... there is always two side to a story! M did not instigate Inder to fight! a fact that was emphasised by cvs!! J wants to lead a happy married life! thats all gud!.. but she ought to be more respectful when she doesnt know all the facts of the situation!..

But i will not say more.. cuz i need to watch the episode itself..before i comment any further!.. but seeing how u stated M was to blame.. just made me have to comment.

Didnt mean to offend!

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Saraa :)

@SmileySara

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: _innocent_

Its ironic how people are twisting the situation around and shifting all the blame on M!!. Honestly right now the blame lies on Swamini and Dadaji for manipulating the situation and presenting a bias view in front of Jeevika! but J ought to realise the exaggeration that is present in her pariwaar!!.. I do not understand how Viren and Virat came out to be pretty kool people.. when they had swamz & DJ constantly influencing them!!...

It was Inder's sole decision to take up this case for himself, his son and his wife. He wanted to prove he was not a loser; he wanted to gain back his lost self esteem! which of course his father and sister wasted no time in suppressing. DJ refused to his blessing maybe thats why Inder lost the case. Anyhow.. I divert!.

The point is... there is always two side to a story! M did not instigate Inder to fight! a fact that was emphasised by cvs!! J wants to lead a happy married life! thats all gud!.. but she ought to be more respectful when she doesnt know all the facts of the situation!..

But i will not say more.. cuz i need to watch the episode itself..before i comment any further!.. but seeing how u stated M was to blame.. just made me have to comment.

Didnt mean to offend!

100% correct.

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517072

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Harpreet.M
I agree with your points. I love my sister to death, but I do not want her to interfere within my families problems! That's just how it works out.

Most kids do not understand that here.

When you get married, its a whole new life!

All girls who aren't married yet,can't be referred to 'kids'.😆 Many people remain immature even after marriage.
I respect your opinion.Say today your sister does the same thing in your sasural.Will you throw her out of your house? Will you shout on her and tell her not to visit you ever again? No offence to you,I'm just curious.😊

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