This is going good - Why are we over-reacting?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ok first of all guys I think I quite liked today's episode. Yes I might be in minority but I liked it. When I read the posts on forum I honestly thought it must be a very bad episode. ANd that thing about Pushkar being shown out of character, I was literally surprised but after watching the epi I laughed it off. I don't know why we are over-reacting so much. This was just like we expected.

Shravan is constantly thinking about Sumo avoiding him. We cannot forget that this man has been constantly brain-washed by his dad against true love. His love has been constantly compared to a woman who supposedly two-timed his father and left him all by himself when he was just a kid. It's obvious he is gonna reminisce the warnings. Its not his faith in Sumo that is lacking but its the fear of his dad's warnings being a reality. So if he reminds his dad's words its no big deal. Neither does it make his love any small. The man is just confused by the false demi-god image of his father in his eyes. Thats all. Afterall its not easy to ever imagine that your parent can be so mean to you. That is something way beyond him.

Later the scene with Pushkar, well I dont think that was a character assassination of Pushkar. I think this is same as saying, If someone told me a thing X about someone, I will always relate that person to that X irrespective if that person is even remotely related to X. Pushkar too was just normally saying that how Preeti is very sweet and she understands him, even sometimes says sorry when its his mistake. Not even once he said that a girl should be like this who doesnt has her own voice or who abides by the man's decision. It was because Ramnath poisoned Shravan's mind that Shravan took it in a totally different sense.

Having said that, I feel the detailing regarding to ShraMan has increased a lot in past few days. The way smallest feelings of wait, anger, pain was shown from both sides, it was so beautiful. I think a lot happened today. For once, Kamini is now geared up against PreeKar and I think by now she is much aware that her demands or her stupid tricks will not work with Tiwaris. Now she is gonna play her big card ie ShraMan. As soon as she comes to know about the deal b/w Ramu and Sumo she will do something huge.

As for ShraMan, both at the moment look justified to me. Shra's anger, his anticipation to meet her, his happiness when their eyes meet or when he thinks she will feed him the sweets, its so heart-warming <3 I think for a while he might think that does what Ramu was saying abt Sumo is that true but then He will follow his heart and put all his faith in Sumo. During engagement he will himself notice that how she cares for him. So its obvious he cant think that she hates him or only considers him a friend. And Sumo, well the girl is b/w a rock and a hard place. She has to stay away from him until she can openly reject him and break his heart. That is way too difficult for her. Neither can she avoid him totally in such marriage atmosphere. So staying away from him is her only way out till she musters up the courage to say no to him.

So all in all, I feel a lot of progress happened today. Though this marriage, these ceremonies are for PreeKar but actually this seems like a celebration for ShraMan. The kind of depth that has been given to their love, is amazing!! Now I just cant wait for the precap and bandage scene. I am dying to see Shra's expression when she goes all worried seeing him hurt He will surely be ecstatic 😆

And last but not the least, I have full faith in Kamini, she is the biggest enemy of Bhaisahab, even bigger than Sumo 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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hey - i think what we are refering to is not the plot or shraman as such but the way they have literally made a mockery of a social issue. this was not expected from a realistic show like this.
Also, yes pushkar's reaction to shravan was super out of character for me! what he said about preeti and the way he sees women was not required. again - what atleast i have been talking about is that and not the plot itself - hope it clarifies 😛
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Res...
Will get back to u in detail...

Btw we dont have prob with Shraman progression per se..

But other issues are bothering us
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Travelocity

hey - i think what we are refering to is not the plot or shraman as such but the way they have literally made a mockery of a social issue. this was not expected from a realistic show like this.

Also, yes pushkar's reaction to shravan was super out of character for me! what he said about preeti and the way he sees women was not required. again - what atleast i have been talking about is that and not the plot itself - hope it clarifies😛



I do get your point dear...And theres only one point that bothers me nthat is Pushkar not saying anything against the demands. Apart from that everything is fine. Girls like Preeti do exist. Rather Preetis are more common than Sumos. Not all girls are so independent n brave. I think we all are somewhere like Sumo so preetis behaviour disgusts us but its pretty realistic. And Shravan not saying anything abt chachis demands is well justifed, he know chach doesnt want him to interfere.

As for what Pushkar said abt Preeti, I think you can rewatch it. That was not in a wrong sense. He was just praising preeti. Its Shra who took it in wrong sense.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Simple yaar - Sumo behavior is so weird, why she is not even cordial with Sharvan
Doesn't it feel hard suddenly your friend stop talking with you
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sneha_17

Simple yaar - Sumo behavior is so weird, why she is not even cordial with Sharvan

Doesn't it feel hard suddenly your friend stop talking with you



No her behaviour is not weird dr...she cant stay close to him else her love will come in between. She loves him too much to just stay good friends. With tht much intensity of love theirs no midway.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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This.
You said everything I've been thinking after watching today's episode.
It shouldn't be surprising of Shravan to compare Preeti's raining praises and Sumo's apparent faults. Afterall, she DID keep him waiting for hours and was rather rude and dismissive about it later, all of these when he was about to confess to her. It's only normal to be upset about it. For all he knows, his best friend is being uncharacteristically ignorant to him out of the blue. He's still not blaming her for it. He's sure there is sime reason behind it. All he exclaimed was "Sorry bolna toh dur, usne mujhse pucha tak nahi ki kya baat karni thi.." Or something along these lines. He didn't say it in any menacing way, though. It's just seemed to me that woh bas rutha hua hai Sumo se. Itna haq toh use hai na?

But um..linking Pushkar's word's to Ramnath's ridiculous notions about how a "woman should be" made it seem like he is silently consenting to his Dad's views. That's wrong. He needs to get his head out of Papa-worship ASAP.

Thank you for making this post! 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika



No her behaviour is not weird dr...she cant stay close to him else her love will come in between. She loves him too much to just stay good friends. With tht much intensity of love theirs no midway.


She is not in love just now, she is in love more than 10 years.

She very well managed after his return suddenly her love will come in between, i don't feel so

She is not right this time

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sneha_17



She is not in love just now, she is in love more than 10 years.

She very well managed after his return suddenly her love will come in between, i don't feel so

She is not right this time




Ya but at tht time she hadnt promised his dad to keep away frm him. She had the right then...she doesnt have it now.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika



Ya but at tht time she hadnt promised his dad to keep away frm him. She had the right then...she doesnt have it now.


whatever, I don't approve this kind of rude behavior towards him, when Sharvan did this we all bashed him just she is being selfish for Preeti doesn't justify this

I would never want a person to marry off my sister who is spineless and can't take a stand

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