Shravan's most hated word!!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shravan's most hated word at the moment is Thank You 😭

deep inside his conscience he's declared himself guilty why you ask ??

I don't know whether you guys noticed it or not but The guy who kept saying how dare you hurt MY Sumo as he kept beating Aditya to the point of committing a murder that guy didn't even dare to check on Sumo not even daring to see through threshold of her room rather he stayed away further far away from her in a corner because he realised he's lost the right to do it his conscience is pricking him

he detest himself for allowing Sumo to go through this marriage

he is dejected and angry with himself that he Allowed Aditya to not only touch his Sumo but insulted his dear Nanu the grandfather figure who's the only one who managed to stop the guy from murdering Aditya
He says I stayed back for Nanu rather I stayed back for nanu's treasure to make sure his treasure Is safe not broken not lost not faded out not given up Alll his worries fade away seeing Sumo, Nanu's beloved posession the only treasure he holds close to his heart who keeps him alive!!

The final nail in the coffin for the beginning of the walk to hell and beyond for Shravan Malhotra was when sumo the girl who he callously cut off all relationship with just the other day
seeks him out brings him out of his self afflicted loneliness
requesting him to have some food
the girl who just underwent A traumatic incident goes ahead and Thanks him letting him know she's indebted not just for this day but for the rest of her life for what he has done for her today!!!

That's unacceptable for Shravan not Shravan Malhotra but Sumo's Shravan because her being in debt is like a death sentence for him as bad as drowning to death cause it's a clear sign in BOLD that it's the end of Sumo's Shravan and Shravan's sumo.

He was immediately going to correct her but the brain never forgets what we do and so did his conscience reminding him he's lost the Haq over Sumo she's just another woman who he helped out!!

But still the heart can never forget that Ss is linked to each other beyond the friendship bond they have a soul connection that was destiny's doing but that very same fate that brought them together years back thAt kismat is bad for Sumo he's hearing it from Mami he hated fate he hated this fate that forced sumo to feel indebted to him that's why he says please don't say thank you
He before leaving stops hesitates a bit wondering if he even have the right to tell her but then decides that he can't walk off without telling her to keep herself safe, Since he's understood that he's guilty he can't be there for her like Chashmish superman who promised to never let her fall today not only did she fall but he too fell along with her he was no longer the super hero he's just a human that's why he says Sumo take care of yourself

My thoughts after rewatching the episodes Atleast thrice 😆



For All those people justifying chomu and crucifying Shravan as the cause of poor chomu getting into this mess!!!

The Aditya Janata Party that's growing in strength and number day by day it's shocking and sick to see women justifying chomu's behaviour,as girlfriends fiance or as a wife I wonder what they will say had chomu been real'
I request you guys to please check your moral compass criteria that you use to judge chomu and Shravan with 😆 😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dreamer,
Beautifully written... Agree with what you said...

@Why was Shravan not seen ruminating over his carelessly said words??
Will come soon... Let it sink in.. Let him be alone, introspecting... It will burn him to ashes... I want to see him rise like a Phoenix from those ashes...
I will be waiting to see this unfold...

As for Aditya.. There is nobody but him to blame for the disgusting incident... The despicable criminal act... No words can insinuate that, no justification can be given for it...
I agree what Shravan said was morally wrong... But it's not in the same bracket as this crime..
Also, his words aren't responsible for this assault... Shravan should be / would be remorseful for his words n their implication as an individual event but not in connection to this criminal offence of Aditya..
Edited by Roshni2015 - 9 years ago
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Very well assesed! Keep it up!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Roshni2015

Dreamer,

Beautifully written... Agree with what you said...

@Why was Shravan not seen ruminating over his carelessly said words??
<font color="#333333" face="Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif">Will come soon... Let it sink in.. Let him be alone, introspecting... It will burn him to ashes... I want to see him rise like a Phoenix from those ashes...</font>
<font color="#333333" face="Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Arial, sans-serif">I will be waiting to see this unfold...</font>



Definitely Roshni he will it will be a journey to hell worse than what we would even want to see I believe his words will come to haunt him every moment going forward from today each time sumo goes to thank him till the day she finds out 😭 I dread to see it but when we have such amazing actors why complain

what I'm getting irritated with is the Aditya Janata Party that's growing in strength and number day by day it's shocking and sick to see women justifying chomu's behaviour as girlfriends fiance or as a wife I wonder what they will say had chomu been real 🤢 😉 😆
Edited by Dreamer-89 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Bang on post. I agree with you on all counts.😃


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dreamer-89



Definitely Roshni he will it will be a journey to hell worse than what we would even want to see I believe his words will come to haunt him every moment going forward from today each time sumo goes to thank him till the day she finds out 😭 I dread to see it but when we have such amazing actors why complain

what I'm getting irritated with is the Aditya Janata Party that's growing in strength and number day by day it's shocking and sick to see women justifying chomu's behaviour as girlfriends fiance or as a wife I wonder what they will say had chomu been real 🤢 😉 😆

I edited my post to add on this chomu support point... Can't help if people think that way...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I seriously cannot understand how the "Aditya Janata Party" could even form...leave alone grow by the hr.
That guy was plain creep and however much Shravan's words were unwarrented, it was those that brought the demon in Aditya to the forefront...thankfully before the wedding...

He deserved every bit of the thrashing he got.

Am yet to watch the episode...but AM so glad Aditya is (hopefully) out of the picture from Shraman's lives.

Regarding Shravan's words he said what he said not with the intention of defaming Suman. I think and hope Suman would understand him and put it in the right context as opposed to seeing it as a personal defamation relieving Shravan from too much guilt.



Edited by slumberqueen - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Great insight, Dreamer! Loved reading your take...
About Aditya: my voice is hoarse from shouting and my fingers sore from typing the same thing over and over again. THERE CAN NEVER BE ANY JUSTIFICATION FOR SEXUAL ASSAULT! And those deluding themselves into saying that that Adi was provoked are part of the reason why societies the world over still see women primarily as a sex object.
If, as a woman, I cannot give myself the right to say NO - no matter what the circumstances - and demand that the person I'm with (boyfriend, lover, husband or just a casual fling) respect my wish, it is ridiculous to expect that others will. Earlier, I used to feel shocked and hurt reading such comments, now it just makes me mad.

HOW could Shravan's words, however damaging, leave Aditya no option other than to force himself on Sumo? How could those words - or anything else - make him try to forcefully get intimate with a girl? If you force intimacy, you are a beast. Period. And to those people saying "he was just asking for a kiss" - do you think he wouldn't have forcefully kissed her if Shravan had not come barging in?

Having said all that, this does not excuse what Shravan has done. I know he will burn, and I hope it's an excruciatingly slow burn. For all my love for Shravan Malhotra, and all my sympathy for the hurt he has had to bear since he was 16, what he did was despicable. I hope we will see him realizing the irreparable damage his hate has done - not just to Sumo, but to the beautiful, sensitive person that was Shravan Malhotra.

Back to the episode now: I loved it for the raw emotions in it. The way she runs to him and the way he holds her tight seeking to protect her was a glimpse of the real ShraMan. No matter the hurt, no matter the anger, these two will always belong together.
I like what you say about his conscience not letting him go near her, but I also like what Sona (username dmg2c) wrote in her post - that even after everyone had left, Shravan was sitting sentry outside Sumo's room. He couldn't make himself go and check on her, but he also couldn't make himself leave without knowing if she was doing ok. That lovely scene brought out the tussle so well.

Come next week, I hope realization finally hits him in the face full blast, and we see him wallowing in the depths of despair - particularly as he notices Sumo softening toward him. It wasn't his intent to harm her, for sure, but the canny mind that planned this revenge on Nirmala and Aditya, should also have had the farsight to realize that he was dragging Sumo into this ugly war without her consent.
It will be hell for him, but hey, he opened the gates, and now must walk the fiery path.

But everything said and done, Shravan is a wonderful and honest human being, and I have faith that he will find the way out of the mess he has created. I wouldn't put the burden of "understanding" on Sumo this time, it is Shravan who has to pave the road ahead before he drives on it.




Edited by an_chau - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: an_chau

Great insight, Dreamer! Loved reading your take...

About Aditya: my voice is hoarse from shouting and my fingers sore from typing the same thing over and over again. THERE CAN NEVER BE ANY JUSTIFICATION FOR SEXUAL ASSAULT! And those deluding themselves into saying that that Adi was provoked are part of the reason why societies the world over still see women primarily as a sex object.
If, as a woman, I cannot give myself the right to say NO - no matter what the circumstances - and demand that the person I'm with (boyfriend, lover, husband or just a casual fling) respect my wish, it is ridiculous to expect that others will. Earlier, I used to feel shocked and hurt reading such comments, now it just makes me mad.

HOW could Shravan's words, however damaging, leave Aditya no option other than to force himself on Sumo? How could those words - or anything else - make him try to forcefully get intimate with a girl? If you force intimacy, you are a beast. Period. And to those people saying "he was just asking for a kiss" - do you think he wouldn't have forcefully kissed her if Shravan had not come barging in?

Having said all that, this does not excuse what Shravan has done. I know he will burn, and I hope it's an excruciatingly slow burn. For all my love for Shravan Malhotra, and all my sympathy for the hurt he has had to bear since he was 16, what he did was despicable. I hope we will see him realizing the irreparable damage his hate has done - not just to Sumo, but to the beautiful, sensitive person that was Shravan Malhotra.

Back to the episode now: I loved it for the raw emotions in it. The way she runs to him and the way he holds her tight seeking to protect her was a glimpse of the real ShraMan. No matter the hurt, no matter the anger, these two will always belong together.
I like what you say about his conscience not letting him go near her, but I also like what Sona (username dmg2c) wrote in her post - that even after everyone had left, Shravan was sitting sentry outside Sumo's room. He couldn't make himself go and check on her, but he also couldn't make himself leave without knowing if she was doing ok. That lovely scene brought out the tussle so well.

Come next week, I hope realization finally hits him in the face full blast, and we see him wallowing in the depths of despair - particularly as he notices Sumo softening toward him. He is not a child to not realize that he was defaming Sumo when he spun that yarn. It wasn't his intent to harm her, for sure, but the canny mind that planned this revenge on Nirmala and Aditya, should also have had the farsight to realize that he was dragging Sumo into this ugly war without her consent.
It will be hell for him, but hey, he opened the gates, and now must walk the fiery path.

But everything said and done, Shravan is a wonderful and honest human being, and I have faith that he will find the way out of the mess he has created. I wouldn't put the burden of "understanding" on Sumo this time, it is Shravan who has to pave the road ahead before he drives on it.




An,
This!!!
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@Bold Caps... I'm tired of saying this every day... But again I say it...seeing some of the posts..
You are absolutely correct here..
Agree with everything you said. Couldn't have said any better..
Edited by Roshni2015 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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What Adi did was just WRONG! His thinking was that...just because Shraman were probably physically intimate...Sumo MUST and SHOULD be ready and willing to share something similar with her future husband even if that meant he had to force her to do so! All I can say is that...this type of mentality is absolutely unacceptable and criminal.

The reality is that there are still a lot of people out there who think and behave like Adi...and I just hope things are changing for the better...but a complete eradication of such rotten and dated mindsets is generations away!

The irony of life is such...that at one end of the spectrum...human beings are trying to establish their presence on another planet...and at the other end...there are people who clutch on to antiquated belief systems...where a woman's virginity defines the sanctity of her being! Such contrast...baffling to say the least!
Edited by puba - 9 years ago

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