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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shravan unknowingly harmed Suman today. If you for a second put yourself in Sharavan's shoes, you will see that he is really confused about Suman and blinded by his Dad's love. He thinks all women including Suman cannot be trusted and respected . With all other things equal, when a person you don't trust is attacking the person you trust, your immediate instinct would be to jump in and support the person you trust... Even if you are unaware of all the background details. That's what Shravan did today. At that moment, he was only a son. He failed to be Suman's friend.

For this relationship to work, Shravan needs to trust and respect Suman. There is no way this will happen with the way things were. Sharavan needed a big push for him to see clearly...see the Suman he has fallen in love with, see that she is no longer the same teenager he once knew . He needs to r realize that she is his soulmate. He will find peace with her. It will happen because Ramanath is going to help with that .

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I was not able to watch last few episodes as their pain affected me badly.

Today the way Shravan behaved made me realize that he doesn't deserve the pain I feel and don't want Sumo to give damn about him.

I never believed in EGO between friends, after today Shravan needs to know others too have pride and self-respect

Sumo made me feel proud as well whole hat offs to whole Tiwaris 😊

Sumo deserves better
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sneha_17

I was not able to watch last few episodes as their pain affected me badly.

Today the way Shravan behaved made me realize that he doesn't deserve the pain I feel and don't want Sumo to give damn about him.

I never believed in EGO between friends, after today Shravan needs to know others too have pride and self-respect

Sumo made me feel proud as well whole hat offs to whole Tiwaris 😊

Sumo deserves better



Agreed, the last few episodes have been painful to watch but it also shows the character strengths and flaws. That is why I have the subject as beautiful episode.
Last few episodes showed Suman's strength and her support system coming together to help her out. Also, notice that even though Sumo lost her parents, she still has her family holding her together and helping her move forward. I have to say Preeta is an awesome friend. Sumo has absolutely amazing attitude in this case and going in the right direction. Today looks bad for her but if she continues in the way she is going, her tomorrow will be beautiful.

On the other hand, you have Shravan who has both his parents and he is also living with his extended family. Unfortunately, no one really cares for him. Friends who really love him are mad at him. The one very important person in his life (Ramanath) is hell bent on ruining his happiness. He has no friends at this point. With Sumo going thru this pain, he is also in pain with no one to share this with. I feel this guilt and loneliness that Shravan is going thru is worse than what Sumo is facing.

Also, you need to remember that Shravan's role model is Ramanath. He has seen how Ramanath treats women including his wife and he is learning from it. At this point, he thinks that is the right way to treat women. His mother is not with him to correct this. For him to understand what he is doing wrong and cut the cord with his father, he will need to go through this. My point here is that Shravan is not a bad person. He is just misguided. As much as you think he is doing this because of ego, i think he has no clue on what he is doing or how to fix it. He is just running blind.

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