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Lyla Khan

@Echoesofpassion

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Posted: 9 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: crazy_vaish

You echo my thoughts bruh! I think even Shravan lashing out at Sumo at the office was an impulsive reaction.

You should be made the creative of the show. Such beautiful analysis and the tilte "What goes around comes around"👏👏 . I love how you present your thoughts❤️

Loll! Arey nahin yaar, I just highlight what the cvs have already shown haha❤️ they have much more in depth knowledge than I do. Thank you tho😳

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Lyla Khan

@Echoesofpassion

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Posted: 9 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: Eeshaal
Ghana you know I love your posts girl , and always call you voice of reason but u once told me you have soft spot for shrawan and I can sense it in this post 😆 , I have commented on other shrawan post that what he did was wrong but we need to understand that what he did was all because of Ramnath ,in his mind Ramnath was the only person who was thr when other ppl betrayed him ( mom and Sumo) , it's other story how Ramnath did it through manipulating him . But where his dad is concerned shrawan uses his heart not brains and that what we saw in office today too .
Now what goes around comes around part , I think in Sumans case it's been come around couple of times now , the party , the infinite beizzatis he did so I am not sure how much she needs to pay for what she did when she was a teenager .
If we are comparing the actions of a 16 yr old with someone who is now 28-29 than I think thr is something wrong . Appreciate you and your writing hugs 🤗

Yes I do have a soft spot for Shravan cuz his character is more layered, complex and delicate for me. But even so I was not defending him in my post. I was just explaining why he reacted the way he did and how it wasn't out of his character. Shravan is not perfect. He is flawed. He makes human mistakes. But thats what makes him so realistic and relatable. I never said what he is doing is right. I clearly said hes also gunna have to make up for the hurt he caused her the same way she had to for the hurt she caused him. Sorry but I dont think age excuses the fact that you hurt someone and broke their trust at their lowest moment. Sumo was wrong 10 years ago and Shravan is today. Yes Sumo has gotten her fair share and I am not saying she needs to go through more. I was just pointing out the parallel I saw in the current track in relation with the past and how the tables have turned now. Sumo is gunna understand how Shravan felt all those years back and Shravan will understand how Sumo felt when he blamed her for what she didn't intend to do with the Nirmala thing. They both will understand each other in the truest sense now and thats what I was trying to bring across in my post. Yes I still expect a heartfelt true apology from Sumo because till now she didnt understand the depth of how he really felt. But now her apology will be so much deeper than before. And same goes from Shravan. In no way was I defending either one. I know we are all upset with Shravan but this track was needed for them to truly understand each other's wounds. They will come out much stronger from this.

Edited by Echoesofpassion - 9 years ago

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kuchnaakahoo

@kuchnaakahoo

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Posted: 9 years ago

#23

Do not agree with u at all.. What shravan did just cannot be justified..

ok in his eyes, sumo is at fault as she was rude to his divine father.. tried to reunite him to a monster like Nirmala.. she made fun of him in childhood when he needed her the most.. as u mentioned..

but i think Shravan already took revenge by demeaning infront of a gathering..

All in all Sumo is wrong if we consider his POV.. fair enough ..but is her KARMA so grave that she deserved what all happened to her today,, has she WRONGED him so much that he isnt even ready to sympathise with her n feel guilty for what he did unknowingly... it was PTC for pete's sake, her dream, the imprints of her mother, employment of all those innocent women involved.. still what he could think was his damned FATHER..

Even a stranger can understand the pain she is going thru.. n shravan, a supposed frnd, turned entirely cold towards the situation..

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Lyla Khan

@Echoesofpassion

Rocker

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Posted: 9 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: TheSmurfs
Do not agree with u at all.. What shravan did just cannot be justified..
ok in his eyes, sumo is at fault as she was rude to his divine father.. tried to reunite him to a monster like Nirmala.. she made fun of him in childhood when he needed her the most.. as u mentioned..
but i think Shravan already took revenge by demeaning infront of a gathering..
All in all Sumo is wrong if we consider his POV.. fair enough ..but is her KARMA so grave that she deserved what all happened to her today,, has she WRONGED him so much that he isnt even ready to sympathise with her n feel guilty for what he did unknowingly... it was PTC for pete's sake, her dream, the imprints of her mother, employment of all those innocent women involved.. still what he could think was his damned FATHER..
Even a stranger can understand the pain she is going thru.. n shravan, a supposed frnd, turned entirely cold towards the situation..

I think you missed the whole point of my post. I was pointing out a parallel. And it clearly connects back to the past. By Karma, I didnt just mean Karma for Sumo. I am not just saying that things have come around for her but they have for Shravan as well. He's also gunna feel what Sumo felt all those years. He's also gunna feel how it feels to be hated for something you didn't mean to do. Hes gunna get his fair share too. And thats how real life is. What goes around always comes around whether you believe it or not. I know PCT was her life and the whole culprit behind this mess is Ramnath, who manipulated his son. The reason Shravan yelled was out of impulse cuz in the moment he saw her yelling at his father and in that moment he couldnt see that. Like I said Shravan reacts first than thinks, thats how his character is. What he did wasn't right at all. But I think you missed the guilt in his eyes as soon as Sumo started backing off. Its like he got back in his senses as soon as she said. You could see the clear confliction in his eyes. He's so clearly conflicted between his father and hurting the person he loves. This confliction is not gunna go away overnight. Especially not till he knows the truth. Even when Pushkar came he just assumed Shravan did this on purpose. And that naturally made him react that way. Its a human reaction to lash out when u get blamed for something you didnt intend to do. You feel you dont need to explain yourself cuz its not worth it as the other person already assumed the worst. The guilt was clear in his eyes and we will see more if that in the coming episodes. What hes doing is wrong and hes gunna have to make up for it, just like Sumo had to. I don't think their situations were very different. They both were at their lowest, Shravan lost his mom when he needed her and Sumo lost something very close to her mothers name and she needed him. I was only pointing out this obvious parallel. And also why aren't his mistakes redeemable? Of course what he did was wrong but does that mean he cant be redeemed for it? Just because someone makes one mistake, that too unknowingly, doesn't mean theyre not worthy of the other one 's love anymore. Ppl said the same stuff about Sumo at the beginning of the show.. Its like saying if two ppl were in a relationship and they had a fight, then thats it, relationship over you never talk to them again. Isn't that kind of childish? Shravan still has to make up for this for sure and he will. But such complicated matters like this, even in real life, we can't jump to the conclusions whether the other person is worthy or not. You have to think with a cool mind before coming to such drastic decisions. And most of the times, if the relationship was real, then person was worth fighting for. And that goes for both Sumo and Shravan.

Just my take. You can agree to disagree :)

Edited by Echoesofpassion - 9 years ago

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PrincessAshVik

@PrincessAshVik

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Posted: 9 years ago

#25

Wow! Lots of differences on this particular topic. Quite touchy it is.

So my take on this.

What Shravan did was a mistake things we all do in the heat of the moment. We all lash out when we are really angry and here it was the question of his dad who has always been by his side (we know how but he doesn't, give him that benefit of doubt) versus the woman he loves but is currently angry at because she badmouthed (for the lack of a better word) his dad and was shouting at the same father at present. Of course he is going to get upset at her!!

The moment she repeated his words to him, he realised what exactly happened and you could see the regret in his eyes. I am not saying this justifies the whole shut up and get lost thing which I too hated completely.

I mentioned this in one of my other posts as well:

He needed her the most, she pushed him away. He was shattered.

She needs him the most, is at her lowest low and he has pushed her away. She is broken completely.

These 2 are hurt for each other and because of each other. And only they can heal each other.

Last thing, don't we all get angry at someone we love in the heat of the moment? Leave alone the fact that she was shouting at his dad who in his eyes is his world and can never do wrong while she has even though unintentionally? Do we forget the pain somebody gives us after we forgive them? The scars are etched forever in our hearts and minds. Which is why it is said that the tongue is sharper than the sword.

Posting from phone please ignore typos and errors.

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Fero

@Euphoria_V

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Posted: 9 years ago

#26

Good post 👏
And I do agree

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micshy

@micshy

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Posted: 9 years ago

#27

Awesome post 👏👏

And actually its got me completely .. the frst post that indeed made me feel less bad fr whats happened...

And i agree, maybe them not showing Sumo asking fr apology was this reason, they wamted them to get truly even...

But one fact is what Sumo did then was in her immatirity, but Shravan did as an adult n fully knowing the pros n cons...

But yeahhh it makes sense...

So going by this karma now Sumo is going to be all cold and aloof 😃

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Lyla Khan

@Echoesofpassion

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Posted: 9 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: PrincessAshVik
Wow! Lots of differences on this particular topic. Quite touchy it is.
So my take on this.

What Shravan did was a mistake things we all do in the heat of the moment. We all lash out when we are really angry and here it was the question of his dad who has always been by his side (we know how but he doesn't, give him that benefit of doubt) versus the woman he loves but is currently angry at because she badmouthed (for the lack of a better word) his dad and was shouting at the same father at present. Of course he is going to get upset at her!!

The moment she repeated his words to him, he realised what exactly happened and you could see the regret in his eyes. I am not saying this justifies the whole shut up and get lost thing which I too hated completely.

I mentioned this in one of my other posts as well:
He needed her the most, she pushed him away. He was shattered.

She needs him the most, is at her lowest low and he has pushed her away. She is broken completely.

These 2 are hurt for each other and because of each other. And only they can heal each other.

Last thing, don't we all get angry at someone we love in the heat of the moment? Leave alone the fact that she was shouting at his dad who in his eyes is his world and can never do wrong while she has even though unintentionally? Do we forget the pain somebody gives us after we forgive them? The scars are etched forever in our hearts and minds. Which is why it is said that the tongue is sharper than the sword.

Posting from phone please ignore typos and errors.

Exactly!! That's exactly the parallel that I saw. What went around came back around. That's how life works unfortunately.

And I love what you said there!

"These 2 are hurt for each other and because of each other. And only they can heal each other."

So true❤️

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Chaits_04

@Chaits_04

Voyager

Posted: 9 years ago

#29

You stole my heart Ghanna...

After yesterday's episode I was very sad not for all the misunderstandings between them but that moment when he said "get lost" that was shocking for me! Being an woman I really felt how will things go right now? I was really worried... how will they justify what he did!

But then I consoled myself with her past behaviour! SHe rather did the same in their past, by ignoring and insulting in spite of him telling that his mother has left him! Because of this he had to leave a life far from his home, loved ones, without friends, probably there was no real fun in his life then. But still he woke up from all this and was fine with her, yes she did apologise for that now, So the table has turned now..

I don't know how, but the mess has to be cleaned and Shravan has to do a lot work as there is resistance from all sides except from pushkar!

But I did notice the angst and guilt in him in the office and at home when pushkar came to talk to him...

He like anybody feeling guilty asked "why all are blaming me..." He knows he had not done his homework regarding the case. He also tried to say if not him somebody else would have done this as the PCT was on illegal land!!! Reality bites... I too agree that lot of people were involved with the PCT were affected. But it had to happen anyways... Only thing it would have happened in a democratic way...

May be this is how I consoled myself... Many may not agree...

But reading your post was happy that it somewhere matched my thought frequency!!

Thank you for your post and as usual I wait for your post... I have seen one more post of yours shall comment on it later...