Wish Suman had retorted back

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Posted: 9 years ago
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😡When Shravan was telling her what's with the self respect drama and why she didn't hesitate to take his help then and why she doesn't want his help now how I wish Suman had given it back to him and said he is not the same guy anymore and he is not her friend.
she didn't have to shut up take that from him.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I actually hoped she would say something like...Shravan you need to realize that I have grown up...for you I may be frozen in time...but you need to know that I have changed!! Aur jo dosti ka haath tumne badhaya tha mere taraf...that was for the grown up Sumo! And after he said the zaroorat pade toh zindagi bhar saath doonga...she should have said...zindagi bhar ke saath ke liye mujhe pehchanna aur mujhpe bharosa karna zaroori hai!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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yeah but instead she sat there stumped as if agreeing with him. i do not understand how that was acceptable. yes, he cares but he still called her self-respect a drama which made me cringe. her inability to reply made it seem like she agreed with him 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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have u noticed that when ever shravan brings up her past action she gets a little tongue tied and doesnt offer any explanation .. i have seen in couple of instances .. this just makes curious to think tht she does feel guilty the way she made shravan feel while growing up .. not sure if its the intention of cvs but my opinion 😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: --BLRbabe--

have u noticed that when ever shravan brings up her past action she gets a little tongue tied and doesnt offer any explanation .. i have seen in couple of instances .. this just makes curious to think tht she does feel guilty the way she made shravan feel while growing up .. not sure if its the intention of cvs but my opinion 😊


good point - she probably does! i think that all these two need to do is sit and talk. bloody communication issues - yeh dono toh aise act kar rahe hain jaise adimanav ke zamaane ke hain 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I wish the same...There is still time, the Cvs still can clear this to Shravan for once and all that what has changed between them isn't her, it's him!

She has always reached him out because that has always how it's has been between them. That is her first instinct, to reach him out...That was what has become nature for both of them, him helping her when she reaches out...Then it was okay because she thought of it as her haq BECAUSE he never told her or made her feel otherwise...

The difference between then and now is that then he never made her count down the things he has done for her, never he backed off from helping her...In fact, he, in many ways has made that she depends on him. Never he complained and never made her feel bad for it.

But he does it now...He does all of it now and that is why she doesn't want his help now because what was then a 'haq' now is a 'burden', because that what he makes her feel now...That is what he has made her realize ever since he came back...And now toh point hi nahi banta to take his help, has he forgotten why she is so distant, what he has said and done before the accident? Now because he wants it, she has to act and be according to him. Does he realizes, that now between them it's him who demands and order around? Now it's him who is taking her for granted...

Now it seems like he has somehow started to think of her as a selfish being who wants and needs his help, and only that...'Oh now she realized how stupid she was being, and how she needs me that is why she is calling' <- Isn't that what he said when Dabbo has called him from her phone? That means that is all what he thinks she wants him for...The reality is that it's him who needs her needing him...The reality is that it's him who is not coming out of the role he had in her life in the past. It's him who needs her to need him. Because that is how he functions, he is so used to it that he can't even think that Suman can act otherwise. That is why he doesn't want her self-respect to come in between...

So, he has to realize it and stop taunting her, stop seeing her the way he does...

Cvs have to make that clear to him, give Suman the words to tell him what is the difference, why she won't take his help now, and what has changed between them. He has to know and stop being stupid for once and look at her the way a strong woman with self-respect is looked up to...

His love and care for her is never going to be needed if doesn't even sees her for who she is and doesn't stop being so irrational...
Edited by A.Hajnal - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: A.Hajnal

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I wish the same...There is still time, the Cvs still can clear this to Shravan for once and all that what has changed between them isn't her, it's him!</font>


<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">She has always reached him out because that has always how it's has been between them. That is her first instinct,to reach him out...That was what has become nature for both of them, him helping her when she reachesout...Then it was okay because she thought of it as her haqBECAUSE he never told her or made her feel otherwise...</font>

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">The difference between then and now is that then he never made her count down the things he has done for her, never he backed off from helping her...In fact, he, in many ways has made that she depends on him. Never he complained and never made her feel bad for it.</font>

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Now it seems like he has somehow started to think of her as a selfish being who wants and needs his help, and only that...'Oh now she realized how stupid she was being, and how she needs me that is why she is calling'<- Isn't that what he said whenDabbohas called him from her phone? That means he thinks, in fact, it's him who needs her needing him...</font>

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">But he does it now...He does all of it now and that is why she doesn't want his help now because what was then a 'haq' now is a 'burden', because that what he makes her feel now...That is what he has made her realize ever since he came back...And now toh point hi nahi banta to take his help, has he forgotten why she is so distant, what he has said and done before the accident? Now because he wants it, she has to act and be according to him. Does he realizes, that now between them it's him who demands and order around? Now it's him who is taking her for granted...</font>

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">The reality is that it's him who is not comingout of the role he has in her life in the past. It's him who needs her to need him. Because that is how he functions. That is why he doesn't want her self-respect to come in between...So, he has to realize itand stop taunting her...</font>

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Cvs have to make that clear to him, give Suman the words to tell him what is the difference, why she won't take his help now, and what has changed between them. He has to know and stop being stupid for once and look at her the way a strong woman with self-respect is looked up to...</font>

<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">His love and care for her is never going to be needed if doesn't even sees her for who she is and doesn't stop being so irrational...</font>
<font size="2" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"></font>


Beautiful! I was also surprised hear shravan remind her if things he did for her. Cvs never do things for nothing. I hope they address this in coming episodes. I think they will.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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May be it's the way cvs wants them to think how they were when kids getting old sharvan and sumo back even in precap when he reminds her abt the paint compitition she said that he helped her. So cooking too he will be there for her. She is asking for it.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: noexcuse

Beautiful! I was also surprised hear shravan remind her if things he did for her. Cvs never do things for nothing. I hope they address this in coming episodes. I think they will.


Thank you! 😳

I know! One would think that he has outgrown of 'I have done this and that for you' taunts and reminders but he hasn't...So, I really hope so, same as you that they are doing it to end that kind of thinking of Shravan. The conversation between them on the past, then-and-now has been pending since forever, so I hope they live up to your trust on them...They better!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Travelocity

yeah but instead she sat there stumped as if agreeing with him. i do not understand how that was acceptable. yes, he cares but he still called her self-respect a drama which made me cringe. her inability to reply made it seem like she agreed with him 😆


yeah i agree with you, it was like he was correct and she just had to shut up at his truth

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