ShraMan and Sides

Hey all, making a post after almost forever. Lol. Anyway to the main reason of my post and what my post is about: ShraMan and sides.

The current track has all of us really frustrated and pissed off. We all want to choose sides and pick who is right or wrong. And while watching the episodes, I was thinking on whose side to choose. Shravan or Sumo? Who is right? Who is wrong? And while one minute I would pick on one, the next had me pick the other. In the end I realised, there is no point. Why? Because they are as flawed as each one of us are. They both make mistakes, both err in judging and both love their families more than they love themselves.

Wondering why I am saying all this? Because I am sure like me, many of you have been or have tried to pick sides.

I will end my post here as I am sure there are tons of arguments already on how Sumo should just go and tell Shravan or Shravan should use his lawyer skills and I kind of don't want to get in to that, although I am sure that is what my post will lead to😳😆😆

While I want to end this post at this, one more thing, I HATE Nirmala! Ramnath was an idiot but Nirmala is no less!

Please share your thoughts... If not, kam se kam like hi kardo mission pink ke khaatir...

Originally posted by: PlainJane

OMG. I agree with you.

I find something fishy about Nirmala. I don't like her. I am not saying Ramnath is a good guy. I just mean Nirmala herself can't talk a high ground. If you ask me, both Ramnath and Nirmala are horrible. Ramnath too controlling and Nirmala portraying herself as bechaari. Selfish idiots, both of them.😕

In the current scenario, I am on Shravan's side. Suman is being an idiot. Pushing him away for no good reason. She could sort out everything by sitting down and talking with him patiently.

Originally posted by: sriarshi

I know it is difficult to discuss anything in this forum...but o don't get one point during pct track everyone criticized shravan and I agree... He did wrong so everyone accepted.. Same goes for ramanath.. Same whenever shravan did wrong.. We raised our opinions!!

Now in this marriage track Suman was right and we all know how difficult for her to stay away from Shravan.. We know the reason.. So I accepted almost until Sangeet.. I know her behavior with shravan is still rude but I accepted her and I know the reason!!

But Sangeet scenario pissed me to a level I can't express myself... Here in the forum for the sake of negativity no one discuss openly I understand their fears.. But where can we discuss.. I am here for 5 months.. I am not active anywhere only active here.. If anything goes wrong.. I can raise that point na..

After Sangeet I lost my hopes on shraman romance.. For the sake of drama how they r ruining shraman.. For the sake of jealousy how they r ruining shraman.. If they can't show scenes on shraman it's ok.. But what is the need of sumo adi scenes!!

I still I don't find logic in the way sumo avoiding shravan.. I still don't find any logic in shravan not getting why his best friend suddenly avoiding... But this is not causing any damage to shraman.. I am ok until shravan find another girl.. But here already cv's r not giving any logic with sumo comforters with Aditya.. She is not even remember him na.. Then that much closeness I never seen between shraman till date.. So what is the logic for cv's to show adaman?

Any girl will easily find any boy intentions?? We r living in 2016 no one can do anything with out expecting from u.. If u still say they r friends for sake of friendship why they r not being in touch in all these day's.. But this adi track no sense at all.. If this after marriage may be it make some sense we get rid of these romantic scenes!!

My biggest concern is why sumo is not getting Aditya intentions.. Still now sumo character is with flawless but now her behavior and Aditya closeness is not the sumo i am watching from 5 months.. I still remember how sumo excited to see shravan during initial episodes.. Why they r butchering her character!!

If they can't show Shraman ok.. Please don't show any romance.. But for the sake of drama r bringing nirmala if u show adiman we r not here to watch them!!

Originally posted by: sriarshi

My biggest concern is why sumo is not getting Aditya intentions.. Still now sumo character is with flawless but now her behavior and Aditya closeness is not the sumo i am watching from 5 months.. I still remember how sumo excited to see shravan during initial episodes.. Why they r butchering her character!!

If they can't show Shraman ok.. Please don't show any romance.. But for the sake of drama r bringing nirmala if u show adiman we r not here to watch them!!

On nirmala I hate her.. One word she is failed mother.. Ramnath and nirmala I hate them.. I can forgive ramanath atleast but Nirmala no way.. Why I forgive ramanath as a father to shravan not for what he did for shraman!!

This is strictly my POV

Thank u

Originally posted by: PlainJane

I get your point. I can tolerate Ramnath. I can even understand him to a certain extent. I don't forgive him for separating ShraMan. But, I can understand him because he truly loves his son Shravan. Nirmala on the other is not very convincing when she says she loves Shravan. If she loved Shravan then how could she live not seeing her son at all. Did she try hard enough?

I am not bashing anyone. I just think it's hypocritical that Nirmala makes Ramnath to be a villain when she is not doodh-ki-dhuli herself. I am just putting across my personal feelings. No offense intended.

IMO, Ramnath is at least interesting. Way more than Nirmala. Everything was going right before Nirmala decided to visit Delhi.

Shravan is so good and kind. I feel sad for him for having such dysfunctional parents.

Originally posted by: PrincessAshVik

I totally understand your frustrations dear. In fact sangeet was one time I was upset at Sumo. Majorly pissed at her!

First she refused his indirect help with the hall and was on about self respect etc and leave alone everything was very very rude to him. It had me think can she not see his pain? How much she is hurting him?!

Second after talking to Kamini (Sumo apologising to Kamini), when he talks to her really nicely, she is super super rude with him. That really pissed me off.

The only thing I can say is sometimes in the heat of the moment we don't realise what exactly we are doing and how much we end up hurting others. This is a very lame attempt at trying to justify what is happening, but look at it this way, this guys till talks to her, still smiles when he sees her inspite of everything, can you imagine how much he must be loving her? She still talked to him when he was pushing her away (although he told her it's not her but himself as to why he is doing all that whereas she just started pushing him away randomly {in his opinion}). She is doing all she can to push him away when she had told Ramnath with full confidence that Shravan himself will come to her... What exactly did she mean there? That she will push him away and see if he comes back? Or that she will let it be and see what he does? Because it looks like the former atm. Kind of confusing!

Regarding frustrations, negativity, I think if opinions are expressed properly without bashing and if the one who posts is ready to listen to other opinions, these should be no problem😳

Originally posted by: sriarshi

@ bold exactly my thoughts...u put it in a better way

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agree with u completely...

if we criticize one character it doesn't mean we can take on oneside...with out sumo r with out shravan ...shraman can't happen...this is everyone knows it...so i don't tell who all r pissed of with this track are all negetive...i understand their concern..i know how much hurt everyone now...

if cv's show shraman properly no one can point any flaws in any character..cv's have chosen wrong for sumo to avoiding shrvan...because already ramnath track some waht strecthed...we didn't like shravan...now stretching this marriage with out one romantic scenes is like hell ..we have watched all shraman scenes almost they upset with each other...we didn't get any proper scenes...

The way sumo character developed in all these 5 months was awesome...i love her so much same goes for shravan...i never took anyone side in any track...but in this track i am not tooking sharvan side but just pointing out how sumo character changed...not only because she is rude...where is fighting sumo...is the same sumo fighted for her mother name reputation...is the same sumo how she wanted to stop shravan going to london...is the same sumo fighted back in pct track...is the same sumo who wanted to tell shravan she loves him too...

Now with this aditya track is full of loop holes..some time cv's show how cheap aditya and some times how he is helping sumo? is this is a joke they r not even in contact with her all these days and come home and like i am single ready to mingle types...no logic at all

Till now until sangeet how many times in this forum many of them r raised their opinions i commented like please trust cv's...blindly trust them

Until this marriage track i trusted cv's blindly...but now i am not in a mood to think about them...i even stop thinking about shraman tooo...and thier romance...we can't do anything except expressing our views here

Originally posted by: PlainJane

I get your point. I can tolerate Ramnath. I can even understand him to a certain extent. I don't forgive him for separating ShraMan. But, I can understand him because he truly loves his son Shravan. Nirmala on the other is not very convincing when she says she loves Shravan. If she loved Shravan then how could she live not seeing her son at all. Did she try hard enough?

I am not bashing anyone. I just think it's hypocritical that Nirmala makes Ramnath to be a villain when she is not doodh-ki-dhuli herself. I am just putting across my personal feelings. No offense intended.

IMO, Ramnath is at least interesting. Way more than Nirmala. Everything was going right before Nirmala decided to visit Delhi.

Shravan is so good and kind. I feel sad for him for having such dysfunctional parents.

Also, I agree. Stop showing Adi-Suman romance, just for the hell of it. It's ShraMan or nothing.

Just my feelings. No hurt intended.