Respect and Fear Bhaiyya for Dev, Saab for Raj

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Did anyone notice the way the servant in the Goenka mansion comes and tell to Raj Sab Dev Bhaiyya has come.
Did you feel the difference. Both Raj and Dev are owners of that mansion or you can say both of them are business scion. Yet one is called Saab other Bhaiyya.
It clearly shows the marked difference between 2 men. One instills fears and get things done because people are afraid if something goes wrong they will be blamed, will be out of job, will be in jail or even can be killed.
Other instills respect. If they need to call Dev Bhaiyya obviously he will be dealing with all the servants in a dignified manner. He will be treating them as humans not as some machines who have no emotions.
When Raj told the servant is telling as if the owner of the house has come I wanted to tell him. Yes there wont be a servant in Goenka mansion who doesn't wish in his mind that the ownership of the house goes to Dev. After all people do love a humane existence.
In all his hurried existence to buy money, power and status what Raj has missed is to cultivate relations and command respect which his nephew has done in good amount.
Unknown to him every other servant in that house quietly respects Dev and if they are given a chance to choose between Raj and Dev without the fear factor Raj can very well count his days. Because fear factor is not eternal, but respect once earned is more or less eternal. Reason it is easy to frighten but it is very difficult to earn respect.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Rajnath himself does not like to be addressed in personal manner. Neither does his family. He would blast employees like Akash for even calling him sir.
Shaurya is called Shaurya baba yet keeps blasting servants. Sakshi is the only one who at times talks a bit nice to them like she praised Shubham for arranging beautiful flowers but she maintains distance and status quo.

Dev and Suchitra treat people like family hence no wonder Dev was called bhaiya.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nice post Shruthi

Its not just the domestic help of the Goenka House, but the employees also would prefer Dev to Raijnath.

In that episode where the Lawyer/Manager comes to deliver the transfer papers based on Suchitra's instructions, Rajnath insults him and Suchitra corrects that employees are not slaves but a part of their own business family.

Only the people who are greedy for money and do the dirty job for the Goenkas prefer them

Though not a direct servant, Mukherjee is the best. He serves all the three Goenkas separately for money

He hid the fact from Sakshi and Rajnath that Shaurya organized the truck accident and also framed the Pandit

He hid the fact from Sakshi about Rajnath digging for Rehmat Khan and Akram's information

And not to be surprised if he would have hid the information from Rajnath if he worked on Sakshi's orders


Even the doctor at the asylum was so scared of Sakshi that he told about the person asking for Payal's treatment file.

The Goenka trio instill fear in the minds of people who , they feel, are inferior to them.

Where as Dev and Suchitra treat them with respect.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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yaa Harini that is why Dev will get respect back. That's why Dev had a friend in Gautham who he had to force to go to Shimla. I mean Gautham was willing to take risk on his life for Dev. Whereas look at Karan. Given an option he will dump Shaurya.
Mukerjee is damn good. He is another leech who is eating from all 3 plates. Actually evil trio deserves such company.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The servants nd employees of the goenka house r just intimidated by the presence of raj,sakshi nd shaurya it's nt respects tht makes them ran errands for this trio but fear but on the other hand suchitra nd dev hv lways treated them like family whtevr they do fr them is out of respect nd admiration this is one quality tht shld be learnt frm them though they r the dumbest characters I hv seen the goenka trio basically r alone they r not even with each other xcept when it is needed they just use nd dump people nd nobody actually respects them nd r loyal to them just like am body said mukherjee is the best example he works fr the three of them just fr money just be if sakshi calls him nd tells him to gins out karan he will do tht without informing rajnath nd get money frm both sides!!!!nd the same goenkas will throw him when needed Durga seriously needs to ecpose him too
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Sakshi treats the servants in dignified manner...she keeps calm and does not unnecessarily blast them...though she still maintains the boss-servant status...


shaurya treats the servants like mud...they always try to help him, but he takes out his anger on them, breaks things and abuses everybody...i'm sure if he was back on his feet, he might have even slapped someone...

rajnath also sometimes shouts at the servants...and keeps them scared...


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