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nancyrio90

@nancyrio90

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

Just opening another topic of discussion...

I am leaving a statement here without any views attached.

Would b great to hear what forum feels on this!

IS MARRIAGE A BE ALL AND END ALL FOR BOTH MEN &.WOMEN... OR ONE CAN REMAIN HAPPY SINGLE THROUGHOUT ...THATS EVEN MUCH LATER IN LIFE WITHOUT ANY REGRETS!

The topic is pretty much subjective.. but still views on this might b interesting to know!

Leave ur views!

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Spnfan

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Posted: 9 years ago

It depends on what kind of person ypu are.. Some people like to have a family and someone tp share their lofe with and some people dont...

There are lots of women.who dont want to get married... Its a persona choice... In india even if a woman dont want to get married the families will force her into one.. Only very few woman are strong enough to oppose it and be what they wamt to be...

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poppinss

@poppinss

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Posted: 9 years ago

Rushing marriage is bad. Just because your marriage or love breaks don't mean that you would not be able to get into another loving relationship in the future. Its just that the present may look daunting but...

Love makes time pass and time makes love pass 😊

While some are happy being single, most others want to find a partner and companion for life. That purely depends on the individual.

Having said that if a person is already in a marriage and that marriage gets toxic inspite of time and effort and ending in unhappiness. It is better to move out and make oneself happy rather than stay back in something that is very unhealthy and unhappy.

In essence life is short and we need to do what makes us happy.

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nicky13

@nicky13

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Posted: 9 years ago

If you are not happy out of that marriage than its better to be separated...

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Flibbertigibbet

@Flibbertigibbet

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Posted: 9 years ago

Marriage is NOT end all be all for any person of any gender. To find happiness you dont have to be dependent on another person. One can be their own happiness and the ruler of their own kingdom!

Having said that, i do believe that everyone needs a person to love and to love so deeply that the succumb in it. What better than marriage to do that because isnt that the highest level of committment?

I do believe that marriage is not everything in life. But it does make your life different. It gives you new reasons to live. New joys and new revelations about yourself. Marriage at the cost of self is not marriage. It's a sacrifice.

To love so deeply that you want to be with someone for the rest of your life seems like a fascinating adventure to me :)

As far as regrets go, you are the only person responsible for your regrets because what made you not achieve that thing? Your regrets are nothing but compilations of your opportunitues and actions. :)

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noexcuse

@noexcuse

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

Marriage is not perfect but it is the best we have so far. So any day over beings tried than bring just by myself for rest of my life.

I talking from a long term perspective. Nothing sucks more than being lonely. If nothing else still I need my hubby just to vent out. Love him and love the institution of marriage.

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simran_singh_24

@simran_singh_24

Rocker

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Posted: 9 years ago

Your statement has two questions.
1) Is marriage THE END for the couple entering it? NO. the best or worst is yet to come😆

2) Can one remain single & happy? YES.

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simran1303

@simran1303

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

I personally think that it's one's choice whether wants to b single or married... It's all about being happy whether being marred or single and one should never b judgemental about it which sadly society is but it's improving... It's an individuals decision and everyone should respect it...rather than forming opinion.

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malikakas

@malikakas

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

I think for a lot of people it enhances life but its definitely not the end all be all.

It depends a lot on the reason a person wants/needs to be in a relationship as to whether it will enhance their life. I came across this article a while ago... and it made a lot of sense to me. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/margaret-paul-phd/relationship-advice_b_1947837.html

People who look towards relationships as a way to feel whole are probably less likely to find the kind of fulfillment in marriage that they were looking for. Looking for someone else to make you happy never really works because happiness comes from within. You need to be content with yourself in the first place before you can build a happy life with someone else.

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nancyrio90

@nancyrio90

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

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Thanks everyone for posting ur views here

I sincerely believe in the institution of marriage not because it's be all and end all neither for relying on someone else to give me happiness but for the sharing my happiness sorrows with someone and adding more meaning to my life by loving caring for this special someone for life and having that reciprocated... which is not a guarantee of course... but I am ready to make that move and take that chance!. as it might emotionally fulfilling to have someone to by ur side

even when all near dear ones and friends r busy with their lives which is pretty natural .

Seeing my Parents stand by each other in happiest and toughest times of their lives have given me sincere and adorable relationship goals!Giving and receiving companionship being a key to this relationship for sense of belonging ness it creates I guess can ward away all the loneliness in one's life!

Being totally emotional independent is a tough task I believe though not impossible one!

Having said all the above but marriage for the sake of family or societal pressure or just for the "sake" of getting married is big nono for me.. it has to b for the right reasons!

Yet to be married or to find this special someone..so pretty much a dreamer!

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