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Posted: 9 years ago
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@TM: Welcome to the forum.😃
While I don't agree with everything you have written, I really admire the way you have expressed your thoughts😃

I think the biggest problem with this marriage track is the lack of communication. Be it Shravan-Sumo or the ladke wala-ladki wala. They randomly come up with rituals a day prior to the actual event without even communicating properly beforehand. Of course they are going to have issues!!

From what I know of weddings, all the functions are planned, the invites sent out and then the whole wedding with the decided functions. Yahaan toh sab alag ho raha hai!
Here they go ahead with the wedding, then invite people then decide functions. How will such a wedding happen?

Regarding Sumo, I will say she is quite flawed like any of us are...While some of her decisions make sense sometimes, some don't...

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spnfan

Sumo didnt let shravan marry her.sister.or sacrificed her entire.life for her.family like other shows.. You.must have read about.indian.FL's.being sacrificing devis but havent seens upto what level they go to do.so.. Sumo's.reasons for staying away from shravan is reasonable... She.never said she will.forget shravan.or make.him.hate.her... She.didbt want to bring distance.b/w father-son.and create.trouble.in her.sister's happiness... Sumo.is.no where.near.any of the other typical FLs of tv.. To kbow that you need to watch the typical FLs of indian serials which.you surely.havent... Sp judging.on the basis of articles( which.most of the.times exaggerat.the story) is.not a wise thing to.do...

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I don't agree to keep sumo beside Mahaan Athmas of Indian Telly, she promised Ramu that she won't tell her feelings to Shravan but not forget him.And after knowing that Shravan is feeling jealous about Aditya's closeness, she never tried to act close to Adi like other FL's who think that this may help in staying away from shravan .
@TM... welcome to the forum
I agree on some points , but coming to the monologues , as sumo have now , Shravan too had monologues when he avoided sumo , then we knew reason for shravan's behaviour, but even then sumo didn't misunderstand him, she kept on trying to prove him how much she trusts him , so here i'm expecting the same from shravan.
Let me quote sumo's dlg from their coffee date after her accident

"Suman chahe thumse kithna bhi lade , jagada kare ,bala bhura kahe par kabhi thumhare liye bura nahi sochegi aur naahi karegi,Shayad main apni liye aisa yakeen thumhare dil mein kabhi jagaa nahi payi Shravan"

Shravan still have trust issues.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Welcome to the forum! Wonder why I have a feeling that I know you? You sound very familiar...and also I really like your username...live and let live.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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1. don't know from which part of India you are.
In North India, all marriage expenses are from brides family only except reception.

2. Sumo is rejecting every offer for help from Malhotras. Ramnath offered that blank cheque to Sumo as the price for going away from his sons life. Any person worth his / her salt will not accept any financial help from such family. I know Sumo knows all that and Shravan doesn't, that's why he is relating everything to her ego.Her soul was bruised by Ramnath, accepting financial help from his son would amount to accepting his cheque. Sumo is right.

3. Kamini is not happy with the alliance, that's why she is leaving no opportunity to insult tiwaris. If there is a huge difference bet the families, the wedding expenses are shared gracefully without letting the other party feel insulted.

4. Kamini raised unusual demands at the behest of Ramnath, so that they would back off and

Pushkars marriage to Preeti will not happen. This was Ramnath's grand plan but was foiled. So Kamini felt cheated and she raised this with Ramnath also. He did not have any answer.

5. Sumo understood Adi's motives. She was doubly convinced when Shravan told her about Adi's intentions. The very next day she cut him off. Is it right to take somebody's help who is a chipku and you want to keep him at bay.


The only problem is Shravan does not know. She trusts and respects Shravan, The words Ravi Sinha spoke about Shravan were bad , real bad and she did the right thing by rejecting his offer and giving him a piece of her mind..


Where is the ego or I am right attitude in this.

Pl share your views.

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