I am sorry but I dont relate to this Sumo

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I seriously dont...This is so not the go-getter, sassy and righteous Suman Tiwari we saw at the start of the show. CVs are spoiling her for the worse. And NO this is not because of the pain she unintentionally ends up giving to Shravan this time. This is much more. This is not the Sumo I loved since the initial days of this show. Somehow I feel in order to fit the idea of "Shravan believing into the fact that indeed Sumo is mean and selfish" they have actually made her one. And its plain sad

For once lets keep Shravan and his pain aside.

But isn't she being plain unfair to Aditya? Yes I know he is a chipkoo. He is too over-confident of himself and doesn't even know Sumo well. But atleast till now he hasn't done anything wrong to her that he deserves to be kept in dark?? So Sumo was faced with the dilemma of saying yes to marry Aditya coz Nanu was out of control and delirious. At that time the "YES" was just a way to pacify and control him. I thought may be Sumo would come up with a solution to postpone this. But the very next moment she told to Preeti that she will consider this marriage as an arranged marriage. 😲 I was like WTH is wrong with this girl!! She could have decided to tell the truth to Aditya and Nirmala (not about Shravan but the truth that she doesn't think of Aditya like that) and requested them to postpone the talks till nanu was in a condition to tolerate the truth. But she straight away gave into accepting the marriage.

Even today Aditya was adamant about making her confess her love but she felt plain irritated. Honestly I was so happy when I saw her irritation. But later I wondered why couldn't even for once, Suman Tiwari feel bad for that man who thought that she loved him and said yes because she wanted to spend her life with him. Just few moments back she said YES for the marriage in front of nanu. What does tht mean for a guy? That even if the girl doesn't love him atleast she has a slight liking for him. I dont understand how is it so easy for Sumo to play with the emotions of two men w/o any guilt?? When Aditya cornered her and pushed her to confess, she could have tried to tell him the truth. But she even doesn't have that on her mind. She doesn't intend to tell the truth. And I am sorry if she is doing this for nanu, then yes she is being PLAIN SELFISH!! She is thinking only about "HER" nanu. What about Aditya and his family? This is about someone's whole life and its not easy to live in a fake relationship.

I really wonder how correct it is to keep someone in dark about your intentions to get into a relationship with them. Tomorrow nanu will not come to save her marriage if she cant put up with Aditya. Wont that be a bigger blow for Aditya? For his family? To know that she actually loves her best friend and only chose him for nanu.

She sacrificing her own happiness and love for Preeti-Pushkar was still fine coz you always have the choice of giving up on whats your own for the ones u love...But to betray a third person for your personal reason that two for something like marriage, How right is that?

Imagine a guy marrying you just because of his parents though he loves some other girl and feels suffocated even by the idea of your closeness 🤢 That sounds plain mean n heartbreaking to me as a girl

Its really really sad CVs have done this to one of my fav characters of this show. Till date all the shows I have followed, I have always been the most keen supporter of the female lead but somehow I cant support Sumo this time. And it pains me to say so 💔

Sadly she is acting just the way Ramnath had said.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Now suman becomes bechari...tolerates chomu...u r correct ...it's proving ramanath is correct...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I do not too. even shravan is very disturbing most of the times - but he "reacts" - his sensitivity till now did not die.
sumo - on the other hand - has become plain weird. normal things are escaping her. she needs therapy.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: LIKEDMG

Now suman becomes bechari...tolerates chomu...u r correct ...it's proving ramanath is correct...


Exactly..And I hate it!! If they wanted to make her bechari only...then how is this show different from other shows?? How is this not the kekta way of doing things?? its the same 🥱
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Posted: 9 years ago
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U are so right I hate this suman tiwari she should be the one who redeem herself this is so not done. She just doesn't speak up wth
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yep it amazes me that Cvs did this to her character! Its so out of character.. that I have stopped relating to her anymore and her actions r becoming totally unpredictable and irrational day by day! As u said correctly it's not only coz of her behaviour towards..Shravan I have stopped relating to her but there r so many other reasonsb and u have captured most of them so aptly! And I would mention one of them here which outright glaring to me:

Does she even have a clue what impact can Preetis married life may have once Malhotras know she is marrying so called Nirmala s son...
she hasn't thought about Shravans state or reaction in this regard...as that's becoming routine so not worth mentioning!
Nanu is in a desperate situation as potrayed so I might overlook his reasoning going for a toss but Sumos too??..I have nothing much to say! Hopefully cvs realise and do some damage control soon!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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All valid points which would come to any rational persons mind but still there must be a team of writers getting paid to dish out the nonsensical story. Makes me wonder whether they are being paid peanuts or writers are dumb or writers think the audience is dumb. Why do Indian audience watch this kind of slopfest?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: QUIRKY333

I do not too. even shravan is very disturbing most of the times - but he "reacts" - his sensitivity till now did not die.

sumo - on the other hand - has become plain weird. normal things are escaping her. she needs therapy.


@bold - Yup, totally. She is not focusing even on the basics. Its sad she is failing so many people together. Just because CVs has to show her as an abla nari...the sacrificial Indian woman...BULLSHIT!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: farial100

U are so right I hate this suman tiwari she should be the one who redeem herself this is so not done. She just doesn't speak up wth


Thnx for your reply farial. I wont say I hate her...I never can. But her confused state makes me upset. Okay whatever she does to Shravan, acceptable. These two are destined to be each other's biggest pain and medicine as well. Their love-hate is the ploy of destiny. But Sumo is acting indifferent to even other people which is so not done. She is totally missing the plot.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Agree with you.
I m also confused with her character.
She is not the Sumo, once I liked.
When you Sumo advised her to leave shravan, she decided to dump him..
And shravan already warned her about Aditya's intentions, but she used same Aditya to make Shravan jealous.
She acted as if, she is unaware of his intentions.
And now, why can't she either tell the truth or accept Aditya?
Suman is selfish in a way, that she thinks about "her Nanu, her family, her sister..._
Never bothered about, how the other fellows feel,bcz of her behavior.
Yes, this Sumo is disappointing

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