Shravan and Suman are their own worst enemies (CARTOON ADDED!) - Page 3

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Posted: 9 years ago
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@tingding

I went out on a limb for this loser. I am very much a feminist too, but I asked him out and then gave him three more chances by texting first. All he did was get in touch f-ing 6 months later wondering how I am. So I figured, I will make it known that I forgot him. He hinted at meeting up but I didn't ask. A guy who still can't ask is just a complete loser, I figured. I just blew him off with niceties. Then, I got in touch to just chat about other stuff to figure where things were and he was happy talking about life stuff. We are not friends, we are pretend friends. Clearly, there is something else pulling us together cause friends stay in touch and he likes to disappear off the face of the earth. I have just decided to let him play his vanishing trick and not show that I care or even miss him. I just know I will never be the same again and that this was the real deal for me.

It's a real loss because in my eyes he was perfect. He looked like Cedric Diggory and thought like me. This was the only person who really could say what I was thinking before I said it.

How did your guy mess up?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Marybarton

@tingding


I went out on a limb for this loser. I am very much a feminist too, but I asked him out and then gave him three more chances by texting first. All he did was get in touch f-ing 6 months later wondering how I am. So I figured, I will make it known that I forgot him. He hinted at meeting up but I didn't ask. A guy who still can't ask is just a complete loser, I figured. I just blew him off with niceties. Then, I got in touch to just chat about other stuff to figure where things were and he was happy talking about life stuff. We are not friends, we are pretend friends. Clearly, there is something else pulling us together cause friends stay in touch and he likes to disappear off the face of the earth. I have just decided to let him play his vanishing trick and not show that I care or even miss him. I just know I will never be the same again and that this was the real deal for me.

It's a real loss because in my eyes he was perfect. He looked like Cedric Diggory and thought like me. This was the only person who really could say what I was thinking before I said it.

How did your guy mess up?




Mary- sorry I don't know your name- you will find someone who will love you unconditionally and without playing game. Uve done everything you could here and perhaps the guy is just not a man enough for you. You know life situations are different, u tried your best here and it was not destined to be. With me, il always regret not listening to my heart or letting my practical brain over rule my emotions. I really wish I would have sat down and had that one conversation with him. Becoz deep connections are so far and few in the world today, it should be worth all Uve got. You, on the other hand, will never regret not trying.

That's why in all such forums whether it's IPKkND, this one or others I've seen, I get a little annoyed when ppl want leads to move on at the first tension and resistance. Even though these are fictional characters, great love stories are forged in the fire of pain, hurt, loneliness and then the ability of your love to circumvent all such circumstances. I envy ppl like my friend, even the pain sometimes becoz that means, someone matters to them that much:)

Ok I need to stop now, this is getting too senti.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Mary- sorry I don't know your name- you will find someone who will love you unconditionally and without playing game. Uve done everything you could here and perhaps the guy is just not a man enough for you. You know life situations are different, u tried your best here and it was not destined to be. With me, il always regret not listening to my heart or letting my practical brain over rule my emotions. I really wish I would have sat down and had that one conversation with him. Becoz deep connections are so far and few in the world today, it should be worth all Uve got. You, on the other hand, will never regret not trying.

That's why in all such forums whether it's IPKkND, this one or others I've seen, I get a little annoyed when ppl want leads to move on at the first tension and resistance. Even though these are fictional characters, great love stories are forged in the fire of pain, hurt, loneliness and then the ability of your love to circumvent all such circumstances. I envy ppl like my friend, even the pain sometimes becoz that means, someone matters to them that much:)

Ok I need to stop now, this is getting too senti.



Could not agree more with you. An Arnav finding a Khushi and a Khushi finding an Arnav is one in a million. Most people don't get the one they intensely want, they settle for a lesser love or worse.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Marybarton




Could not agree more with you. An Arnav finding a Khushi and a Khushi finding an Arnav is one in a million. Most people don't get the one they intensely want, they settle for a lesser love or worse.



True, so if you do find the one, fight till you have nothing left to retain them. Obviously this has to work both ways:). What's your name btw- so glad to have found someone who thinks like me:).
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: tingding



True, so if you do find the one, fight till you have nothing left to retain them. Obviously this has to work both ways:). What's your name btw- so glad to have found someone who thinks like me:).


It's Mary :)

I really did try with him. That last convo was a try too. But now it is a year that I have known him and I am really hoping that my heart can forget him. A writer once said it takes two years or a lifetime, so I am hoping another year and I will be done thinking about him.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Mary,
So true.. The cartoon.. Apt...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Perfect picture for Shraman at this point 👍🏼

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