Feeling sorry for Aditya - Page 2

Originally posted by: kalyas

I am sure there is a reason... He knows that Suman and Shravan feel for each other and want to bring out the truth. He went to extreme so he can get out this marriage joke jhangat. Otherwise he would be stuck with one long faced unhappy wife that no one deserves

If this is the way to break marriage then how is he any better than Sumon? Sumon needed to two things. One tell him that she does love someone but it was one sided (as shravan never confessed and they were never in a relationship) and second that she needs time. Second one she did last night. She asked for time. In arrange marriages the feeling of love might not come overnight. Just because Adi loved her at first sight doesn't mean she has to feel the same way.

And you said Adi must have a reason to get physical (he was trying to pull her off the bed forcefully). Nothing should give a guy to get that violent with a girl he intends to marry. If we reason this kind of behavior we are actually encouraging domestic violence.

Sumon hid her past if this bothers him too much then tell her off and call off the wedding. Breaking a relation on the day if the event is insulting enough without being violent.

Just my opinion.

Originally posted by: noexcuse

If this is the way to break marriage then how is he any better than Sumon? Sumon needed to two things. One tell him that she does love someone but it was one sided (as shravan never confessed and they were never in a relationship) and second that she needs time. Second one she did last night. She asked for time. In arrange marriages the feeling of love might not come overnight. Just because Adi loved her at first sight doesn't mean she has to feel the same way.

And you said Adi must have a reason to get physical (he was trying to pull her off the bed forcefully). Nothing should give a guy to get that violent with a girl he intends to marry. If we reason this kind of behavior we are actually encouraging domestic violence.

Sumon hid her past if this bothers him too much then tell her off and call off the wedding. Breaking a relation on the day if the event is insulting enough without being violent.

Just my opinion.

Originally posted by: kalyas

You dont have to call names... Disgusting??? I am not defending his harassment behavior. I am condemning Sumans behavior.

Aditya is being clear to both Suman and Shravan that he's doubtful about their relationship... Shravan din't have an official relationship but the bonding they share is nothing short... Instead of clearing his doubts while one is instigating him another is ignoring him... Much fault is with Suman... She wanted a win-win in both Nanu's and her case... Then this guy Adi too if he is so insecure should have backed out right that day when Kamini instilled doubts about Shraman in him... He wants every thing according to himself... Wants to marry Suman but didn't even like the idea of she might be having a past... Grow up man, seriously... If she's isn't mentioning anything about her past it might also mean that she doesn't want to look back in life where you might not be present.

Originally posted by: poppinss

Aditya is right too. He very clearly tells her... if you have someone else in your heart, I will never find a place there. And we all know 10 years of separation could not change her love... what is a mere marriage going to do? Sumo needs to realize that she can go drown... but she has no business leading Adi along that path! Where are her values how? When did she become so selfish?

Thats why we need to chuck analysis and enjoy Shravan breaking the marriage and swoon over the romance.😆😆

I agree with you, but Aditya is not blameless here. Suman never showed any interest in him whatsoever, so when he went directly to his mom and then to Nanu without asking her, he was hoping to corner her. Again when he made that announcement in Preeti's wedding, dude the girl is uncomfortable and clearly cornered - give her some time. It was very clear from the beginning Sumo is not interested and I think he did everything to make sure she can't back off. Right now, Sumo is a broken doll, she's super insecure becoz she thinks no one wants her, She is a burden and her love has broken her heart and soul. She should have asked for time, but I think she wanted to go away from Shravan's taunts and disdain for her. She's choosing the only option available to her. But Adi can see everything, yet he wants to possess her, his feelings for her are of ownership type and a little scary. So sorry, but no sympathies for him.

Though I do think that if Sumo has committed herself to this marriage, she should not be so disinterested. But that's what the problem is na, Shravan is a part of her soul, both as a friend and her love and even if she wants she can't get him out of her system. So anything that Adi tries to do romantically is pinching her. But she should have told him- I'm doing this for Nanu only and pls give me time.

Either not worth wasting my time on this nonsense show

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

Aditya is being clear to both Suman and Shravan that he's doubtful about their relationship... Shravan din't have an official relationship but the bonding they share is nothing short... Instead of clearing his doubts while one is instigating him another is ignoring him... Much fault is with Suman... She wanted a win-win in both Nanu's and her case... Then this guy Adi too if he is so insecure should have backed out right that day when Kamini instilled doubts about Shraman in him... He wants every thing according to himself... Wants to marry Suman but didn't even like the idea of she might be having a past... Grow up man, seriously... If she's isn't mentioning anything about her past it might also mean that she doesn't want to look back in life where you might not be present.

He could have hurt her in other way.. or may be he could have played games with words.. but forcing her.. oh god.. what CV's are upto.. even if he will do with good intention.. may be just like U are thinking it's still bad act to behave like dat with any girl... n he assumes things on his own.. he has impulsive nature.. n remains in his own bubble.. let me see in future episodes how CV's will portray his character.. ? n abt Sumo.. she is thinking it's arrange marriage.. so Aditya will give her time.. but she should understand looking at his behaviour.. dat... he is seriously getting involved himself.. n imagining his life with her.. so one thing is true.. she should have talked to him.. that she is doing this marriage for NAanu's sake.. so plz do give her time.. but aisa hota toh hume Shramn thodehi milenge..? 😉 n abt Shravan also.. he si not less.. acoording to spoiler may be he will add up ghee in fire..

In arranged marriages, the time is a very important factor. The girl and the boy, both need some time to develop some feelings for each other. Especially the girl needs it most. Because its said and almost accepted fact that in a marriage or in a love relationship the sex is the preference for a male partner and on the contrary female partner needs to have an emotional involvement. And to develop this emotional bonding with a stranger, definitely she needs the time.

By now, he got that Suman doesn't have any feelings for him..
After seeing her behavior, any conscious person can understand, she is agreed to marriage, under some pressure.
Why can't he call off the marriage, instead of plotting against them?
What is the use of these taunts & planning??
Aditya always 'assumed' what Suman thinks, about she likes her, about she is okay with the marriage...
He askedher consent only after publically announcing it.
It is in a way forcing her to accept him
If you didn't get somebody's permission/consent, will you give some time, or force them to accept you?
Aditya always forced his likes on others.
He is least bothered about others feelings.
So I have no sympathy for that man..
Such a person is irritating...