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642126

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Posted: 10 years ago

Both Sakshi and Rajnath are fed up of Shaurya's ways.

You know he is deviant, likes to test patience, likes to frustrate people etc.

Yet you let him be?

Why neither of them ever tried to discipline him and teach him values?

Why they laughed off his behaviour? Or covered up his blunders?

Is it easier to inculcate good habits or easier to keep covering up all life?

They are trapped in more ways than they know thanks to their son's deeds.

Even their daughter is not in their control. She used to sleep with BF without marriage.

What's the use of slapping own forehead later? Why shout at others to handle their animal kid?

I fail to understand why some parents spoil their kids to this extent.

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Ecrivain

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Posted: 10 years ago

Anu parenting is no cake walk n when ppl fail as parents they just have to DEAL with cover ups cos then its not JJST abt their kids but also abt their upbringing which is in question ...

Shaurya is an example of miserable upbringing by Rajshi

Btw brilliant post n very very valid one too 👏

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dey.bh

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Posted: 10 years ago

Sakshi really loves her son ? I wonder !!!!

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anwesha rath

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Posted: 10 years ago

these people are such horrible human beings, it is not within their capacity to give a decent upbringing to their children..no matter how annoying suchitra is with her diabetic sweetness, she brought dev up to be a decent human being..his selfish goenka genes surface from time to time, but all in all ,he is an honest person who dsnt hurt others..sakshi and rajnath both enjoy hurting others for entertainment..and tht is what they taught shaurya..even now, wen shaurya was talking in a degrading manner abt sanjukta before her entry, sakshi actually had a SMILE on her face..bloody useless woman, u shud be whacking ur son's backside for uttering such words..the son is a rapist, and father makes deal with him to bed the woman in question, but dnt let it affect business..then later expects son to cover his own affair..mother talks of killing people who are annoying to her..these are shaurya's ideals..the most decent of parents can have monsters for kids, as we see everyday..but here a couple of monsters have begotten yet another monster..

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642126

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Posted: 10 years ago

Why Rajnath and Sakshi smile when Shaurya does or talks shit is beyond me!

Suchitra has disciplined Dev and taught him to take responsibility.

RajShi are the worst parents ever.

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shreya

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Posted: 10 years ago

Hola Anu. 😎

I will comment my take on your post later- have you made a post on tonight's epi?

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Dolly-heart

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Posted: 10 years ago

There is no doubt that Rajnath and Shakshi are the worst parents ever.

Both of them have used criminal ways to get ahead and hence do not see anything wrong when their own rotten spawn imitates them.

Rajnath and Shakshi are proud they have an heir but did NOT bother to teach their son the values that go with the kind of responsibilities that go with the position he is suppose to inherit.

Besides Rajnath and Shakshi cannot teach Shaurya what they themselves do not possess.

The Rape of Payal was a Test for these two parents and this is where they made the biggest mistake and once Shaurya knew to what extent his parents will go for him he went his Evil ways knowing he had a safety net and that nothing he does that will get him into trouble.

Once you give a child that kind of power he is bound to use it to his advantage and to hell with everyone else even his own parents.

Parenting is hard but loving your child with Blinders on and not seeing and knowing their weakness and covering up their mistakes makes it harder as the child knows and uses that weakness against you.

My way of rearing children is ...An Iron Hand in a Velvet Glove. Tough but with love and understanding.

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642126

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: shelly_08
Hola Anu. 😎

I will comment my take on your post later- have you made a post on tonight's epi?

Yes I did. Here it is - https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ek-haseena-thi/4215379/smart-move-durga

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Mona

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Posted: 10 years ago

They could have put some sanskar into him...

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pallavi25

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Posted: 10 years ago

#10

Rajnath and Sakshi are hardcore criminals themselves so its natural they will cover up the criminal acts of their son, like rape, assault etc. They go to any extent to cover their own crimes and their son's crimes too.

Also the apple wont fall far from the tree...its just genetics, Shaurya inherited his parents' criminal nature..

But Ive also seen some good people having horrible kids and suffering because of their kid's actions.

Its not due to bad upbringing or genes, its just bad luck!

These parents try their best to discipline their children but its futile as the kid wont listen to them. Its just that a bad apple can ruin the entire basket!

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