LU and Discussion episode dt 15/08/2016 - Page 16

Originally posted by: poppinss

Actually this is the 3rd time he has done it...

1st at the party - planned

2nd in his office - unplanned

3rd now... looks planned but emotional.

He does not let Sumo talk. She does say 'Shravan' and he gets even more tense and moves out of PCT.

Honestly not to get into a comparison of bad behavior, but this entire shadi track Sumo has been mean and hurtful to him again and again, without letting him speak. The engagement shopping, the hall booking, when he tried to warn her about Adi, so let's not keep harping on Shravan's behavior. This incident should definitely haunt, but Suman should not be let off the hook for her way of handling things. And I find that laying the blame on either one is a futile exercise. Even though I understand why these tracks are needed, I hope the CVs inject some positivity, I'm getting tired of constant high state of unstable emotions. Even humor from
Side actors will do.

Originally posted by: tingding

Honestly not to get into a comparison of bad behavior, but this entire shadi track Sumo has been mean and hurtful to him again and again, without letting him speak. The engagement shopping, the hall booking, when he tried to warn her about Adi, so let's not keep harping on Shravan's behavior. This incident should definitely haunt, but Suman should not be let off the hook for her way of handling things. And I find that laying the blame on either one is a futile exercise. Even though I understand why these tracks are needed, I hope the CVs inject some positivity, I'm getting tired of constant high state of unstable emotions. Even humor from
Side actors will do.

Except two wrongs do not make a right!

Originally posted by: indranigupta

You are wrong...he is not what he has been shown today...

He is the guy who came back just to give a swing to Sumo as this was her childhood wish

Love takes you into strange bylanes...often dark and foggy as well

But, love also is light...one which clears away the darkness...

This is my opinion. And there is no right or wrong there. I just disagree with your views on the subject. I am not saying he is a bad person. He may be very good at heart. But if he cannot trust a woman he loves at all, humiliates her in front of her employees how is that a strange bylane? Words are very powerful. They are poisonous arrows that cannot be taken back. He is old enough to know that.

She is allowed to take money from whoever she wants. Under whatever conditions she wants. It is called freedom. Yes she has been cold. But she has never insulted him in public. Never made him feel small in front of others. He is not being an adult at this point.

Originally posted by: glassdoor

This is my opinion. And there is no right or wrong there. I just disagree with your views on the subject. I am not saying he is a bad person. He may be very good at heart. But if he cannot trust a woman he loves at all, humiliates her in front of her employees how is that a strange bylane? Words are very powerful. They are poisonous arrows that cannot be taken back. He is old enough to know that.

She is allowed to take money from whoever she wants. Under whatever conditions she wants. It is called freedom. Yes she has been cold. But she has never insulted him in public. Never made him feel small in front of others. He is not being an adult at this point.

Originally posted by: glassdoor

This is my opinion. And there is no right or wrong there. I just disagree with your views on the subject. I am not saying he is a bad person. He may be very good at heart. But if he cannot trust a woman he loves at all, humiliates her in front of her employees how is that a strange bylane? Words are very powerful. They are poisonous arrows that cannot be taken back. He is old enough to know that.

She is allowed to take money from whoever she wants. Under whatever conditions she wants. It is called freedom. Yes she has been cold. But she has never insulted him in public. Never made him feel small in front of others. He is not being an adult at this point.

Agreed,but then my question would be does one wrong action wipe away millions of other small things that someone does for you. I don't know, I guess the threshold differs for different ppl. I wouldn't write off someone that behaved in a very wrong way agreed, but partly because I pushed him into it and partly he has a certain reason from his past. If you truly love someone, you try to understand his insecurities and heal him, not turn away at the first opportunity. But that's just me.

Originally posted by: glassdoor

This is my opinion. And there is no right or wrong there. I just disagree with your views on the subject. I am not saying he is a bad person. He may be very good at heart. But if he cannot trust a woman he loves at all, humiliates her in front of her employees how is that a strange bylane? Words are very powerful. They are poisonous arrows that cannot be taken back. He is old enough to know that.

She is allowed to take money from whoever she wants. Under whatever conditions she wants. It is called freedom. Yes she has been cold. But she has never insulted him in public. Never made him feel small in front of others. He is not being an adult at this point.

Originally posted by: an_chau

Errmmm, actually she has. In front of the whole school... remember? And the apology that she gave him - as an adult - was half-baked... The moment he said i've moved on, she hit back saying "it wasn't a big deal anyways..."

However, relationships are not about payback, and this is something Shravan will learn. Just as Sumo will see that she can lose Shravan (chhoti Sumo's advice notwithstanding).

Originally posted by: indranigupta

Please forgive me...if I sounded rude...

Ofc, you have a right to say anything and to post anything

She is allowed to take money from anyone...but the premise of it was never freedom...it was simply why this piece of land and not any other

Also, she did humiliate him in public...however, that was way back in school

Originally posted by: indranigupta

Please forgive me...if I sounded rude...

Ofc, you have a right to say anything and to post anything

She is allowed to take money from anyone...but the premise of it was never freedom...it was simply why this piece of land and not any other

Also, she did make humiliate him in public...ofc that was way back in school

Not at all rude dear. Chill 😃

I would like to believe this is a healthy discussion.

As humans we are all deeply flawed. Doing things we are not proud of. So both of them have done things in the past that they wouldn't like to repeat.

Philosophies aside, she has grown up and he hasn't. She has blossomed into this beautiful, dependable and responsible person. And he is still stuck in the past and has maaamy issues. Of course I love him. Not despite but because of his flaws. Plus he is super hot. Is there a drooling thread around here somewhere? 😆

@Glass door- I would agree with you here. Live and trust walk hand in hand. And so does respect. Without that a partnership will be made of glass and susceptible to breaking even if small insignificant pebbles are thrown at it, and to accidental damage.