Is anyone here ever been accused having affair with your best friend?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Is anyone here ever been accused having affair with your best friend?
Do you know the pain of being accused for having affair and lying about it?

How it feels when someone keep pestering you asking about it again and again?

Pretending to be nice in front of others and accusing you for having affair with your friend.

Sorry to say, I went through it.

If my friend did what Sharvan did today... I would have worshiped him... Being friend to him for whole life is much better than marrying person like Aditya...

Aditya is worst than Ramu

Sharvan said those words because Aditya was expecting them... Aditya won't have stopped till Sharvan said those words...

Sharvan haven't belittle Sumo's character... stop accusing and judging things when you don't know the pain

Don't compare anything with Sex assault ...


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shravan did the right thing in a wrong way.
He needed to shut Aditya's mouth forever..

I'm on Shravan's side🤢
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sneha_17

Is anyone here ever been accused having affair with your best friend?

Do you know the pain of being accused for having affair and lying about it?

How it feels when someone keep pestering you asking about it again and again?

Pretending to be nice in front of others and accusing you for having affair with your friend.

Sorry to say, I went through it.

If my friend did what Sharvan did today... I would have worshiped him... Being friend to him for whole life is much better than marrying person like Aditya...

Aditya is worst than Ramu

Sharvan said those words because Aditya was expecting them... Aditya won't have stopped till Sharvan said those words...

Sharvan haven't belittle Sumo's character... stop accusing and judging things when you don't know the pain

Don't compare anything with Sex assault ...



Shravan indirectly became Suman hero by saving her from this unwanted marriage...

tedha shravan rocks...

In his heart Shravan was always close to sumo like a lover, husband and life partner...
In a way he confessed his dream in front of Aditya making him think that its the reality..
Shravan dream and goal has always been to be a lover, husband and life partner of Sumo...
to be her shadow... to be with her always
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I have gone through all this... My sister-in-law asked me about the relationship between me and my best friend... And people imagines things according to their own thoughts and they only want to hear what they are actually thinking... That's it ... So yeah in last episode Shravan said what Aditya wanted to hear from him and Suman... He didn't trust Suman...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you so much for making this post.😊 Much needed.

I know what Shravan did was wrong, but he was fed up of Aditya's sordid insinuations and Nirmala's accusations that Shravan was bugging Aditya.🤢

What do you do when someone keeps pestering you...NON-STOP? Even when you say nothing happened, they still don't believe you. They bug you with veiled insults with fake smile and cryptic remarks. Shravan just got fed up and gave Aditya what he was looking for.

No matter what Shravan said, Aditya still would have believed that Shravan shared a sordid past with Sumo. The only way to shut Adi up was to tell him exactly what he wanted to hear.

I enjoyed how Adi finally lost his smile and went speechless. I got perverse satisfaction from it.

I know what Shravan did was wrong. He didn't think about Sumo when he did this. But, I still can't blame Shravan entirely. And what Shravan did can never in a million years justify what Adi is about to do.

On another note, I am sorry that people in real life have to go through this. Being accused of having an affair with your best friend. No matter how much you tell them that it is not romantic, they still don't believe you. Some narrow-minded people, I tell you.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Its always there...but the person wanting to marry need to have trust..Aditya was pushing them beyond threshold and yes, it just broke..in the form of Shravan.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: PlainJane

Thank you so much for making this post.😊 Much needed.

I know what Shravan did was wrong, but he was fed up of Aditya's sordid insinuations and Nirmala's accusations that Shravan was bugging Aditya.🤢

What do you do when someone keeps pestering you...NON-STOP? Even when you say nothing happened, they still don't believe you. They bug you with veiled insults with fake smile and cryptic remarks. Shravan just got fed up and gave Aditya what he was looking for.

No matter what Shravan said, Aditya still would have believed that Shravan shared a sordid past with Sumo. The only way to shut Adi up was to tell him exactly what he wanted to hear.

I enjoyed how Adi finally lost his smile and went speechless. I got perverse satisfaction from it.

I know what Shravan did was wrong. He didn't think about Sumo when he did this. But, I still can't blame Shravan entirely. And what Shravan did can never in a million years justify what Adi is about to do.

On another note, I am sorry that people in real life have to go through this. Being accused of having an affair with your best friend. No matter how much you tell them that it is not romantic, they still don't believe you. Some narrow-minded people, I tell you.



Adi is ajerk of the highest order. But do u think Shravan did this because of his constant pestering? No it was a revenge on nirmala. He keeps saying sumo used him always . In fact he used sumo today to get revenge on his bhagodi mom and adi.
Adi has been a witness to their intense eye locks. He is sure there is more than friendship here and hence he pestered. Who is aditya??a baharwala like sumo said. But shravan her best friend let her down today and I'm not judging a woman's character on premarital relationship but what shravan said was a big lie.
There is no doubt Aditya's actions cannot be justified but shravan is no less.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Even if Shravan won't say those words, Aditya will behave like this only with Suman
If not now, even after marriage.
But shravan didn't think about its aftereffects can't be justified.
What shravan did is wrong.
But it's not the ultimate cause of Aditya's behavior.
He is MCP, he will behave like this only in future
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Kuch to log kahenge... Logon ka kaam hai kehna...
I doubt a person like suman would be affected by this nonsense... no need to feel humiliated when u have not done anything wrong.
I am sure if Aditya kept pest ether, she might have blurted out her feelings for shravan...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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It is the difficult thing to explain to someone who doesn't believe a boy and girl can be just friends. You hangout often, so that automatically means you are dating the person. No! You just like there company and obviously, the friendship you have shared over time makes a great foundation for this comfort. These your people. People, who mean much more than words said by by standers; who believe what they want to and hear what they want to.
Assault, is not sexual but also verbal and anybody slandering someone's image, especially of a close friend will always receive an adverse reply. No matter what you say, they hear and see only what they want.
Actions taken to keep a loved one safe, is never wrong, but can be misconstrued. However, the approach maybe wrong, but not the intent.

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