How Nirmala should have handled Ramnath.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Quite frankly,
How do you handle a moron?

Talking wouldn't have worked.
Begging and pleading neither.
Leaving definitely didn't work...May be it did, for her😡...but not for the abandoned son😭...

She should have just stayed on , resigned her job and gone shopping with Ramnath's money.

I AM SERIOUS!

See, that is what Kamini did and it seems to have worked out well.😆

At some point in time, Ramnath would have shouted at her saying she is wasting his money and she could have told him that he never liked seeing her happy- taking lessons from mami here. 😉

Bottom line- If you are stuck with a husband not on the same wavelength, pester him until he grows up to your wavelength. 😆




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Posted: 9 years ago
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Not all women enjoy shopping. There is a big section that abhors it...
And hard to live under a scanner of suspicion.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: edkv99

Not all women enjoy shopping. There is a big section that abhors it...

And hard to live under a scanner of suspicion.


Who says you have to enjoy shopping.

Just spend the guy's money and teach him a lesson.

And then doubt him with every woman he meets in his profession...make his life hell.😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I like the way you think!😆😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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That's what most women do. Stays stuck with a no hope relationship just for the sake of kids.

It would not have been fair on Nir if she did stay back but seeing what Shravan has become it makes me wonder whose happiness matters more? The mother's or the son's?

We all have our own opinion but given that I am a mom nothing matters more to me than my kids happiness. So either I would have stayed back or made sure I have my kids with me as the main custodian.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: noexcuse

That's what most women do. Stays stuck with a no hope relationship just for the sake of kids.

It would not have been fair on Nir if she did stay back but seeing what Shravan has become it makes me wonder whose happiness matters more? The mother's or the son's?

We all have our own opinion but given that I am a mom nothing matters more to me than my kids happiness. So either I would have stayed back or made sure I have my kids with me as the main custodian.


The childs. Isnt it clear see how her advise is working for Aditya and Rams advise is having a negative impact on Shrav...
She just abandoned him at the age of 16 to go off due to her husband and her happiness
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: noexcuse

That's what most women do. Stays stuck with a no hope relationship just for the sake of kids.

It would not have been fair on Nir if she did stay back but seeing what Shravan has become it makes me wonder whose happiness matters more? The mother's or the son's?

We all have our own opinion but given that I am a mom nothing matters more to me than my kids happiness. So either I would have stayed back or made sure I have my kids with me as the main custodian.


What if the kid were closer to the dad? That's what we have seen so far. Shravan was always closer to his dad and ramu was a good father.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spshastr


The childs. Isnt it clear see how her advise is working for Aditya and Rams advise is having a negative impact on Shrav...
She just abandoned him at the age of 16 to go off due to her husband and her happiness


Is it really her advice that is writing? Adi should have been in his teens when niru became God's mom. There would have been others who asked have molded him in his formative years too.

But yes... between ramu and niru... the latter is happier person.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: poppinss



What if the kid were closer to the dad? That's what we have seen so far. Shravan was always closer to his dad and ramu was a good father.


Yes he was closer to Dad. In that case she should have fought for joint custody or partial. The way she left is unforgivable.

But, can't say he was a good dad. He filled shravan up with extreme questionable ideas which is making his life difficult.
Nir had ideas about Ram's personality then why he trusted him with her son's upbringing.
There is a reason why nature gives two parents to a kid.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup



Who says you have to enjoy shopping.

Just spend the guy's money and teach him a lesson.

And then doubt him with every woman he meets in his profession...make his life hell.😆



Quite mean , eh ?
Hahahah

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